When the universe or God gives you signs in the past and present to keep going in the midst of extreme contrast and struggle is there still a time to give up? Should you follow your heart despite your hopelessness or continue
I am new to this site but have been following it for a while and i gotta say, im impressed with it and the knowledge you folks on it have. Im a very lucky guy to have found it
Now to the question which may seem quite simple in the form displayed "When the universe or God gives you signs in the past and present to keep going in the midst of extreme contrast and struggle is there still a time to give up? Should you follow your heart despite your hopelessness or continue?" To explain further although extreme and overwhelming contrast shows up in your pursuit of something and the universe STILL gives you blatant signs that it will work out with whats in ur heart, should ya stop? Even times when I have given up on this situation im currently going through every time i did give up this (only within my own mind I declared I was DONE) something wonderful would damn near IMMEDIATELY happen and get the situation back in motion and in the direction I wanted and now it's right back to where it began.
To make things even more complex than they are it involves someone else whom i love. This may sound great to some to have recieved these answers from the universe but it almost feels like im being toyed with by the universe or God (as strange as that may sound) and I know you get what you think about, even your fears. I am no fledgling by any means on this stuff. But this has been ongoing for a long time. A girl who I love (and I don't mean love in the childish way an emotionally attached teenager would put it but the real thing) has ran out of my life once more out of the big F word...thats right, fear. I know you may read this and think "oh, he has trouble letting go, he's just caught up in the conquest, he's attached to a fantasy, he doesn't know what he truly wants, blablabla" and although I could type myself blue in the face tryin to prove that this is not the case you're going to have your own opinion about my situation regardless.
So I am asking YOU; the reader to trust a complete and total stranger and give a guy madly in love the truest answers from your heart, mind and soul guided by source or god on what you would do in this situation (or if you have been in it yourself and it worked out between the two of you) and TRUST that this is not some childish fling or passing fancy.
She has severed contact with me for one reason and one reason only, fear. Whether that is fear of the unknown, fear of true happiness, fear of fullfllment, I don't even know anymore except that it's based on old fashioned and false religious concepts based on the fact that I am agnostic and she is under constant pressure from her social group. It is NOT however, based on your typical relationship problems such as cheating, jealousy, etc. Anyways, despite the intense connection that is there ever so clearly between us, and the mutual feelings (it's been stated as a fact already that it is) this has happened. Was it worth it? Yes. However Im left dumbfounded on what to do. Yet I have trouble "letting go" and trusting the universe to mend this situation and help overcome the deep fear that I obviously cannot do myself, though if I could I would. And it's hard for me to believe that itll work by simply "me being positive", even though when god weve been brought back together in what some would say wacky, insane, coincidental and miraculous means and then it ended up happening again. You can say maybe im being pointed in the right direction to someone else or whatever but I almost have to disagree because of what I feel at the very depth of my soul and universally considering the amount of times the minute I gave up and by a miracle things would bring us back together by serendipity. To put things into perspective for you im the unstoppable force theyre the immovable object, or better yet fear is the immovable object. So, what to do? Should I continue although the thought of trying to contact someone who is no longer talking to me upsets me deeply? I dont even wanna get into that position again of begging, pleading, explaining again. Should I let go and trust that it will work out although Ive done that before and it went right back to where it was? And is there any way that maybe by removing the fear from my own life (tho a different type from theirs) that since supposedly people are your mirror that will somehow remove theirs? Or can influence via law of attraction or "mirror concept" even come into play here? Im looking for intelligent, legitimate and thought provoking answers from the people who understand the depth of it an not the average "move on, start dating, distract yourself" stuff. keep in mind like i said these things are mutual so this is not a desperate HOW CAN I MAKE SOMEONE LOVE ME post and no offense to anyone if u ever posted something like that.
Here is how the law of attraction works. Think of shooting an arrow at the target you want. It takes effort to load the arrow and aim. It takes struggle to pull back on the arrow to get it ready to shoot. But for the arrow to hit the target you need to let go and trust.
That is when it hits its target! Every time you give up, you let go of that arrow. That is why you only see results when you quit.
Don't beg or plead with her to be yours! This puts you way below her. Begging and pleading is not attractive. Think of those you admire is there any that beg and plead that you admire? Usually the ones that beg and plead you feel sorry for. If you want her then you want her to want you, not to feel sorry for you.
