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recently a law of attraction teacher said that being truly detached means that you dont have to care whether you get the desired thing or not.But how can i fool myself to believe that ,if i truly need or want something( suppose i want to manifest a part time job ,i am in dire need of it ) and my life without that would be very tough.

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As background, I would like to refer you this previous posting that talks about the difficulty of trying to manifest things you need, and this previous posting that talks about how need interferes with manifesting.

But it's not very helpful of me to tell you how difficult it is to manifest things you need though, is it? Especially when you sound like you need a manifestation in a hurry. (I'm assuming that your example is more than just a random example)

So let's try and improve on that unhelpful answer a bit. :)

Let's list a couple of manifestational facts:

  • 99% of every manifestation is complete before you see any physical evidence of it - the only way you know then how close you are to seeing physical evidence of it is not through your five physical senses, but instead...how you feel about it. Once you are genuinely feeling hopeful of your manifestation coming, the physical evidence will start appearing...reaching the emotion of hope about a manifestation is the tipping point.

  • The neutral point is your friend...this is a favorite saying of mine. It means that if you do not stand in the way of your manifestation, it must come to you. Standing in the way means looking at it and feeling any negative emotion about it not being there yet. Feeling neutral about it is good enough to manifest it eventually.

So what do we get if we apply these to your situation?

We have that...

  • Even though you might be on the verge of manifesting your part-time job, the only physical indication you might have that it is almost there is that you are feeling hopeful about it.

  • Even if you can't feel hopeful about it, as long as don't feel negative emotion about it not having come yet, you will still get it eventually.

So let's deal right now with wiping out negative emotion about you not having the job yet...I would recommend learning EFT. It's quick, easy, effective and free to learn. There are lots of free videos on YouTube. Every time you think about your situation without a part-time job (and the implications of that), just use EFT to neutralize the negative emotion.

But it's not much use getting your job eventually since you want it as soon as possible, I presume.

In order to speed up the manifestation of anything, we need to flow more energy towards it. The purest way to flow energy towards something you want is to feel appreciation about it...the feeling of appreciation is actually an indicator of pure energy flow.

So to speed up the manifestation of your part-time job, start making lists of things about that part-time job that make you feel appreciative. Or visualize all the great things that will happen in your life once you get that part-time job. (I recommend getting a copy of Ask & It Is Given and looking at the manifestational processes listed there).

But here's the big twist in manifesting...since you are no longer standing in the way of your part-time job (we've handled the negative emotion with EFT, remember?), then any pure energy flow (i.e. appreciation) towards anything will automatically manifest your part-time job. This is because that pure energy flow of appreciation is flowing to everything you want at the same time. Sounds counter-intuitive doesn't it?

In other words, you don't have to detach from your part-time job to manifest it. You just have to not feel bad about it and then just use something as an excuse to feel appreciation - and that can include things totally unrelated to your part-time job.

Let's summarize.

The fastest way to manifest something you need (i.e. your part-time job) is the following.

Step 1. Get out of the way of your part-time job coming. Neutralize any negative emotion you feel regarding the lack of it.

Step 2. Now find anything in your life to feel good about and keep using that thing (or things) as an excuse for staying in that good-feeling place.

That's the overall strategy.

Notice I haven't said anything about taking action. If action is required, it will be inspired action. i.e. you will feel like you want to do it - there will be no force or effort required. You will know when this kind of action is necessary - it will be obvious to you.

This has been a quick and simplified crash course in manifesting things in a hurry. As I hinted at the start, manifesting things you need is tough but this overall strategy will at least get you heading in the right direction.

Hope you find all this at least a bit useful :)

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I was going to attempt answering this one, but Wow!! your answers are sometimes so spot on and helpful to everyone. Thank you:-) – Michaela Dec 16 at 2:32
Thanks Michaela. You're welcome. – Stingray Dec 16 at 7:44
Yes. I think I will skip answering this question as well. – Rani Oberoi Dec 16 at 16:55
Me three. A tremendous answer- which, btw, was helpful to me in a big way! Jaianniah – Jaianniah Dec 17 at 4:50
Stingray, You are just awesome! You can wonderfully explain the things that you understand. This is a skill my dear friend. But really helpful.. Thanks! – perfection Jan 4 at 6:22
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There is a difference between being in a state of having versus being in a state of wanting. When you are in a state of having, you are focused on the things you want. However, when you are in a state of wanting, you are focused on not having the things you want, and that will hinder the manifestation process.

