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You have all helped me so much on IQ; I cannot say thanks enough times...Today, Wade did something really sweet for me...But I am not sure how to say, "Thank you!" except to say, "Thank You!"

What do you do to return a kindness? And is it best done in secret?



asked 10 Aug '12, 16:56

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wikified 12 Aug '12, 21:59

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@Starlight- Your comment is now an answer...look below>>>>>>♥

(10 Aug '12, 22:06) Jaianniah

The question has been closed for the following reason "Question is off-topic or not relevant" by IQ Moderator 30 Dec '13, 18:26

I believe that I have to learn to smile to reflect my genuine happiness in such cases - for me, it is just being thankful!!! Smile through the Internet to you @Jaianniah :)


answered 10 Aug '12, 18:36

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Nice Gravatar, @ZDCobran! I like it. :)

(12 Aug '12, 21:57) Grace

Thank you @Grace - indeed, bit inspired by @Jaianniah as well :)

(13 Aug '12, 17:14) ZDCobran

We can always sense if someone is truly sincere in their thanks. Your sincerity will shine though now matter where when or what you do


answered 10 Aug '12, 18:46

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Lots of things can be done incognito , a fav of mine is to write anonymous thank you notes and either post or secretly drop off @ various business's , services, dr's , etc , have also seen men working hard on roadside and gone bought coffees and returned with em , the looks are priceless, lol. Saying Thank You to Wade , I believe is enough , my understanding of men....they do love to be acknowledged & appreciated ;-)


answered 10 Aug '12, 20:41

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@Starlight- Wade and I felt that this "comment" deserved to be an we made it one...hope you don't mind! Jai

(10 Aug '12, 22:05) Jaianniah

Tears appeared when I read this. Thank you , be blessed ♥♥♥

(10 Aug '12, 22:15) Starlight

It depends on the situation. Sometimes I pay it foreward. Sometimes I give a hug. Sometimes I simply use words and say, "Thank you so much! I really appreciate you!" Sometimes a little gift or a card feels right. Sometimes guys like a sock in the arm and, "Thanks bro, couldn't have done it witout you." And sometimes they enjoy a nice massage as much as we girls do.


answered 10 Aug '12, 22:23

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