hi..friends.. is it easy to apply law of attraction principles on someone ..,who has not even heard that any such law exists. what you all think about it..? just wanna know ur views on this..
love,light n blessings..
From my personal experience it is not easy and it is really not possible. I had my moments trying to talk to family members who were struggling with certain issues and pretty much just got the look that I am crazy and not seeing reality clearly like they are. So after more than my fair share of trying to help and be rejected, I learned that their experience is not the same as mine and I should just allow them to find their own way in their own timing.
@Stingray has mentioned in many of his answers about the Blah, Blah, Blah effect that Abraham talks about regarding being out of the vortex and not in vibrational harmony with another person. When the other person is out of sync with your vibration and frequency, they will not understand or even care to hear what you have to say.
You can always be loving and throw the hook with the worm (in other words put the information out there) in the lake, but you have to allow the fish to be a match and make the decision to bite if that is their desire. You can't go out into the lake and force the mouth of the fish onto the hook. Forcefulness just doesn't work in the Law of Attraction.
A quote that is also used here at IQ a lot is "when the student is ready, the teacher will appear."
Everyone has their own time and place when they get that "a'ha" moment and can choose to take the path or not take the path when it is laid out in front of them. This is what makes the choice of "free will" so enjoyable.
A way we can help others without infringing on their beliefs systems is to see that person the way that we choose to see them. Since this reality is our own unique and individual creation and we are 100% responsible for everything that happens to us, we can have any version of any person that we choose.
When we see a person the way we want and change our beliefs about them, we will then get that particular version of the person that we would like to share our reality with. The other version of the person will simply disappear and be on a completely different vibrational range.
So in the end, as we usually say here at IQ, everything we desire simply comes back to us. Every single thing that does or doesn't happen in our lives comes from the vibration that we emanate from within, which will then produce the illusion of reality that we perceive as being "out there."
Our individual beliefs, will produce the particular vibration, that will then attract or repel people that do resonate or do not resonate with our ideas of the LOA.
The Law of Attraction is simply that we attract things and people of matching vibrations. Our vibrations are formed by our beliefs. We experience reality according to the lenses we look through. The lenses are our beliefs. According to Gregg Braden, our beliefs are our thought plus the emotion the attached to the thought.
This video about luck demonstrates how it actually plays out.
answered 07 Dec '12, 12:59
I have been trying so but it seems, unfortunately so that as we try for others they need to themselves.
It is like lemmings, you can redirect and turn them around all you can try but they seem preset on self destruct. All your effort seems to have achived little when they are much more willing to believe their limitations than the new reality that you are trying to replace with.
However this stems from our own belief that those we are trying to help are separate from us. According to the Bible they are not separate from us, therefore we could heal them if we fully believe we are one body.
It is very hard to imagine yourself as healthy as one being with the one you know that has constant problems of pain and sickness. When we can, we can correct what is wrong in the world by choosing a better creation to experience as an outside projection of ourselves.
answered 07 Dec '12, 14:22
You don't really apply " the principles" upon someone. They are continual properties of nature. Which is to say, you cannot HELP but "apply" the law of attraction "on someone." You are always applying it on everything and everyone.
However, I want to point out something to fine tune your understanding to a deeper level. You never actually "apply" these principles on someone. That's why I put it in " " earlier.
It is not an effective way to go about things, for multiple reasons, but ultimately because all the changes of significance must occur inside of your consciousness. To try and "apply" it on someone, is akin to (to take a phrase from Bashar), looking into a mirror and seeing your face with a frown on it, then trying to force the image in the mirror to smile. It's simply not how things work at a fundamental level.
Every person represents some aspect of yourself, and you can easily sit down and discover what aspect of you is represented by that person - what beliefs have bought them to you etc by just posing these questions to yourself and waiting for the answer. Then you work on THOSE and the person (or people) will have to naturally fall in line with the new resolved role you have cast for them. And the thing with this is - no one can resist you working on yourself (other than yourself)...so it is in that way a "sure thing" if you will. ;)
But back to your question more exactly...because they are principles, they operate consistently regardless of whether anyone is concerned about them. We are not typically concerned about gravity - but we are still a little bit shorter in the evening than in the morning despite out lack of concern with it.
However, if one wants to play the "influence other people" game then someone being "practical" (though honestly, these things ought to be very practical :P) and unconcerned with them does tend to make it easier with most people...since these people are less likely to pay enough attention to their thoughts to recognize anything but the most blatant shift in them, nor have learned to control their thoughts and do so regularly.
And they almost definitely have not developed any little "habits" from folklore or magical traditions that would protect them. A simple example that is habit for me everyday from a fair while ago, is every time I put my belt on, I have an automatic (from doing it deliberately a while back) intention that it protects me from any "external" influence. That is a sort of old folklore tradition. Another I use regularly is bathing in cold water. Most of these kind of things have or are really dying out from use, especially in the western world - though even seem to be well on their way out in places that had a strong basis for them, such as Eastern Europe and your own India. The only one that the average person really still hears about and a few (very few :P) still do regularly is praying.
So yes, it is easy to apply on someone who is not at all concerned about what it is. But it's much easier (and less hassle) to apply it on yourself and the aspects inside you that are projected onto the other person.
(And damn, I was excited to make a nice brief short reply to an answer for once, but it seemed I rambled yet again...)
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