What I mean is, I am right now in a phase where I know that I really really want the relationship I want to manifest and it means life to me.. But ever since I have dropped the wish in my Box, I dont seem to feel the feeling of how much I wanted it before I wrote pages about it! Is it because I have off loaded my heart and mind by putting everything in writting? Or is it that I am actually loosing interest in that wish of mine? I have actually tried to create that feeling of excitement which I used to feel before I wrote my wish but it isnt really the way it was.. Is it wrong?
There's nothing wrong at all as far as I can see.
If you are now relaxed about what you want (even to the extent of seeming to lose interest in it), it is an excellent vibrational stance from which to allow it into your physical experience.
There is a manifesting principle that states that when something feels like "no big deal" to you (or feels like the Next Logical Step in your life), then you are on the verge of receiving it. This answer explains that idea a bit more.
It's one of the paradoxes of manifesting that by the time you are genuinely ready (vibrationally) to receive what you want (and keep it in your experience), you are no longer particularly excited by having it.
This is because you are already up to speed with the idea of it...the thrill comes about because of the vibrational gap between where you are (without it) and your vision of what it would be like to have it. The thrill is an indication that the vibrational gap still exists between where you are and what you want.
For example, just over the past month, I've had a couple of manifestations in my life that I would probably rate as spectacular as far as my own life is concerned. A year ago, I would have been amazed and delighted to have had these things happen.
But now when they have happened, I was relatively pleased (not thrilled, just pleased) for maybe a day or two and that was it really...my life just moved on to focusing on new desires that have resulted from those manifestations.
So what's the bottom line here?
Basically, if the thought of getting what you want makes you feel so excited that it seems like your life would perfect if you could just receive that one single thing...you are vibrationally still some distance from it.
On the other hand, if you have practised the thought of having it so much that you are now almost bored by the idea of having it...then you are on the verge of receiving it. :)
No, I think it's a good thing.
I believe that yearning for someone else all the time has a negative effect on manifesting a relationship. Your potential partner can sense that you are needy, and this puts them off.
I have always had better luck just enjoying people for who they are, and let the relationship go where it wants. This attitude respects the other person's free will and decision-making process.
In other words, as long as you have an insistence that this is the right person for me, and we should be together always, you are trying to control, instead of being the best person you can be, offering that, and seeing if the other person agrees. If they don't, they weren't the right person in the first place.
The good feelings will (and should) come from spending time with that person, enjoying their company, and appreciating them for who they are.
answered 05 May '10, 15:13
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