There are two ways, one is equality. The second is power. Both are attractive. One you say she is no better than I am, we are equal. It doesn't matter if she is some beautiful voluptuous cheesecake, she is human and you are human, she is equal. It doesn't matter if she is wealthy and you are poor, you are equal. Never think she is better than you, if you do then your next thoughts are of why would she like me?
Next is power, that goes beyond equal. This puts you in position of her hero. Like you are better than her. That is why you see a lot of women with the wrong guys. In the old television show "Happy Days", The Fonz believed himself better than everyone. He lived that feeling, that was an example of pure power and confidence. He knew he was in control at all times. Everyone wanted to be like him. Women swooned at the sight of him! Be in control, and know you are in control. With the understanding that you are creating your experience, this conquers your fear.
You can not be afraid driving worried about where you may end up if you are the one choosing where you want to go.
It really comes to what your beliefs are, your beliefs of yourself. "None are above me, I need no one's approval to believe in myself." Apply this and remember it, this is the mind to have to be attractive.
Think, everything I do must come from confidence, command, control and authority. I am the creator of my experience, I go fourth boldly!
Be that, or at least be equal with her and meet on equal ground.
There really is something extraordinary about falling in love for the first time. Not very many people live happily ever after with their first love. She stopped all contact & communication was cut off 6 months ago. She left you wondering why - so many questions left unanswered.
"When the universe or God gives you signs to keep going in the midst of extreme contrast and struggle, is there still a time to give up?"
The past is over and you are the only one who continues to keep it alive.
Aren't you tired of being in pain & giving all your power away? Love is NOT painful and love is NEVER need based. (Pain, Need, Powerlessness are all FEAR based emotions - the big 'F'- FEAR)
Yes, Chosen One - it's time to let go and move on. She walked away 6 months ago. 6 months is a very long time in a life so young. You've spent the last 6 months suffering in a self imposed prison. 'Life' isn't about the past or the future, it's all about living in the present.
"Listen very carefully to this quote by Kahlil Gibran."
Or in other words 'If You Love Her, Set Her Free & Once You Set Her 'Free', You Too Will Know 'Freedom'.
Free - Freedom
.. a state of "being' - the state of not being subject to the control or power of another or affected by (a particular undesirable thing).
.. the power of self-determination attributed to the will; the quality of being independent of fate or necessity.
.. not or no longer confined or imprisoned. Freedom to create.
Take your power back & stop living in Fear....
Edited to answer question
My advice remains the same; it's the Kahlil Gibran quote I posted above.
You said you've been following IQ for awhile. I assume you know who Stingray is. I'm fairly certain I recall both @Stingray & @ursixx posting the same inspiring quote; tho I'm not sure if SR posted a source & sorry, I can't provide a link. Two of the best minds on IQ have posted this quote as an answer to questions similar to yours.
BUT - Here's a link to an answer given by Stingray in regards to remembering he had actually met his wife previously. This is very relevant & will give you something to focus on. Please read his answer and the comments after.
If the Universe wants you to be with Juliette - well to quote Stingray
In the meantime dear Romeo, while you're waiting on the Universe, I suggest you get that trans am running. Girls, like men with hot cars & I'm sure Juliette will appreciate a man with wheels.
Always remember this Dear Romeo
Remember to have fun; it's most important. Love, Ele
If there's anyway I can be of best service of knowledge to you it would be through sharing a story. You have asked all sorts of questions in your post but I feel this might essentially provide some insight.
I have 'fell in love' with a few girls now. What was reflected to me during these times I perceived as 'being in love' were nothing more than feelings and beliefs related to desperation, a lack of approval of myself, lack of self esteem, lack of enjoyment in life, lack of happy accepting myself...it's fair to say there in the generalised expression that there was a lack of healthy love for myself.
On an side note, do you think it was ironic that during all these times I was in love with certain girls I was actually very depressed about my life in general?
I learned everything I needed to learn from these girls, and it was fun. What do I mean? In one relationship, I learned I needed to have more fun with life and lighten up more. In another, I learned to be totally honest and comfortable being myself, and so on...
Now here's the point that I feel can help you out:
Another relationship formed, and I fell madly in love with this girl. The difference was, this time, this was real love. Yes, I had the sexual chemistry and romantic love for her, but it was not solely that. I loved her enough, and I loved myself enough to literally let each other be each other. We were lovers at first, then she wanted to end the relationship because she feared getting emotionally hurt. Judging by the physical circumstances, she had led me on big time when she unfortunantly told me she wanted out. Her actions wouldn't have said otherwise that we were interestingly one of the greatest, deepest partnerships available in western astrology if you score it based on our astrology (cancer and pieces).
