Hihi I have twirling on attracting or manifesting a car specifically an SUV more specifically a ranger over..well this morning my car burnt down..current car is a Pontiac 2003...totaled and now we have to think quick for a solution..is this a vibrational match?
I almost complained as I had already applied to buy a car last year with my current car as a down payment but my husband talked me out of it..I have a very domineering husband and seems like anytime we do things his way we make losses..it's almost like always..it's like I am smarter in life and it worries me A LOT..he came to my life and his decisions or rather domineering persona has cost me a fortune!
In manifesting, sometime people believe that you need to get rid of something inferior to replace it with something better, I don't feel this way, but it sounds like the only way that your husband might agree to another car is that your current car is out of the picture. Then he has no choice but to get another car.
I am NOT suggesting that the destruction of your current car was premeditated on your conscious part. However, if you hold the belief system that this was the only way your husband would get another car, the Universe could have answered you in this way.
But this is an incident to a possibly more deep seated answer to your question.
I would suggest that you have a look at your apparently deep-seated belief system that your 'domineering' husband makes bad decisions. When you catch yourself saying "this ALWAYS happens..." followed by something negative, you may have a disuseful belief system.
There are many techniques here that can help you.
I would suggest that, for your personal mental health, that you begin finding things about your "powerful" husband that you like. Find some decisions he made that were very good. There were reasons you married him. Get back to those reasons and magnify them in your mind.
A word of caution here. Do NOT do this in order to get him to change. This will not work and will likely make the situation worse.
You can say, in your own mind, "I remember when he made the decision to do x, and that was a very good idea...." Keep this in your mind when you look at him. Do not, I repeat do not, tell him what you are thinking in hopes of getting him to make better decisions, that are more in line with what you want.
Another word of caution, what I am suggesting may feel like it is not working, that even the situation is getting worse. You are reaching deep within yourself to consciously refocus a life that has had the deep seated assumption of his inabilities.
You are wanting to change you! You are wanting to change your default belief systems to new, more useful systems.
You can't change him. But all interpersonal behavior is a loop. You do something and the other person does something. As along as you are doing the same part of your behavior, he will do his. When you change your behavior, truly change from the inside out, he will change.
But one last time, I say again, you are doing this for yourself, not to get him to change. Trying to change another, grousing about the negative situations with your friends, will perpetuate it. This is how it works. This is the Law of Attraction.
Only you can make yourself unhappy. Only you can make yourself happy.
I think your negative feelings towards your husband are showing themselves through the destruction of your car. I would imagine there are other ways they're showing themselves also, but not written in your post.
Follow what Dollar Bill is saying.......because if you constantly focus on Strwberry ice cream....then.....Strawberry ice cream will ALWAYS show up.
answered 19 Oct '12, 09:50
This is an excellent example of manifesting the need for a new car. You must have put out the vibration that you need a new car, so that is exactly what you got, the need for a new car.
And that is one of the reasons that I suggest to choose to be happy, then miracles happen.
I think extreme situations happen like this when we strongly desire something but don't believe we can have it. In other words we haven't altered our belief system to allow into our reality smoothly. This chapter from Wealth Beyond Reason explains it better than I can. Also read @Stingray excellent answer to this question here:
It may also be relevant.
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