I've been clearing stuff up regarding money, getting a job (I'm currently unemployed) and some other things in my daily vibrational routine.
Several opportunities have manifested, things that truly appear in an effortless way and feel to be just right, they seem vibrational matches to the work that I've been doing. Then, I see those opportunities dissolve into nothingness. It's a really weird thing. This has happened before and I'm in the process of clearing those feelings, situations, etc.
To give you 2 small examples, I was messaged personally through linkedIn from 2 different recruiters, both positions looked great. We messaged back and forth a couple of times; everyone seems excited. I schedule a call with each of them.
Then 1 of them emails me just the day before the call saying their client has a potential candidate already so there was no reason to have the call. The other didn't call on the scheduled date, she had a mix up in her calendar. No worries, we rescheduled, and then she didn't call again.
Other opportunities have gone way further, with several successful interviews and then out of nothing they banish.
What am I missing?
Any advice is appreciated. Thanks everyone!
asked 26 Jan '15, 11:28
Firstly, and most importantly, don't restrict your future to a couple of calls via LinkedIn. (LinkedIn is full of millions of recruiters doing the same thing to millions of potential employees. I have yet to hear of someone getting a good, long term job through a linkedin recruiter. It's just a way for them to make a commission on a human resource.)
You have already attracted a lack of a job into your life and the echoes will continue, perhaps even after you get the job, with a few weeks of 'will you be able to keep it?'. If you show disappointment in not getting it then you instantly put out the vibration of lack again.
You will always get echoes to test you and to reinforce the existence of the belief that you won't get it. Have no expectations about the outcome. The secret to the Law of Attraction is to put the wish out there but then have absolutely no expectations of how this will come about. Expecting a job is expecting the outcome of employment or the outcome of money. Don't have the expectation. After all, the reason you want the job is you want the money, so you're expecting something, and that expectation is being generated by your lack of the money, so all your vibrations are about lack. You're taking physical actions and you'll get physical actions that result, but as soon as you start saying 'I hope I get the job' it's less likely to manifest the way you want it to and may only appear as a result of hard work or an action rather than the result of you wanting it to simply manifest.
So, can you go out and pursue your happiness, your joys, with no expectations of where a job or money will come from, and meet people, have fun, bury yourself in your passions and be the shining light, the bright beacon for everyone? If you're able to do that, watch the amazing manifestations in your life. Money might appear on the ground in front of you, or a friend wins the lottery and gives you some, or someone you meet at a cafe or in a pub offers you some work or you feel the sudden urge to hitchhike somewhere and do some volunteer work on the way and get free board, food and friends. There are endless possibilities.
As a way to reinforce what is possible, in 2013 I wanted time off from work to pursue my writing. I had no money and I didn't know where I was going to get enough to last one year so that I would have time to write and pursue some of my other plans. But I thought, well, if I'm meant to have this year, it'll happen some way, and I will just not worry about it. Somehow it will happen and it will be amazing but I'll just remain my happy, positive self and wait for it to manifest, however it manifests.
So the next day I walked into the bank and the bank teller wanted to offer me something. Instead of saying oh, not interested, or everything is fine or I'm not looking for life insurance thanks, I decided to stay and chat and see what he was going to offer. He said "Do you know you're preapproved for a $40,000 personal loan?"
So I took a year off work, rented a nice apartment with a great view, ordered copious bottles of wine and sat and drank and wrote for most of 2014.
It really is possible!
So, know that the universe will give you what you need but don't restrict the outcome to a job or money. Have no expectations of how the universe will take care of you.
answered 26 Jan '15, 16:25
Hi. I'm in a somewhat similar situation (unemployed etc.) and I have had similar stuff happening to me. Something good is about to happen and I'm really excited, but then it just doesn't come together. I'm not sure why it's that way, but I quess there's just more work to do. I'm finding a lot of definitions and beliefs that I've have not been even concious of yet.
Today I saw this video and in some way it gave me some insight to these things: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZWovuM69bIU
(Sometimes the wind blows on the mic, so it's hard to hear what he's saying, but most of the sound is ok)
I asked a similar question a while ago. http://www.inwardquest.com/questions/90815/why-is-it-that-when-everything-looks-like-its-going-well-things-fall-apart
answered 26 Jan '15, 16:00
perhaps it be the culture
answered 06 Feb '15, 18:22
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