Why do I keep manifesting ornery bosses??? Recently I found that my boss became difficult to deal with - she has been near impossible and stopped giving me responsibilities.
Anyways I continued doing as much as I could and with the law of attraction I was able to manifest a fantastic new job at a very high position and the exact salary that I had asked for. Now in my new job, the person that I immediately report to is the most impossible human behing in the entire company.
My staff is happy that I am here and I have been able to gain their trust and overall develop a great relationship with them. However, my line manager continues to be this ornery woman who just seems to have issues upon issues.
Through my law of attraction work I have been able to ignore her but she isn't going away and it's really getting to me because I have so much work to do and so much value to offer.
For further information, see How can I stop manifesting frustration?
answered 10 Feb '12, 15:03
Your resistance to your boss and her personality is what keeps creating that in your reality. You keep giving your attention to what you already manifested, although it causes resistance.
Since letting go of this issue is hard (you see her every day), I suggest you start a book of positive aspects (an Abraham process, you can find the description on Youtube), and start writing about what is positive and good about her, and the same about your job.
Also, every time she pisses you off, you must find a way to not let that mess up your vibration. The key is to stop blaming her - she is not responsible for your vibration, she is not the problem here - your response to her is. Good processes for this are again from Abraham - pivoting or "wouldn't it be nice if". Again, details are in Youtube.
answered 10 Feb '12, 13:47
well you need to find the root of the problem. why is she acting that way? is it out of ego(power,independent thinking that only what she think matter)? if so try to cope with it it is her choice not your choice and there his nothing to do. but i would not ignore her because she will work according to her ego and you will have to suffer the consequence of her action. but at the end she will bear the consequence of her action and that his far worse because she will only have her self to blame.
answered 10 Feb '12, 17:02
MoonWillow, you probably won't be happy until you're running your own business...
You can manifest it the same way you manifest anything else.
Ensure your future success by finding out what's best about YOU and translating that information into an action plan.
Create a leadership program based on your highest values -- what you'd like to do and be most... Organize your time so that you have the on-going, one-to-one personal support that you need to facilitate continuous improvement in your whole growth process.
Then, when you've done your research and found the best business model for you, develop a complete business-building program that represents your highest values, promotes your core principles and enables you to lead a richer life doing what you do best...
Finally, when you've grown richer in such higher values as: order, loyalty and truth, you'll be ready to invite success into everything you do.
answered 11 Feb '12, 09:03
The phrase, "I hope I don't get an ornery boss", will attract an ornery boss. Ornery boss will be accepted by the subconscious regardless. It is still the focus, and will be delivered. Accept that there are good bosses out there, and you will meet them. It is all in the approach.
answered 18 Feb '12, 09:19
The Knights Alchemy
How long have you been at this job for? Perhaps you came in at the time where your boss is dealing with some internal issues of her own that she doesn't see what she's doing to you.
If you're willing to risk it, talk to her directly about it. Maybe she needs someone to talk to? Introduce her to LOA? If you get fired, I'm sure you can manifest another job. That's probably what I'd do. A dream job isn't a dream job if there's a mean boss. I would think LOA hasn't worked 100% just yet.
What you resist will only persist so that's why I probably am direct with things...
answered 13 Feb '12, 02:22
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