Bashar says in his video about infinite parallel realities: "if you want to change anything in your world, all you have to do is change yourself". But what exactly does this mean? Does changing vibration mean changing our thoughts, or our feelings, or both? Thinking about this- it isn't that simple to change "feelings" as in emotions, and I tend to think that if we didn't have emotions as such, we would be unfeeling robots.

asked 02 Feb '13, 19:09

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I went through a short period of feeling like an unfeeling robot at times. I think it was while I was shifting to a different level of healing my emotions.

(03 Feb '13, 09:02) clearheart
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Vibration = Feeling

Vibration is the same as feeling. Feeling is the same as vibration. When you feel bad, you have a low vibration. When you feel good, you have a high vibration.

But how do thoughts relate to that?

Thoughts are judgments about neutral reality. If you judge something in neutral reality as being good, you have a good feeling. If you judge something in neutral reality as being bad, you have a bad feeling.

What do i mean by neutral reality?

First realize that everything in this world is neutral. Nothing has meaning. Reality as we know it is in fact neutral. Nothing is good or bad. Everything is neutral. Your body is neutral, neither bad nor good. Your computer is neutral, neither bad nor good. Your lack of money in your bank account is neutral, neither bad nor good. Only your judgement about it makes it good or bad.

Thoughts are just your judgements about neutral reality. For instance if you see this glass. What do you think? Is it half full or half empty?

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No matter what you say. This glass is just a neutral glass with 50% full of water in it. It is not emotional. It is neither good nor bad. It is just a glass without meaning. Everything you say about that glass is just your judgement. Is it half full? If so, ok, this is just your judgement. Is it half empty? If so, ok, this is just your judgement.

If you are thirsty, probably this half full of glass water will make you feel better than a half empty glass :). Half full sounds more positive than half empty to the human brain. It is a more optimistic judgement. And your brain will usually create more hopeful feelings about a half full glass of water than about a half empty glass.

Now... Bashar says "if you want to change anything in your world, all you have to do is change yourself". Does he mean thoughts? Or does he mean feelings?

Of course he means both. Your thoughts (judgements about neutral reality) determine how you feel. Your judgement determines your feeling about something. If you have a thought that says a glass is half full, you feel good. If you have a thought that says a glass is half empty, you feel bad.

How do I shift vibration to change my reality?

That's in fact very simple. For instance if you constantly feel that you are a wealthy person now, you will become wealthy in phsyical reality too. If you constantly feel that you are a poor person, you will become or stay poor person in physical reality too.

So shift your vibration/feeling to something you like and you will become that in physical reality. How do you change your feelings/vibration? - Change your thoughts/judgements about things!


answered 02 Feb '13, 20:11

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edited 02 Feb '13, 20:18

@R99 ,here's my judgement , lol, I love this explanation , thank you and I had a little giggle ( another judgement ;-) ) that it linked back to my question on subliminals. Neutrality would you say is just accepting that "what is ,is " OMG another judgement ;-)

(02 Feb '13, 22:01) Starlight

Empty of desire, perceive mystery.

Filled with desire, perceive manifestations. Therefore the Sage Steps back, but is always in front,

Stays outside, but is always within.

No self-interest?

Self is fulfilled.

(02 Feb '13, 22:08) white tiger

@releaser99 I take the "mind creates reality" idea sincerely; however I have difficulty with the faith aspect. I can imagine (or at least try to) what I want and feel it but when I open my eyes I have to observe the lack of my desire. To put this in concrete terms, say I feel wealthy and as a consequence have the impulse to spend money which is not there and so feel poor again. Can you help me understand what thoughts I must change to be of a specific height (to avoid saying "grow taller")?

(03 Feb '13, 01:01) flowsurfer

@releaser99 This is why I sometimes seem so negative concerning these ideas, especially when presented by Bashar or Tolle. Because what is said implies to me that all you ever change is your judgments/thoughts about neutral reality; that you should accept whatever neutral reality you happen to live in and just change your experience of it by giving it another meaning without expecting the neutral reality itself to change.