Being detached, as you put it, means being in a state of receiving, so that manifestation can occur. It means being unconcerned with the outcome, because you know the universe always provides. It is the universe's job to manifest. It is your job to ask, and then receive. When you do this, your mind opens to the opportunities around you.

In the example you gave of needing a part-time job, you can choose to feel desperate, which focuses you on the condition of you not having a job, or you can choose to feel grateful for what you already have, and confident that the universe will provide what you need, which will focus you on the things you need to do to (and the attitude you need to project) to get your next job.

Employers much prefer the confident approach.

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I can tell you this most of my life I have focus on the negative of not having or lack of this or that. My needs in other words and the more I spoke about I need this or that or how life just want let goods things seem to come to me the more they don't the more something seems to guide them some where else.

I didn't realize that by me speaking the negative and not the postive whether it was needing food, a car, a job, a raise, or etc. The more of the lack I seem to have. As Stingray so gently and simply put it for us all to understand.

I had to learn to realize to speak the postive into my life and to think the postive as the bible says the tongue speaks life and death it also can speak happiness, good health, a good paying job, prosperity, wealth,joy and oneness with the Lord. God call his self putting it so simply for us to understand but as for myself I look over it and thought it meant ok don't lie on someone it will get them put in jail, killed, break up their marriage or make them lose their job that was how I was thinking I was not thinking in a 360 degree looking over the good and the bad that we speak and think God was trying to let us know the power he has laid down at our feet the power he has given us in the words that we speak and the thoughts that we think.

I am going to tell you how bad off I was one time at work all of a certain I stop and realize I had been HAPPY all day an before I could even enjoy that happy thought I immediatley begin to say and think what is going to happen something bad must be fixing to happen because I am just simply happy. That is so sad I didn't even allow my self to be happy for one day even not even a hour the moment I came to realize I was happy I instantly rejected it I guess because into my head from out of no way I said it.

So, than I started to learn after re-reading that in the bible after many years of doing the same thing I reallize I can I have the power to speak life, death, happiness, joy, good health, wealth into my own life. I am also learning to believe I even I can have those things. I came from a family that believed that if you worked hard enought than you would have something. I can write a book on that; that hard work does not make you a very successful and prosperious person but it does and can make you a very tired, wore out, and unhappy person for working hard as you can in life and still can not pay your common bills let alone having some of the things you want in life.

So, say your prayers to God and Jesus about it, think and speak postive things about your part time job you already have in your mind, and find something to make you happy or put you in a happy state if it is day dreaming about making enough money to pay your house off and go on a nice vacation and actually go there in your mind or build you a dream house or whatever it is that makes you happy.

I am starting to do that and I am begining to see the changes being made. I know it is hard but just pretend to be happy for a while and it will put you in a better vibrational frequency to have the things you want that makes you happy. Don't forget Jesus says ask anything in my name and you shall have it anything an really believe you have it already; claim it for it is already yours. I hope this helps.

And Stingray has outline a great deal to make you change your focus and thoughts on how to manifest things.

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To keep it short, you just have to learn more about life. Realize your position in space and time. Build your own understanding about the inner workings of every little thing and the way the whole universe is connected. All without needing to learn scientific words for it.

Once you do that, you'll easily be able to choose what you really need, thus being able to de-attach from anything you don't. So you can't really fool yourself through reason alone, you need a whole bunch of reasoning about a lot of stuff and actually learning, rather than fooling, why you want what you want.

But, on a side note, it's actually possible to fool yourself. That can happen if you're already de-attached enough to some aspects to a point that things will happen to your life and you'll think it's happening just because you want to, while it's truly happening because you're de-attached from it but don't realize. That's really hard to describe, sorry if it's confusing.

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