I dont know this person but I saw him eight years ago and since then I cant stop thinking about him. He is never out of my mind.I feel a lot for him . whenever something wrong happens to him I start crying. I dont know why I feel so attached to him. I have never met him but then also my love for him is so much that I have stopped thinking about myself only i think about him. Please help me.
At the risk of sounding a bit obvious, why don't you arrange to meet up with him (somehow) and see what happens?
When I first met the person I'm currently married to, I couldn't stop thinking about her either and, I found out later, it was the same for her too...but neither of us wanted to admit that :)
We didn't know each other at the time either but circumstances gradually transpired for us to get to know each other more and more.
But even if those opportunities hadn't transpired, I would probably still have artificially created a few because of the strength of that feeling. And I don't see any problem with you doing the same to, at least, find out whether you "get on"?
Maybe on meeting him finally, you might decide he isn't what you thought and your "love" for him might vanish...and then your problem is solved anyway :)
answered 29 Jun '11, 07:09
Dear Av, I had the same experiance with my now husband. For 7 years I couldnt get him out of my mind and even had a number of dreams about him. We worked for the same company but not the same section. I would get upset with myself thinking what on earth is this all about? Why doesnt theis person get out of my thoughts and dreams. Well 7 years later we had the opportunity to work together and within a day or two the thought just hit me "You are looking at your future husband" and from then on I knew with certanty that I would marry this man. We married a year later.
You never know what it could mean in your case but try and make contact with the person and see where it leads. If it leads to friendship good and if not seek help for the problem.
answered 07 Sep '11, 07:03
Where ever attention goes, energy flows.
Perhaps you can find something else to attach to??
It doesn't sound like this person has any interest in you, perhaps you can move on?
In what way do you care for the person, in a way that has some benefit for you or totally for the other person?
answered 02 Jul '11, 02:37
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