I sent equipment worth $1200 to someone I loved and trusted. He has not met his end of the bargain. He was supposedly meant to pay last week but he has not yet. I am not in need of the repayment but at times I struggle with negative thoughts of maybe he is not planning on paying or he is being controlling. I need your insight, love is patient However am I deluded to say this?
when you lend something to someone be prepared to lose it. if he does not repay you learn the truth about it. then your problem is solved. you will be in truth about the situation. and will have win something far greater then material stuff.
So also with you, seek his treasure that is unfailing, that is enduring, where no moth comes to eat and no worm destroys."
He said to the person, "Mister, who made me a divider?"
He turned to his disciples and said to them, "I'm not a divider, am I?"
if he is not able to give it back will you be mad at him? if he gives it back later will you be mad at him? is it that he is not able to give it back? or that he is like a moth or a worm?if he is like a moth or a worm then do not lend him the next time. and he does not respect himself and you. then you will know the truth and the truth will set you free. he is responsible of is free will. and so are you. make wise decision. do not judge or divide but stay in truth. love your neighboor as your self.so let there be light, be the light that you can be, experience and enjoy.
answered 13 Dec '12, 16:23
Ahead of time I have to be at peace with what ever outcome happens. If the outcome is important to me ,I discuss things openly as things progress, and hold that person to it as part of my own growth.I am free to renegotiate at anytime with open discussion. I let go the outcome and always gain more insight with each lesson.
answered 14 Dec '12, 05:04
Release him from this obligation. I feel that your intense energy in this situation is perpetuating it.
You can either gently and lovingly let him know, or just release him in your mind, but drop it. Find something else to think about, to talk about, to do -- unrelated to this situation.
In any event, his tardiness in keeping his agreement is not an indication about his feelings for you.
answered 14 Dec '12, 06:19
Has this person not payed you before?
answered 13 Dec '12, 13:56
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