If being positive, and cultivating positive emotions, confers so much personal power, then why do so many people seem to naturally gravitate towards negativity?
asked 18 Jun '10, 19:01
I think the only reason people ever gravitate toward negativity is because that is how they have been conditioned growing up.
If one has only been shown, by parental figures and the society they have grown up in, how to operate from a negative perspective, then until something or someone comes into their life to jolt them awake to the realization that there are other possibilities and choices, they will continue to operate from that negative perspective.
I think when there is a strong desire for a change and a deeper knowing (albeit an unconscious one) that the negativity is just not right - a new awareness is made available and opportunities for positve growth make themselves presentable; or rather one begins to perceive those positve growth opportunities where they couldn't before.
answered 18 Jun '10, 19:45
My guess is that depends on one's temperament, meaning his inborn qualities. Michaela is right about the external influences, but character we are born with greatly matters (unless you believe in John Locke's tabula rasa :). For example if one has natural tendencies to be nonconformistic, he won't accept the way society restrains our thinking.
I just want to say that there are several layers to a negative person's character. Some people are just meant to stay negative. Trying to convince them is useless as there are a bunch of people that want to change, but don't know how. It would be better to focus on them.
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