sorry again for my bad english
i asked before why i can not attract by Law of Attraction the one who i love and u answered me but after just 10 days he come back
i keep pray & pray to get him back and try everything and imagine how he sent me sms that he love me and he is sorry about everything and i keep seeing him everyday and nothing happend until after few days from when you answered me he sent me sms that he can not keep my clothes that he had in his home anymore
i reply that he can do what ever he want then after few hours he send me sms that i am always very good person and he is sorry about the way he act with me then we get back after a week and we spend all time together and he said that he miss me soooooo and he can not make any relation with any girl since he broke up with me
but he never told me that he love me and he bought to me a wonderful gift in my birthday everything like h was living in a dream and i thanks god everyday about him until before 4 days he broke up with me again and told me that this is the best for us and he dose not want to talk with me next few weeks until i can talk with him as a normal friend and since what happened i do not know what to do
i cry days and nights even i cry when i try to pray to god i lost faith in everything and i am soooooooooooooooo afraid that he go back to his ex-girlfriend and all our friends know that she is very bad person and she hurt him before badly. please do not tell me to forget and to try to attract the perfect one for me cause i find my happiness just with him. what i must do? i am afraid to try the Law of Attraction or The Secret and live in a hope for nothing
please help me
please notice i see him and the other girl in my work everyday and every night since he left me i dream that he and the other girl come to me at work and tell me that they love each other
You don't need him, or any of his gifts, to feel good about yourself. Let him go back to his ex. They deserve each other. And you deserve better.
When you accept that, and know it in your heart that you don't need anyone else to be complete, you will begin to attract friends (and eventually a life partner) that will respect you and love you, and treat you like the wonderful person you actually are, instead of someone who just wants to play shallow games.
Don't be a part of the problem. Don't be playing these games yourself. Decide who you are and what kind of life you want. My guess is that you want someone in your life who is loving, dependable and respectful. Someone who cherishes you. But you have to be that person first, and the way to do that is to stop being clingy and dependent, and begin standing on your own two feet.
answered 14 Nov '10, 23:53
You have to realize that the Universe is helping you by showing you the true colours of this person and letting you know that he is not right for you. You should be thankful that even if you may not love yourself the Universe loves you. Suppose if you were married to this person and had kids and then he left you, wouldnt that have been more hurtful and complicated? Forget about him, there is someone waiting out there who is right for you. LOA will not work where the Univerese knows it is wrong for you, LOA will attract love for you but if this person doesnt love you then how can it attract him in your life?
My best adivce to you, since I have been in these situations before, get him out of your system, cry, scream do whatever it takes and then start visualizing yourself in a loving relationship with someone who truly deserves you.
answered 15 Nov '10, 08:36
I Think Therefore I Am
Seriously Yara, you need to start loving yourself, and taking better care of yourself! My mother once said that a woman should not love a man more than he loves her, and it is only then, can she have a real loving relationship with him. My mother was married for forty-nine years, and her husband died five months before their fiftieth Wedding Anniversary.
Vesuvius answer covered all the important facts that you need to consider, and I totally agree with his answer. So it is up to you to make the necessary changes in your life, and to move on with your life!
Most important, remember to love yourself first! Good Luck.
answered 15 Nov '10, 05:05
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Yara, wake up! please wake up girl! Take a closer look at yourself! take a look in the mirror. You are a beautiful, wonderful, sensible girl. And No Man deserves the pain and suffering you're putting yourself through. You watch him by day and dream of him by night? Think of the different things that used to bring you joy before this entanglement and do it. Force yourself in the begining, pretend to enjoy it, until you re-remember why it gave you joy. If you can't handle seeing lover boy playing the office, then get transferred or quit. Get another position or better yet, stay in the office and give him the cold shoulder treatment he so rightly deserves. At night, before you fall asleep, tell yourself as you visualize him, I ask my higher self to deal with this from that level.
Thank you, namaste
answered 16 Nov '10, 14:26