Lets say i have a friend who is not treating me the way i am supposed to. can i by meditating on what i desire and cause him to act accordingly provided it is for a good cause?

asked 19 May '10, 12:11

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edited 19 May '10, 12:22

If you consistently see that other person treating you the way you want to be treated, you will find that they will begin to show up differently in your reality and will begin to act accordingly to the vision you are holding.

Quite often we look at another person and blame them for the way they are treating us, when in fact we are the ones enabling them to act this way toward us because we are in fact being treated the way we are expecting to be treated.

Abraham has a process called Positive Expectations which is very effective in changing our perceptions about others and thus changing their behaviour toward us ( in a nutshell, this process tells us to focus on and make notes on what is positve in the other person) - when done consistently , this really does change how another behaves toward us. We really do attract what we expect.


answered 19 May '10, 12:25

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How true! I realise now that I am actually getting what I have been expecting.. THANKS Michaela.. I definitely need to re-focus on what I expect from another person in terms of how I want to be treated!

(19 May '10, 16:36) AVBhat 1

Can you please elaborate on 'Positive expectations' here?

(19 May '10, 16:37) AVBhat 1

Apologies - the process is actually called 'Positive Aspects' not positive expectations, I got caught up in the word expect. The gist of the process is that you takes something or someone in your life and write their name at the top of a page and begin listing positve things about them. When done consistently and focusing only on their positve traits, they begin showing up in your life this way.

(19 May '10, 18:58) Michaela

Sorry, my answers are a bit rushed today. While writing I think you are supposed to ask yourself - "What do I like about you? What do I love about you? What are your positve aspects?" This will have you focusing on only the positve aspects about the person or thing concerned.

(19 May '10, 20:08) Michaela

Michaela can you post this process as a wikki community post? I would love to know a bit more about this.

(19 May '10, 23:08) I Think Therefore I Am

Thanks Michaela.. can you please post this process as a wikki community post ..?

(20 May '10, 09:16) AVBhat 1

I've just peaked in for a minute this morning - I'm really pressed for time right now but will post it within the next 24 hrs, when I have a chance:-) If either of you have access to "Ask and it is Given", the details are all there.

(20 May '10, 11:05) Michaela

pls Michaela can you post the details of the postive aspects here. thank you.

(25 May '10, 10:46) Sunshine
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Hi Sunshine, Remember that the relationship that you are experiencing is as a result of the law of attraction. That means that you must have been doing something to create the negative behavior from the other person. It also means that yes you can shift your consciousness to have a healthier relationship with that person. If you have not yet started I strongly recommend that you try the Manifestation Experiment 2 and create a Focus Block around this. I find it extremely effective and revealing.


answered 19 May '10, 20:26

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Dear Drham, can you please help me progress with the focus block method as after having written a few lines, I am stuck with what I am supposed to be writing? I am not sure what I am supposed to be writing in there?

(20 May '10, 09:18) AVBhat 1

You should right any positive feeling that you have towards what you want to experience. Do not write what you want to feel but what is true at the momement you are writing. Example

What is bothering me? I do not have enough money

How do I want to feel? I want to have an abundance of money in my life

focus block suggestions 1- I believe that there is sufficient money in the universe for everyone 2- I feel good when I have all the money I need to pay my bills 3- I like having lots of money in my wallet 4 - I feel better when I am able to save money 2-

(20 May '10, 14:13) Drham
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