We answer questions here and theorize and hypothesize and solve the mysteries of the universe on this forum. But how do you apply these ideas to your real life and what have been the results?

asked 15 Apr '12, 19:18

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Fairy Princess

edited 16 Apr '12, 14:16

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Before you read on, play this song while you read my post. I wrote this while listening to it and I believe that it will also induce the mood of my post and get the point over far better.. :)

Someone once commented on youtube video: "This is not the best scene ever, there will be other scenes, other movies."

Upon reading those words I felt, deep inside I disagreed. With all my knowledge and understanding, I knew that when you live your life to its fullest, each and every scene of your life is the best one. You cannot wait for that one perfect scene, because when it happens you'll think "There will be more scenes, this can't be the best one..." never appreciating the magic that each moment of your life holds. And then, you die. Not knowing that the best scene of your life, was each and every single one of them.

A very powerful way of looking at things for me, is to see the present moment as if it was only a memory already lived. That I already died. As if there was no future and everything that happens is already in the past. And suddenly, all the important and urgent things you have to do are gone, because in our memories, when we look back at our lives we don't see the importance or urgency of the moment. The past is stripped, at least for me, of these things. So I ask myself, did I live this moment to its fullest, without all fears and doubts. And sometimes, I feel I did not. And I'm mad about it, because I realize that still in the present moment I let some fears and doubts control me. Tears are feelings words cannot express, and that's how I feel about it. But I know, that even all those struggles, whether caused by outside or inside environment, are hell of magical moments, because it's all just an adventure. And your life really is a movie, made of wonderful scenes.

It's part of growing up and getting to know yourself. You see, if I wanted a cake, I would buy one. If I wanted another, an instilled belief that I'm wasting my money and it's really stupid took over me. But now I know I want a cake and I'm gonna have it. And if I want another, so what, I'll have it. And another if I feel like it. That it costs money? Yes, and so what? But it's such a waste of money? But money are not that important, what you experience in life is. And shall that day be remembered as the day I overate myself with cakes, because I was excited to do so. It's all that life is about to me and I find the truth in white tiger's words he ends each of his posts with: experience and enjoy.

Don't trade more exciting moments for those less exciting ones only to appear reasonable to others or self. Stop thinking you need to behave acceptably, within limitations of measures that society impose on you. Living as everyone else. Don't be realistic, because you already know that reality of each of us is different. And what realistic really means is just being true to your own illusion of life. Be a dreamer instead. Visit new places, go to a new bar, hop into your car and just drive without having a destination, stop where you like the view and drive past of the one that doesn't appeal to you. Because....

"...you never know, what magic might happen"


answered 16 Apr '12, 03:45

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edited 16 Apr '12, 04:55


@CalonLan I thoroughly enjoyed the direction you went in with this answer. It did seem to flow and resonate a lot smoother with the song you linked to as well. Thank you for sharing some insightful and inspiring thoughts.

(16 Apr '12, 12:15) Cory

Great answer, Calon, I enjoyed this very much as well :)

(16 Apr '12, 12:33) LapisLazuli

@ CalonLan: I also did like the link and the music is really good, good for meditating. I think I will put this on my mp3 player. Thank you. And I do agree with your answer. Live your life to the fullest, only answer to yourself.

(16 Apr '12, 20:40) PurpleRose

my pleasure guys.

(17 Apr '12, 17:18) CalonLan

I must say I enjoyed the experience too CalonLan. Your musical composition was well selected and your writing style captured my imagination as would a movie. I look forward to seeing more of your captivating collections.

(19 Apr '12, 02:00) Constantine

Calon all I can say is...wow! It's like all of a sudden I can open my eyes and see the rich goergous sunset! The music link you've provided was the best thing since the forrest gump theme; but taking your perspective, which deeply strikes cords, everything is beautiful.

Before I read this answer, I was having a blue moment. I asked God to give me an answer (I rarely get them), and this was the first thing I clicked on. Amazing...Just amazing. Thankyou xx

(19 Apr '12, 08:57) Nikulas

@Nikulas, sometimes only a certain thing in our lives appears to shine and stand out most for us, while everything else fades to grey. But it's not that the thing itself shines more than the others, but because we overlook the shine of everything else.

Even watching children do a theater play can be fabulous exhilarating experience if you can let go of expectations of perfect performance from the actors. And so, everything in life can amaze you, if you allow it. ;-)

(19 Apr '12, 09:30) CalonLan

Just read this again....arguably the greatest answer ever written on IQ in my view.

(12 May '13, 09:11) Nikulas

@CalonLan "tears are feelings words cannot express" such depth my friend

(14 May '13, 00:52) ru bis

@Calonlan "everything in life can amaze you, if you allow it" love this - allowing is key. I won't vote your exceptional answer up - don't want to mess with your numbers again - 111.

(09 Jun '13, 22:38) ele
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Yes everything I have answered are what I use or have used.

