how to identify people? whether they are good / bad? whether they are genuine to us / fake ?
not based on our knowledge / experience .cos its limited..,
is there any symbol/sign of identifying people..?
apart from intuition..cos our intuition says differnt things on differnt times..according to our present thoughts.
hope to get ur answers asap...
love,light n blessings ur wayy..
What is fake, what is genuine? ... :) surely this depends on how we see things, how we perceive through our own mask of reality ... only you can answer this question my friend, and everyone will have a different answer.
answered 07 Mar '13, 03:17
I believe we've all been genuine, & we've all been fake at sometime in our life. And being able to acknowledge that in myself, I can "identify" it in others too. I love myself unconditionally, & therefore I am not judging myself, nor someone else. Yet I can acknowledge what I see. I choose to be more genuine now, because it expresses me from a higher place of love unconditonally, & I am not seeking approval as much, since I get that from myself...
answered 08 Mar '13, 04:13
I ask myself the same thing. I think the choice is yours. People can sometimes be fake, not to be fake with you, bc there is a problem, but there lying to themselves, bc there are things they can not look at within themselves. And so if they are avoiding something with themselves, they are not able to be true to you. At least this is what I have come to realize through insightful mediation on a similar topic.
answered 10 Mar '13, 05:07
try to attune to your affinity
answered 12 Mar '13, 13:56
I still have many posts to read, however this is close to my heart as I bob and weave the course of mgmt teams at work. I am definitly walking in the right direction of realizing they can't set my course and I'm sure certain times they are both genuine and disengenuous...it's all about the agenda of the moment. And I have to focus on the idea that only things that will help me through this course on earth will be put on my path. In the meantime I will trust me and life and let the feathers fall where they may.
And then there's me, at times silent when I disagree...is that being fake or simply letting it go to get some core desire met?
By their fruit you will recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? http://bible.cc/matthew/7-16.htm when they try to make you believe something to hard it is a sign that they are not genuine.
Example: some might try to appear rich,wealthy,business maneger etc...
If they would really be that why would they try to convince you of what they are?
Some one genuine know who he is and as nothing to proove, someone genuine will say i am who i am and i am what i am. If you try so much to know who i am it might be that you want to proove something to your self,so that i tell you who i am or what i am,in that case will not help you at all.Since your mind is set to prouve your self something and your mind is all ready made.Anny thing that you would want to proove your self about me is not from me at all but from your self,and your own concept and perception through your own preconceive moral filter,your own veil that you put in front of your eyes.Then you will deceive your self and blame the person that did not do nothing to receive that blame.
Now you can understand this:
Then they asked him, "Where is your father?" "You do not know me or my Father," Jesus replied. "If you knew me, you would know my Father also." http://bible.cc/john/8-19.htm
Moses said to God, "Suppose I go to the Israelites and say to them, 'The God of your fathers has sent me to you,' and they ask me, 'What is his name?' Then what shall I tell them?"
God said to Moses, "I AM WHO I AM. This is what you are to say to the Israelites: 'I AM has sent me to you.'" http://bible.cc/exodus/3-14.htm
One day you can be rich and the next poor,you came naked to this world and you will go naked to the next world.
Jesus said, "Do not fret, from morning to evening and from evening to morning, [about your food--what you're going to eat, or about your clothing--] what you are going to wear. [You're much better than the lilies, which neither card nor spin. As for you, when you have no garment, what will you put on? Who might add to your stature? That very one will give you your garment.]"
Jesus said, "Why have you come out to the countryside? To see a reed shaken by the wind? And to see a person dressed in soft clothes, [like your] rulers and your powerful ones? They are dressed in soft clothes, and they cannot understand truth."
Is not someone genuine someone that tell you the truth? and someone fake someone that tell lie to blind you? or someone that is allready blind and lead the blind and both will fall in to a pit.
This is trusting your gut instinct. Be aware, of how you feel, fear, worry or something just feels off? You may feel uneasy around this person, notice what you feel.
Another way is to ask yourself using muscle testing. You can use your fingers in the OK sign. Try pulling them apart weak is no, strong is yes. Also the leaning test is good. Stand with your feet together and ask a yes or no question. Again weak is no (falling back slightly) and strong is yes (falling forwards slightly.)
answered 12 Mar '13, 22:54
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