the most important thing to manifesting is being happy. That being happy before you get 'stuff' is the way to go instead of waiting for 'stuff' and then being happy

That sums it all up about as well as I've ever heard :)

She would say or do something that makes me want to quit everything and go back to my angry / hateful self. I try my very best to stay positive and ignore her but sometimes (more often than not), it brings out the worst in me.

You actually don't have to stay positive in order to be heading in the right direction, vibrationally-speaking. You just have to not have strong negative emotion about what you want. This is actually quite a different idea to positive-style thinking. In fact, the neutral point is your friend.

I could write out here a detailed explanation of why this is the case. But I figure you just want to know what to do in your life right now, rather than hear all the theory behind it :)

So what I would recommend you do is to apply the clearing process mentioned in What's the remedy for this explosive rage against my wife?

What you are aiming at is to get to the point where your boss can say anything to you that she likes and, while you may not like what she says or the way she says it, you don't react to it with strong negative emotion.

You're aiming at the kind of attitude that you would have if you switched over to a TV channel and it had some weird (to you) TV programme playing where you think to yourself "Huh, I never realized people actually watched this stuff".

And then you just casually flip over to another TV channel that you're more interested in. With this attitude, you don't punish yourself for inadvertently briefly watching something you weren't interested in - you just nonchalantly hit the button on your remote and watch something else instead :)

I would recommend using Stingray's Manifesting Experiment 4 with EFT/Faster EFT/Z Point Process, or a chosen clearing method that neutralizes negative emotions. I've used this process hundreds of times and it works wonders. Essentially study one of those healing methods if you haven't already and when you feel confident in your ability to use it, then answer all of the questions on the ME-4 spreadsheet. Essentially you will be pouring all of your feelings and emotions about your boss onto this spreadsheet and don't stop until every item on your sheet is at a zero on the zero to ten subject units of distress scale (SUDS). When everything is at a zero then you have successfully neutralized the issue and your vibration will have shifted. I recommend reading Stingray's description on Faster EFT.

Hi @echnarcissus, how to attract my dream job in midst of a toxic environment? There're many different ways of doing it, here's my favorite.

I'd mentally program myself using this template

http://www.servranx.com/Categories/Graphiques/DE-RADIESTHESIE/Selecteur-psychologique.aspx

It's simple to use. Just write a short phrase of what you wish on a piece of bristol paper using a lead pencil and place it on the center of the drawing, then place a photo of yourself on top making sure that both documents fit nicely inside the lozenge shape.

Line it up with magnetic north and leave it in a quiet place ... and that's all there is to it.

Using a pendulum it's very easy to feel the movements of energy in and around the device and know that it's working.