However, with all the honesty involved in the relationship, things never got sour and games weren't played. She backed off big time when I told her after a few months, "I love you", and I don't ever regret saying that to her because it's merely, respectfully expressing how I feel. I didn't try and make her love me, I didn't want her to, I wanted her to be herself and if that meant she didn't want to commit to Nikulas then cool.
I natually got a little disappointed when it came to an end, yet I got over it almost insatantly. I found out through friends afterwards of her background and her fear of commiting to a relationship again, due to her past exeperiences and childhood memories. My physical mind could guess it was the greatest match ever created, but my Higher Mind knew this was the most efficient path of learning...I left the relationship with new insights about life and learned ways to improve myself very quickly.
After a very short time the universe delivered me a new girl, roughly 100 times better and hotter :) Would you think she likes me for me?
So in all this deliberate reminising, if there's anything I can offer it's this: Make it your choice to let things be so. If you do this properly you won't feel a need to generate expectations, because you'll trust that whatever's happening is for the best.
If it doesn't work out with her, then it's not your loss, or her loss, both both your gain!! Literally, seriously, I would suggest taking things as WIN/WIN even if you cannot percieve it to be so.
answered 03 Oct '13, 09:30
Do not say NO to anything in life, for what you consistently resist will surely persist, instead just focus on saying YES to everything you Love and look away from what doesn't feel good, give it no mind. For the negative is only there to serve as a reminder that the solution to everything is LOVE! Love like you never loved before filling yourself with it and by doing this, negative things cannot exist in reality. I imagine every day a world filled with peace and Love and because the law of attraction must comply that is my reality and can be possible for everyone. We are made of Love anything that feels bad is simply the lack of love. Love is the Ultimate Power and nothing bad can exist in life if you have Love in your heart. Isn't it true that when you feel Love it is impossible to feel bad, it is simply a choice. I needed to say this for me to move on in this light of Love that I am feeling. Today this is my answer to everything and it is working like nothing ever did or will. I love you all!
Peace and Love always, Dee
answered 03 Oct '13, 09:37
Was just going to comment this but it ended up too long very fast..
First, I like your question in general. Has a different feel than most questions of this nature, however, this means it's considerably more difficult to be able to offer any advice beyond the normal "distract yourself". Keep in mind however even if your intention is remaining invested in the relationship channeling the energy you're clearly feeling right now into something productive for your own improvement is still excellent advice you should always capitalize on every opportunity life gives you. Turbulent times have considerably higher chances of producing unique events of growth and/or awareness, whether they're resolved in a manner you desire or not.
On the actual topic, as we agree your situation clearly has a depth to it. Can you expand on the circumstances, any events preceding or leading up to your current predicament? Excuse me for the side question you're welcome to ignore, just randomly stood out to me probably incorrectly. Is there a reason you avoided any gender specific terminology?
It's better if you just say whatever comes to your mind naturally when prompted with being asked for more detail. However, if you can't think of anything else relevant to expand and help give clarity to the deeper portions, here are some possible considerations. What was your most recent conflict / was there a conflict or just a gradual 'falling out of touch'? You express there are strong connections and bonds, which can refer to a variety of levels people can relate to one another. What are the strongest points over which you have a connection? Just what comes to mind easily & naturally, try to minimize how much you 'correct' your initial thoughts or how much you seek out information you feel will be most relevant to share. More often your first thoughts on the subject are just as relevant if not more-so than the opinions you consider most relevant. What is the weakest connection, or the one which may be strong but is the most common source of conflict?
"No, and religiously we have a difference in belief considering that I am agnostic and the people she frequents aren't open to my lifestyle surrounding that fact. Nor do her guardians care for it. So it's a constant social struggle in her life."
Puts extra stress on you requiring you to monitor your behavior and how you present yourself around them. Even if you act the exact same as someone else they don't have a stigma against you'll be judged more harshly for bias's sake. Not insurmountable assuming you're patient and she is willing to work with you through it, because as uncomfortable as it is for you it is likely and possible to be for her, it is her family after all.
"Oh and we are both under aged as well so that is actually a factor. Just thought that might help you give me advice."
