I would like to have valuable suggestions for manifesting a future for the new beginning. I live in India and have got engaged recently. If readers are not aware, there are arranged marriages in India where the girl and the guy seldom get chance to know each other. I am going to get married soon and the person that I will be spending life does not know much about the LOA and I am not sure if he believes it or not.
Anyhow, I want a life with proper values and I have written down a few things in my self-talk about the family I want. Now I am not sure if this is enough for life or I should be asking more from the relationship/family/in-laws/career/kids etc. Since I am not so much experienced in life, I would prefer having guidance from the InwardQuesters about what kind of future I should attract and how?
Therefore the questions will be multiple here but simplified as:
Being in an relationship is a bit different for me since I am my own person and have taken my own decisions till date. Falling in love is one thing but taking joint decisions is a bit difficult at this point.
I like the way I am and happy with my limitations, but when I am being advised by others to be like them - it is a bit difficult for me. I am not sure on how to tackle all this and so have got two questions listed above - ideal family and ideal relationship. I suppose this should include all.
I'm sorry, there is NO such thing as an "ideal" relationship or "ideal" family. Everyone is different and what is right for one, could be wrong for you. As for relationship - I would want to be in love with the man I marry and I would want it to be an equal partnership - both of us being equals . Are men and women considered equal in India?
As for LOA - ask him what he believes - after all, you plan to spend the rest of your life with this man.
As for family - that is a decision you need to make with your soon to be spouse - before you marry.
It sounds like you are excited to start your journey. I hope you are able to fall in love with this man; for love is the most important factor in a good marriage. You are very brave; unlike you - I would be very scared. I wish you the best - health, happiness and love.
Don't worry, I think instinctively, you will know what the "right" decisions are. Listen to your gut instincts and your inner wisdom.
answered 10 Jan '12, 00:11
Hello Perfection, rules in this area are minimal, the way to live is to "experience and enjoy" as white tiger often says ... feel how things go and adjust accordingly.
As for the law of attraction, even before trying to manifest anything, the very first step is to recognize and acknowledge that it is always in operation, just as the heart is designed to pump blood , so the mind always functions in the same way.
We all work in the same way, the first thing is to realize when and how we are putting this mechanism into motion.
have a great day :)
answered 10 Jan '12, 00:34
to answer your two question. i will give you a simple answer.in everything: life, love, friendship, family have faith and love seek the harmony and the truth. experience and enjoy. and you will have a abundance everything will follow. so experience and enjoy.
answered 10 Jan '12, 04:30
These three books will make a relationship wonderful, they let each side experience the greatest love but at the same time give each side the greatest understanding.
An excellent movie to see for relationship is "Fire Proof."
With these it can turn even a bad relationship into an ideal one as they bring a great understanding between each and this understanding brings greater love for each other.
answered 10 Jan '12, 18:56
It's nice to get advice, but sure to follow you own. Only you will know what to do with each challenge. It's going to be different, way different than you can imagine. You may be at odds with your family and customs, but there is plenty of room for happy relationships. The reason I say to follow your own advice is because people on this site may not know that much. I personally have been married 3 times. So, you can see I might not be a person with all the answers.
answered 11 Jan '12, 00:50
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