It's extrememly difficult/impossible to feel good or positive when you have a sick loved one, or after the death of a loved one. I think most would agree on that one. I am going through this now. Is being so incredibly sad at times going to bring more to me? Am I sending out the vibration? I mean....I just simply can't help it, but the last thing I want is more of this heartache.
asked 06 Jun '13, 10:09
I imagine how you feel about thinking about a sick loved one strongly relates to how you feel about yourself regarding your response to the situation with the sick loved one, followed by your general outlook on life.
If you have a loved one who is sick and you feel helpless and unable to do anything it will probably make you feel sick and lethargic as well. I have friends who are counselors and coaches who feel good while helping someone get better. Makes sense if you're making a sick person feel better it'll make you feel better. Even if you're not a doctor you can still help and feel better about the situation by giving them company, emotional health is much more important when sick than healthy.
Even in a situation you can't help with you can still find positivity realizing they would want you to be happy for both of you, or they'd want you to be happy in spite of their situation because that'd make them happier. If you believe in energy then good energy from loved ones would be more supportive for them, so it's in both of your best interests to approach it positively. Even if it is as simple as finding positivity for yourself so you can be a source of positivity around them, directly or indirectly.
answered 06 Jun '13, 22:25
WOW, this is an old session, I hope it helps you. This is Treb talking about death and how to help. ,
I am sorry to add more to this, but when my dad was sick, and I feared he was gonna die, H stayed sick. When i let go and finally realized he has his own path, Not just calmed my6 mind, BUT really came to peace, within two days he started feeling better. I was adding to it. I was co creating more experience. Honestly, it helps to try ur hardest to let go. Visualize these people getting better. If it doesn't work, it is not ur fault, it only means their path needs to be where they want it to be.
Love n light,
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