This is absolutely a factor. Good and bad. You preemptively suggested you wanted answers that 'understand the depth of it an not the average "move on, start dating, distract yourself" stuff.' Problem is, in your situation it seems (barring the middle option if you should so choose) to be the most appropriate advice, but not in the way you expected I don't think.
For starters, regain contact. There's no reason to wait. Keep it light, simple, even though you clearly care about the relationship separate yourself as much as possible from being emotionally invested in the contact or making it happen. Just make yourself available, make it known you want to stay connected irrelevant of anything else, try to leave returning contact up to her as much as possible while still making your presence clear, but avoid pressing too much (in both initiating contact and conversation content themselves).
This next bit is the part you didn't want. You don't have to "move on" or date anyone else, but you absolutely should focus on yourself. Learn a new skill, start a project, etc. This is critical for lots of reasons I don't want to elaborate on at the moment.
I'd suggest staying this course until normal casual contact is reestablished and you begin to get a feel for one another again.
What CalonLan said is the Wonderful answer! And that is the ONLY answer!!!
Because change is the only constant--hence the only valid-wise response:
Say Good-by to the past Enjoy the present Welcome the future
I do this, because I know that there is no logic in this world, it is a literal hell: 1) Many suffer from obesity while others suffer from poverty 2) When rulers amass WMD enough to destroy the earth several times, many people do not have a house (if all the money spent on arms is spent on construction of houses, we may even provide palaces for everyone!) 3) Man has only a momentary pleasure whereas woman has to carry the child for 9 months, go through labor-pain, and rear the child thereafter taking years.... Yet woman is given a secondary position.
This is the reason why I like Bible which highlights the logiclessness. Jesus did so many good things to people, which if written "the whole world would not have room for the books that would be written." (John 21:25) Yet people preferred Barabas, a bandit, who only did harm to the society. Even Lazarus, Jesus's friend, whom he resurrected as a specatcular finale of his miracles, did not turn in to speak in support of Jesus before nor after his death whereas apostle Paul, who never received any favor from Jesus, acted very mightily for him!
Hence don't ask why and how .... Just enjoy your present situation. Difficulties are meant to sharpen (not shatter) you!
Because its everyone's life. Once an action is chosen, result is fixed. Everyone will reap consequences for HIS/HER action. You concentrate on your life. If one chooses something that makes others unhappy, it is the reflection of what lies in his/her heart. They are not happy within, hence can give others only what they have--unhappiness. It is their choice, and their loss! You choose to be happy, and make others happy--and see the difference it brings to your life!
Chosen One, I have been exactly where you are. With the most bizarre slap-you-in-the face signs / vibrational matches. One example, I asked the Universe for a sign about this person and in that split second my phone rang and a caller asked to speak to 'insert the name of this person'. (He has a very unusual name so to get a wrong number like that was uncanny.) I can see now that this, my feelings for him, are part of my journey to wholeness.
As you keep walking along this path, the yearning and need for this person will subside. The love remains intact but the desperate desire to be with that person, now, now, now passes. This is probably not what you want to hear because you will probably not want your feelings to subside because that 'in love' feeling is so deep for you.
But, in my experience, the outward love that I was reaching for from and with this person has come about but that love, that hole has been filled inwardly from within, from myself, from Source. I still love him and if he manifests in my life it will be wonderful but if he doesn't there will be another 'him' to follow. The Universe is infinite and abundant and there is never just one of anything. Stay strong and positive and keep getting positive joy from the signs, if you can. Let them excite you because you desire is on the way to manifestation! Much love to you.
answered 08 Oct '13, 06:54
I would say the key here is to recognize whether it 'is' a sign from God or the universe or just in your head.
If it IS a sign from the above then you should NEVER give up. If it's only in your head then it's probability not that important.
answered 03 Oct '13, 08:26
first I will answer your question: when the universe or God gives you sign to keep going in the midst of extreme contrast and struggle, is there still a time to give up? first God does not struggle and is not trap in contrast, people in this world are because of their own division they are blind to the truth and cannot see and they cast stone and are trap under the same stone, and the do not properly split that pieces of wood. let me ask you does age have anything to do with love? here is what you said: I don't mean love in the childish way an emotionally attached teenager would put it but the real thing.
