I did, and I'm regretting it. About a year and a half ago when I first started working with deliberate creation
I wrote down exactly what I wanted in a romantic partner as a request.
What should I do? Please help
How does it feel ? That is what is right or wrong.
answered 25 Jun '11, 09:35
Just roll with it my friend and the right person will be there for you. I myself manifested a relationship but it's sort of a long story. The short story is that my sparks flew for a girl right away just like you, and then I let her go not realizing that she was the one. Then I met someone else, the sparks were flying and I thought she was the one, but she wasn't. I was a bit confused at this point till I saw the first girl again and I realized I had been seeing her in my dreams. I knew that it must be her and we are now happily married with two beautiful daughters.
Love and Light
answered 25 Jun '11, 10:19
Why would it be too late? You said, "Now that I am feel I'm ready for a relationship I feel I have left it too late to be with this person, maybe because I have changed so much since then." If you have changed too much (in a positive way) to have a good relationship with her, then use the EFT and let her go. You said you "tried all the methods over and over for a long time." Did you try EFT? You may not be persistent enough. I do EFT on obsessive thoughts until they go away. For my obsessive, thoughts that distract me from listening to people and hearing the tv and stuff, I just tapped while watching tv until it went away.
Now I don't know you or the girl, so I have no idea if you are good for eachother or if your relationship will work. I haven't manifested a relationship, but I am not interested in dating while I am raising my child. But if you like the girl and you think she likes you, ask her to lunch or coffee. Get to know eachother. It's not like if you ask her out, you are committing to a life long relationship. Use the EFT to temper your emotions. You don't want to make desicions when your emotions are so out of whack. (That is one reason why dating would be a distraction for me while raising a child.)
The main thing is be happy while doing no harm.
answered 25 Jun '11, 13:40
Maybe now is the time to do something about it, if not you will never know,its worth a shot now than to live with regret.
answered 25 Jun '11, 18:44
I have been through this same exact situation down to the details!
I was not ready for that person and rejected her but that is what I had wanted for so long!
It was too late for me too. AND The reason I kept thinking about her (like you are) is becasue deep down I feared and doubted it would happen again.
BUT - It will happen again...
Maybe not in the same set of circumstances but don't hold on to her.
If it happens that both of you are on the same page again you will know it, it will be automatic, don't force it, it will end up hurting you.
answered 30 Jun '11, 17:32
If deep in your heart you still want to be with her, push your luck, brother! Experience has taught me that the faster you make an action, the better for you. It may seem somewhat ironic of me to say this in your situation, but do not let any more time pass. And if you did not take any action, it is even better. This relationship is no different than any other. You have the feeling that the time has passed, but she does not.
answered 30 Jun '11, 20:15
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