I wonder if it is possible or probable for parents to clatter out of the lives of their grown-up children?
I know that it is not very probable for parents of younger children to clatter out, because they kind of wanted to experience these parents, but does this "change" when you're a grown up? I have often heard that the people around you that are closest to you are your best mirror, so when there's a difficult relationship, it usually happens because I am attracting it due to my vibration.
I've always had a difficult relationship with my mother, but it didn't really changed since I have done a lot of vibrational work. Sometimes it seems she gets on the same "vibrational length" as me and stays there for a while, but sooner or later we end up having a fight or something else happens that brings us apart again, even though I felt good before. So, to me it seems like she is definitely clattering out but somehow manages to "get in" again, especially when I'm feeling not so good because of the fight we've had.
Sometimes I think that it's better to end the relationship with her but then I wonder if it's the right decision (if it's clattering) or if she's only my mirror.
Has anyone experienced this before?
asked 25 Oct '15, 14:19
Sure, it is possible.
I gave up trying to have any kind of relationship with my own (extremely religious) parents some years ago...and I don't miss it at all.
And I don't think they miss it either :)
After all, if it's your belief that your offspring has been possessed by some Devil-like entity for daring to openly suggest that people should think for themselves - and, by having any association with them, you may even drag your own "Soul" down to "Hell" after you die as a result - then it probably comes as some considerable relief to not have any further contact with that particular high-ranking member of Satan's clan :)
I know some like to make a big deal about "blood lines" and so on, but, really, everything comes down to the interaction/influence of vibrations (as usual). And if you feel no vibrational resonance with someone, why artificially prolong the emotional pain for both parties...whether they are so-called "family members" or not?
But I don't think it's anything to be forced. Just keep holding to your ever-improving good feelings and just let the Law of Attraction gently, or sometimes not so gently - which is where clattering comes in - bring about whatever changes are required for your new vibrational status quo.
The only constant thing in life is change, so might as well get used to it :)
Hope that helps.
answered 25 Oct '15, 16:29
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