The man old in days will not hesitate to ask a small child seven days old about the place of life, and he will live. For many who are first will become last, and they will become one and the same.
you also said that you do not know why; then why did you not ask her? also after 5 time you do not know this person. maybe if you would be a little more interested in her you would know her better. what was it the 4 other time before do you know? what did you miss or what are you blind to? what is it that you do not want to see?
when you will not be blind to this you will know the truth about this and will know what to do. but for the moment you are in darkness about this.
Have you discovered, then, the beginning, that you look for the end? For where the beginning is, there will the end be. Blessed is he who will take his place in the beginning; he will know the end and will not experience death.
a little child of seven days just told you this. and this little child is worthy.
Let there be light, be the light that you can be, experience and enjoy.
update: I have found this video that will show you something that you might have miss
If you are constantly getting signs not to give up then the simple answer is TRUST THE UNIVERSE. The Universe does NOT play games. It might be that your lesson is to trust. It might also be that she has to go trough certain stages herself.There is also a matter of timing which the Universe can see which you can't. Human logic is very limited. I hope this puts your mind at rest.
answered 05 Oct '13, 05:24
" she has severed contact with me for one reason and one reason only, fear" Im interested in how you know this, has she told you? Also I wonder what she is fearful of, if indeed she is.
I'll be honest here, all of the women that have rejected me and had no further contact did so because they didn't want to be with me anymore.
Its going to be very hard for anyone on this site to advise you. Because were only getting your side of the situation. I guess if the lady in question posted too we would have more of an idea what to say.
Is your friend as upset about the split as you are? You've not really given us an inkling about how she feels!
Is she posting on any sites asking how this can be remedied? or is she getting on with her life?
answered 05 Oct '13, 17:44
Well in answer to your original question, I would say you don't really need to make a decision between either keeping going (despite the contrast) OR giving up. You could try a 3rd way! The 3rd way could be this: You are obviously feeling a lot of heartache from your question, so instead of concentrating on how you can get this girl you love back; you could instead leave that question to one side and concentrate on how you can feel better yourself and not be plagued by this heartache!! Because, what you have done, is given this girl and your heart-break situation the complete power over you - the power to make you happy or destroy you. Why not take back your power and say: I am no longer going to suffer at the mercy of this situation! I am better than this; I can give myself happiness for ME; my happiness is not dependent on what this girl decides to do! If she has left because you are not a Christian, then there is nothing much you can do; If it is because her parents are forcing her to, then you will have to wait till she has the courage to stand up for what she believes... If she wants to be with you , then she will; if she doesn't she won't; it really is that simple, but why let your whole life rest on someone who doesn't want to talk to you for now?! Aren't you better or worth more than that?! I say this harshly to try to get you to see that it isn't good idea to give someone else the key to your happiness. Find your own key and if they want to come back to you, then, hey, maybe you'll let them in, if you feel like it and you haven't met someone who wants you around... don't take this badly, i am just suggesting it. and remember when sth is cut short by whatever circumstances (here, its her parents maybe) it will always feel unfinished, more of a draw etc; whereas say you'd gone out together for 2 years you might have gotten bored by now... who knows... the future is not fixed..if you change, what happens will change... if you got real happy and went out with a supermodel, this girl may want you more - people are fickle like that! people always want more what they can't have..unless they are quite mature...u sound mature...you can do this: be happy for YOU and your life...don't let someone else's decision stop you from being the true person you are...! good luck
answered 05 Oct '13, 19:01
Sorry if I don't really have an answer, I might have a couple of questions for you, they'll come up as I explain my similar situation... it's kinda like the comment up there in your question with lots of questions, I liked it by the way, but i'll share my story briefly, btw questions are sometimes better than answers, because you can't really use the answer of some else's experience.
Well I'm writting because I, just today, happened to have a possible very alike situation. I am a believer in an awesome universe, with some buddhist in it backed with quantum physiscs, and in summary, I'd like everyone to be happy, but to be councious, to be fair, to be true to themselves and others, and leave ignorance once and for all. I don't believe in any biblical or mythical god at all, they give a childish and totally incomplete idea of our great universe in my experience.
Well, back to my original pint, because of my way of thinking, and being, my, no longer girlfriend, pretty much summed all my personality up by saying that I was "unpredictable". I couldn't believe it, we had a great month, I was taking every step so sure that I would do all things right this time, the whole month was pure happiness and laughs, probably it was the best starting relationship i've ever had, I was being myself, and I was making her really happy by just being myself, it was like a dream. We had a couple (litterally just a couple, one at the begining, and one today) of missunderstandings, flaws of mine in communication aspects, I tend to try to say things with few words, or I try to say things that should be very carefully said, I just burst them out without taking care of what words I use (oh well). Anyways, besides that, it seemed almost magical, I spent awesome time with her, and I was sure it was the other way around.
