I know how Abraham talks about that we can deliberately create what we desire and have the universe create situations where the desire will come to us effortlessly.
But can a situation ever occur if your desire has no attraction to you? Would this be a contradiction to LOA? It would be an outlier wouldn't it?
What if you are physically attracted to some person, and she has all the qualities that you desire, but she has no attraction to you? Is that possible within the circumstances of LOA??
What should be done in this situation, or what would be the best way to prevent this situation?
I have been learning to regard such situations as vibrational matches. I got some very helpful advice about these in answer to this question.
If you follow that link, it will be easy to see that when you have changed your vibration surrounding a particular subject, you activate the entire vibrational field regarding that subject, which can stir up all sorts of vibrational matches, matches that you could label "good" or "bad" if you wanted to, but matches none the less. And since you get to decide, I recommend you see all of them as good. :)
So, if you look at in that light, you can feel encouraged, for if someone has turned up in your reality who brings this subject up, and into sharp focus for you, your deliberate manifestation efforts are most certainly having an effect on your reality, and you may rest assured that you really are doing extremely well. :)
I'm not saying it's always easy, but once you see it, and remember that everything you experience is actually a mirror reflection of your dominant feelings, that unrequited attraction can take on a whole new meaning, if you will allow it.
So, what should be done? Have a look at what you are seeing in this one you are attracted to. If the only thing about her that isn't absolutely wonderful is that she doesn't feel the same about you, remember to check that your dominant feeling on the subject includes the element that your ideal relationship will be with a person who just loves you, and thinks you are charming and quite irresistible, warts and all - you don't need to try to be anything at all but you own, lovable Self.
If she still doesn't seem to think you're wonderful, then silently thank her, and let her go. She has shown you very clearly what you don't want (she doesn't want me), so now you can get busy with even more clarity on the vibration of what you do want (I am irresistible to the one I want to be with!). If you do that, I'd say, she's on her way.
If you are not a match to someone right now,my idea would be to appreciate that person for who they are and what they want. Also appreciate your desire and find other ways to soothe yourself in life. Find other interests and find other ways to find happiness. Who knows, one day you might rendezvous with each other and be a match.
however to live your whole life devoted to that desire may leave you less time for personal growth ,fullfillment and success in other areas or with new people.
when you are thinking too much of this person, rather than think with longing....try to think of why it would be fun to be with this particular person. going to the park, having sunday dinner etc. > maybe stay general about it and then as soon as you are feeling better move off the subject and find something fun to do for yourself.
Yes it would, because I answered this question before in some other question.
This question reminds me of that question. That question I answered something about all these millionaires want the "Hope diamond" but only one can own it irregardless of the fact that all of them want it!
The same for dating a certain movie star only one can date her.
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