I think what you are calling "negative manifestations" would be better called "becoming clearer about what I like or don't like" :)

Look at things a different way.

Let's say you receive a mail order catalog which you could peruse and order stuff from.

And the company behind it operated a policy that if something you ordered wasn't quite the way you expected it to be from the picture in the catalog, you could send it back and get something different.

And you could keep doing that until you were satisfied with your purchase. And you could do that as often as you wanted...and there would be no time limit on returns.

Wouldn't you be happy with an organization that operated that kind of business?

Wouldn't you say they offered amazing customer support?

Wouldn't you be delighted that they allowed you to try things out and see if you liked them as often you wanted?

...or would you instead decide that their wonderful try-it-before-you-buy-it approach was intended to "make you stronger and learn"? :)

hi,

it's not necessarily that you hold the same vibrations that those men hold. but its a possibility.

there are few options:

1. you hold the same vibrations, like if you're both enthusiastic or both happy or both frustrated or sad you'll find it comfertable ,easy and fun to be with each other.
2. you hold the opposite of each other's vibration. just like "good" attract "bad". just like the taker find the giver, just like the aggressive find the jentle. (they both find each other).

so in the first option - it's more about empower each other, appreciation and flow.

in the second - its more about find balance, knowing what WE want (not the other), find confidance to appreciate ourselves, decision making and folow through.

so basiccaly you have to know yourself really really good in order to know what you want according to everything you already know and feel, regardless of what you think of their vibration. do it according to what you know about yours. it would make your decision/thinking prosses alot easier.