A lot of answers come to me and I apply them myself, so yes what I write as answers are my daily life.


answered 13 May '13, 14:32

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Wade Casaldi

Anything specific? Thanks

(13 May '13, 23:16) Fairy Princess

The healing mostly, I use many of the techniques I. talk about. But I also love your 2HT technique! Next is the prayer (loa) set it and forget it. Bit also casting out for people as well. These ate what come to mind mostly. :-)

(14 May '13, 07:34) Wade Casaldi

So you use healing techniques every day as a practice? I am glad you like THT. Do you do it every day? Then you follow up with prayer for attracting things? Thanks

(14 May '13, 08:56) Fairy Princess

Yes I'm always working on someone or myself. Being in Karate and teaching in my mid 40's many times I need the healing for the aches.

I never thought of putting it all together like that! I like that a lot! Casting out I have been doing more lately, it is strange more demon activity in places and people. I just had to cast one out that told me it was Ligion. I know my Bible so I told it Jesus cast you into pigs, I'm casting you into the abyss. I didn't have any pigs...

(14 May '13, 11:27) Wade Casaldi

Wow, interesting.

(08 Jun '13, 11:38) Fairy Princess
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listen to the gospel of john. then you will know how jesus tried to apply it to help people by telling them the truth with love. and how they killed him from their own darkness. why do you think jesus was praying for them. (Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing." And they divided up his clothes by casting lots. http://bible.cc/luke/23-34.htm ) he was save from the second death.but they who have judged him have judge them self. (For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. http://bible.cc/matthew/7-2.htm ) they have even more darkness on them to work off before they can enter the kingdom of light.( And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil. For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed. But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that it may be clearly seen that his works have been carried out in God.” http://www.openbible.info/topics/darkness )

they create their own hell.

"Make every effort to enter through the narrow door, because many, I tell you, will try to enter and will not be able to.


you have free will and are responsible of it. that is how you apply it in daily life.

experience and enjoy.


answered 15 Apr '12, 22:01

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white tiger

white tiger, from where do you get the authority to 'cut and paste' the proported words of a proclaimed diety out of the context of the whole story of man

(16 Apr '12, 20:23) fred

who is the judge of this? fred 1 jesus message was about truth and i say the same thing he was saying. i am not the one that made a religion and modified some part of the truth to suit the institution. open the bible and read it you will eventually see what was modified and for what reason. example: jesus said about being born again in spirit from above (we) it emplies many people not just him. he said God is our father we are is children of light. then why do they say he was God only son.

(16 Apr '12, 20:49) white tiger

jesus said we are all brother and sister. when you are in a famely under one father are not all the children part of the famely? they killed him because he said that he was the son of the father. it is writen in the scripture you are God's. and today the message is that he was the only son. who put that there? he took all our sin on the cross how can a ligth take the darkness from every one? the truth is that the darkness killed him because it hates the light.

(16 Apr '12, 20:56) white tiger

yes being a light he stopped many darkness. but if he came again would you go and kill him thinking that it would remove the darkness from the world? if you do that you act from ignorance and darkness. you should read the book stay in truth and find what is the message. if you are not able to read it. then use the little book respect the first and second commendement(love God(truth)) (love the neighbor as your self) know the beatitude. do not judge. know your self and other remove the darkness-

(16 Apr '12, 21:05) white tiger

and be the light you can be. that little book will be bitter to your stomach but sweet like honey to your lips.

(16 Apr '12, 21:06) white tiger

white tiger, are you allowed to think for yourself, using all the aspects and attributes of the dot that was bestowed on you. that allowed you to be here now. jesus was the best to date example of the man god in each of us. that is what He was sent at the time He was sent. a spiritual master with words of the change we are to face and the spiritual guidance he knew. where is it said, the first time, that his words were a mandate of obiesence.

(17 Apr '12, 19:35) fred

for it was He who preached of free will guided by spirit instead of earthly sensations and each of us could be the fathers son. once again i ask from where do you do get your authority, dated back to what revelation

(17 Apr '12, 19:39) fred

fred 1 am i telling you the truth? if so what is the autority? does anny one need a permit to speak the truth? what do you expect to see A reed swayed by the wind?

(18 Apr '12, 00:56) white tiger

white tiger, it is not a reed swaying in the wind that i seek, it is the speaking as an authority when the foundation is swaying in the wind or as a circular presentation of semi-connected facts

(18 Apr '12, 20:51) fred

try it take the narrow door. then you will know.

(18 Apr '12, 21:02) white tiger

the foundation is truth. you will worship God in spirit and truth.

(19 Apr '12, 10:45) white tiger
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For me it is simplicity. Like the wind, thoughts come and go, but the memory travels with me to share when the time is right. My illusion of understanding has me confidently persuasive, when the truth of the matter is, I know very little of the truth. I enjoy this community, because it is my defense against boredom. This is my weakness. Instead of fighting boredom I should be thankful for it. If it were not for boredom I would not have sought after wisdom.


answered 19 Apr '12, 02:37

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