(03 Feb '13, 01:18) flowsurfer

@flowsurfer you have to consider that you live in a consummer world where they try to make you spend to make money,and they try to create desire in you,to hook you to buy stuff.if you add all the money in the world eventually if you do not make wise decision you are going to get poor.And right now you have to start with not much money that emply making wiser choice. But one think is sure you will not move if you do not make the decision inside of you to move.And until you move nothing will-

(03 Feb '13, 02:02) white tiger

change in your experience of this outside world. And it is the same thing inside you for your though and emotion you are the one that control that with your free is a learning process inside and outside.

(03 Feb '13, 02:03) white tiger

@white tiger The money thing is merely a (universal) example. The same structure applies to many other things, such as health or relationships. Most of those desires have nothing to do with "living in a consumer world". Hunger is not caused by marketing.

(03 Feb '13, 02:19) flowsurfer

@white tiger If by "move" you mean take physical action, I don't know what action to take to produce anything worthwhile. I have no interest in the kind of life I could create with the actions I see available to me so I have no motivation to "move". I am tired of taking action that leads nowhere.

(03 Feb '13, 02:25) flowsurfer

@flowsurfer yes the same structure applies to health and relationship,inside and out. Hunger is caused by the same system of this world that make a fee rich and the majority poor like a pyramid the rich at the top and the majority at the buttom,and that pyramid is sinking by the buttom until the rich wake up and help the majority at the buttom.But for now they are more preoccupied by their desire and ego stocking money in their bank account and running big corporation.

(03 Feb '13, 02:33) white tiger

For relationship there is people everywhere just be friend with them,they should not judge you because you do not have much money or because you do not have enuff money to pay your self the top doctor. Unless you want to be with rich people and stars with the big car like they show in the marketing campagne? then you might have a problem. i Do not know if hunger is cause by marketing campagne.But it surely affect how people view things do you not agree?

(03 Feb '13, 02:45) white tiger

@Starlight Don't judge or you too will be judged! So my judgement is: thank you. I'm glad you like it.:) @flowsurfer This is the paradox of manifesting things. You have to be at least at peace or feel good about where you are right now. Only then manifestations can come to you. The more you worry the more you will manifest situations that will make you worry even more. Law of attraction always works perfectly. On that you can be sure!

(03 Feb '13, 10:52) releaser99

Great answer! I'd always been more of a, "The glass is only half full." type of guy. Either way it's time to top that drink off! :-)

(10 Feb '13, 17:51) Wade Casaldi
(15 Mar '13, 20:34) ursixx

@ursixx lol! If everyone could just see it in that way...:). But a pessimist could still say: "technically the glass is always empty for me... if it is not completely filled with Jim Beam Coke". :)

(16 Mar '13, 00:48) releaser99
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I started studying abraham a couple of years ago and then bashar. I have studied Louise Hay ,Vernon Howard , Jesus, Wayne Dyer and that after a lifetime of seeking. Since abe and bashar I have learned the emotional journey of how to feel better and better even with stressful situations around me. I took me some time to be able to allow myself to flow easily , and it takes a lot of study,practice ,daily,hourly, by the minute use of the teachings. Now the good results are coming in easier and more often. Now I find that I am able to appreciate my situations more. I am able to see the vortex version of the other so I don't feel bad about them or it. Then I can stay soothed and easy, so I treat them better face to face and through feeling vibrations. I don't feel the need to rescue,fix , smack or control like I once did and that feels great. I look forward to more of this easy vibrational feeling life. I still pray a lot, meditate, prepave my day, and talk to Jesus a lot.


answered 03 Feb '13, 07:57

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edited 03 Feb '13, 08:25

Feelings are an indicator of vibration. There are a number of ways to shift your vibration:

