I can't make the right decision and be at peace because my ego is ruling me big time lately. How can I stop my ego manipulating me? I can't even relax and meditate because of my situation.
Here's the detail...
My ego and pride think she's great. She graduated with honors, made it to top 10 of the board exam and took up masters in business granted with scholarship. In short she has full of pride.
Her co-worker, well... she also got few of her pride but it cant be compared to me. She's only better because I think she's the Manager's bet. She likes to compete with me and wants to be the center of attention.
How can I resolve this? How can I clear up my mind? Help, deep breathing and meditation is not enough...
Thanks in Advance!
This part of your question sounds like an old part of you speaking
No one is better than you and you are no better than anyone else .We are all equal .
Don't accept it. Celebrate it! Share the success.age does not matter let your work shine with love and caring .when you do this you will put your ego to sleep again
Everyday is a new day, it isn't yesterday, it isn't tomorrow. Fresh start, new day. Out with these old and unhelpful thoughts. Be the better person and be happy that you are.
answered 04 Mar '11, 14:59
E.G.O. stands for "Edging God Out". Just slip Him back where He belongs!
Just a little P.S. from Jai
answered 05 Mar '11, 08:55
You can help your ego make the right decision by asking yourself, What would love do? and, How am I going to feel about this on my death bed?
answered 04 Mar '11, 10:10
Youve already started making them.
Youve identified the ego,youve stepped outside it and observed its action.
As far as i can tell from reading Tolle and studying his work your 90% of the way there.He believes you cant ever totally divorce yourself from your ego,but with the occasional step outside and frank and honest appraisal your back in charge.
Ive probably massivly oversimplified that ,but its the way i read it.
Perhaps you can't make the right decision and be at peace with it because it isn't the 'right' decision for you at this particular time? You'll just know what needs to be done by simply listening to your heart.
thank you, namaste
answered 04 Mar '11, 12:41
Emotional Freedom Technique was developed by Gary Craig. It is a technique that uses tapping on meridian points while saying affirmations. It is like accupuncture without needlse meets psychology. Here is a video that shows you how to do it. This is not me, but a video I like to use to share with others over the internet. You can do more research on it and how it works and stuff, but this should get you going. While you are tapping along with her, say what she is saying and do what she is doing. Use words, names and titles that are pertinent to your situation. Tune in to how you are feeling about the situation while you are tapping. The tapping clears the emotions so that that you are not so emotionally charged about the situation. I have cleared obsessive thoughts, fears, etc... Be patient and be consistant. It could take one round, it could take several rounds, it could take one session, it could take several sessions. Just don't give up, it will give you relief if you do it.
answered 04 Mar '11, 14:17
Wow. You need to stop trashing other people and whining. I thought this was an Abraham Hicks site. If you read or listened to anything they wrote or said you would not be sharing your situation. Take responsibility for your inappropriate actions. You are getting help with comments like how you would feel on your deathbed? What would Jesus do? Really? Now you are feeling worse instead of better.
answered 05 Mar '11, 05:29
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