Perhaps she started having doubts begining with my support for cannabis and it's legalization, even though she at last understood that it was a very misunderstood plant, with great attributes that were purposely hidden by private interests (don't know if you agree, but just go on). I also was mechanical in my way of life, calendars were not a rule for me, they did not limit me, if I wanted to follow the current schedule I would, if not, I would improvise, you (and her also) wouldn't believe how well things turned for me most of the time even in my (apparent) disorganized way. I also had the, perhaps cocky, idea of giving money to a poor beggar yesterday, who "blessed me" in the "christian way", and I turned it away saying "I don't believe in your god" in front of her (My girlfrield, I think that ###### her off).
Ok I'm getting carried by my story, here come the questions. Perhaps, are we too open about our findings?(or our beliefs, knowledge, certain or uncertain facts) Should we keep it much more private until we are wise enough to put it in simple words?. You may be agnostic, I'm not sure if you pay attention to conspiracy theories, but there are some I've followed closely and they become way too obvious, way too clear. This world is crazy, there seems like evil men everywhere are trying desperately to keep us in prison. I talked a lot about it, and even though I always found a way to make a joke and break the ice (when she seemed to be overwhelmed), maybe it was too much for her. Am I just scaring people away by our curiosity of how to break free? Are we so lost? or are the so lost they could never see the light of truth if it hit them in the forehead?. Should we learn to chooser our words better? To blend in the rest of society as if we were never intending to break free of it? Do we become too critical? too harsh? too arrogant?
Perhaps you havent talked about these things, but when we tend to have a different, perhaps wider, maybe even narrower views of life, but we feel we're on the right track, and life in many ways rewards us like we are on the right track, we just feel the need to tell, the need to let others know there is a way for things to go great, for people to be happier in a much more simple way, much more filling way that just, studying hard, working like a robot, making money, payoff bills, buy tv, watch tv, have a couch, have a bed, go to bed, get up to work, eat, drink, sleep again.
Did I say something wrong perhaps? did I force her into my view of life? Even if I am in the path to freedom, there is no way I can force somebody to be free, I would not be freedom then. But if I shut it all up, would I stop being myself? Could I find a wiser way to show the path? Am I so sure I'm on the right path?
If you're anwswer is pretty much, "I never said much to her, or if I did, I was never pushy, or rarely tried to convince her of anything, in fact I never insisted on a subject, I was very aware, yet non-concerned with her views of life"
Then all I can say man, is that life, sooner or later, is about to give you a very pleasant surpise :). Better yet, you'd be a much wiser man to face this next surprise. So I guess you shouldn't worry, and I guess neither should I. My best wishes.
answered 15 Oct '13, 20:33
In my humble opinion, you are suppose to first feel 100% whole and happy (thus not empty or lacking) on your own. Try and remember when you first attracted a person in your life, at that specific moment I'm pretty sure you were not feeling empty or in lack of. Feeling empty or in lack, means you will be attracting more of it! This is not a feeling of someone when they feel in love. When in love, love is reciprocated (and yes there is the feeling of insecurity from both perhaps as they are getting to know each other, in this case again like attracts like) However at this moment you are questioning and wondering and confused about what the other person thinks and feels (you know she loves you but yet why are her actions contradicting) this questioning and insecurity will only lead you to more questions and reasons to be insecure. So try it again and position yourself where you would want to be. Feeling the emotions you would want to feel, thinking the thoughts you would want to think, speaking the words you woulds speak and perhaps even the the actions that you would act as if you were already in the relationship. But the relationship after all this that you will have developed will be with yourself, a better and stronger one. Then you are happy and loving with no expectations, and who would not want to be around you??? Everyone will !!! do you get my point??
answered 20 Oct '13, 22:19
If you are seeing this message then the Inward Quest system has noticed that your web browser is behaving in an unusual way and is now blocking your active participation in this site for security reasons. As a result, among other things, you may find that you are unable to answer any questions or leave any comments. Unusual browser behavior is often caused by add-ons (ad-blocking, privacy etc) that interfere with the operation of our website. If you have installed these kinds of add-ons, we suggest you disable them for this website