  • Always follow your highest excitement in every moment (Bashar)
  • IF you are knowing what you don't want, ask yourself what it is you do want and focus on that for a short time (Abraham)
  • Find positive aspects of the subject, if you can and still feel good about it
  • Focus on appreciation of all the good things around you
  • Find a way to laugh or distract yourself from the situation
  • Don't be attached to specific outcomes, be more general if it feels better

Not all of these work for everyone in all situations. In all cases it should feel light and easy, not heavy and complicated.


answered 04 Feb '13, 12:50

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Everything in the Universe is comprised of energy. What makes one kind of energy different from another kind of energy (and, therefore, makes differentiation possible in a Singular Reality) is the vibration of the energy, or, loosely, its rate of speed. This is sometimes called its FREQUENCY. That is, how frequent is its oscillation.

Energy comes in waves. Each particle is a wave-like structure, and many trillions of such wave-like elements, oscillating at the same FREQUENCY and strung together, appear to create the Super String Theory that is so much talked about today as the basis of a Theory of Everything (TOE).

Often we speak of a "wave of emotion" that comes over us, and we are describing the experience exactly.

I personally feel a Belief is a Thought with attached feelings, that we keep thinking. And if we change the Belief (energy) the corresponding feelings will match the new thought, & then the effect (manifestation) will change to match also. Everything is Energy VIBRATING at different levels of FREQUENCY Vibration.


answered 05 Mar '13, 06:13

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edited 05 Mar '13, 23:29

like micheal jackson said in is song if you want to make the world a better place take a look at your self and make that change.As the wise men philosopher and master of meditation said get to know your self. your though are related to your feeling.And you have free will about that so if you change one it will change the other.So you have to change both. if one does not follow the other you have a division happening in you. How it relates to the outside.mood swing conflict,judgement,confrontation,lack of logic,lack of good feeling etc... think about it when you want to do something good outside of you from your though,but you go in conflict,judgement,confrontation,lack of logic,lack of good feeling etc... with out having to are you divided from your emotion,and seeking that control over your self? Often you will think that it comes from the other person and blame them they made you get mad they made you judge them. that mean that you do not have control over your self if you would have control over your self they could not make you do that. So if they are silent and did not seek conflict who is the one seeking conflict? And yes some may take the opportunity to make you do thing because you lack control. So get to know your self if you want to know other. the first place to start is always in you(the inside of the cup).Be aware of your self. often people are on the wide gate outside and do not see the narrow gate in them self. and they are on a path of destruction of their own making.

It is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you will not be imperiled in a hundred battles; if you do not know your enemies but do know yourself, you will win one and lose one; if you do not know your enemies nor yourself, you will be imperiled in every single battle.

When you know yourselves, then you will be known, and you will understand that you are children of the living Father. But if you do not know yourselves, then you live in poverty, and you are the poverty."

So let there be light,Be the light that you can be,experience and enjoy.


answered 02 Feb '13, 19:32

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edited 02 Feb '13, 22:02

Your feelings are your beliefs. We have a thought, the thought creates an emotion, the emotion + the thought = the feeling or belief. So to change the feeling or belief, change the emotion that is triggered by the thought. EZ Deltion Sequence can neutralize the emotional triggers so that you can change your feelings and beliefs. You don't become an emotionless zombie, you just don't have the negative charge associated with the thoughts and emotions.

You can also try any of these tips to feel better Now.


answered 03 Feb '13, 10:59

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edited 04 Feb '13, 12:55

The emotional body (feelings) I believe is the causal point of our outer reality. Everything else including thoughts is an effect of this. The problem is a lot of us have have numbed ourselves to our emotional body so we remain unaware of what were truly feeling.

By raising our Awareness (entering the Vortex and becoming more Present ) we start to become aware of these, sometimes uncomfortable feelings. This can be perceived by the mind as things getting worse but really were just becoming more aware of what was already there.

By continually raising our Awareness and then integrating those lower energies as they arise we can make huge positive changes in outer reality even by taking no physical action whatsoever.


answered 16 Mar '13, 10:55

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