Well, White Tiger, first you have to change yourself. Let’s see if this perspective sheds any light on your reality and how you can change it into something that serves you better. You’ve posted a couple of these kinds of posts, so it seems as though a part of you wants to change. Are you willing to change?

we live in a world of lie and deceit...

Actually, you live in that kind of world, whereas I do not. I choose to live on a small tropical island surrounded by happy people. That’s not to say that everyone who lives here is happy, it simply means that, in general, the people I interact with are happy and so am I :)

Your current ideas are obviously not serving you; otherwise you wouldn’t be caught in a reality you don’t prefer, neither would you be asking these kinds of questions. Are you ready to look into other ideas? And are you willing to drop certain ideas and thoughts concerning how your reality is created and change them into ideas that will serve you better?

...how do we change that?

It isn’t necessary to go into any of the details because those details only concern you. And once you get to the root of reality creation you’ll become self-empowered and you’ll cause any and all of the details you don’t prefer to change.

Your reality is merely a reflection of how you’ve defined reality to be. There is no reality other than your definition of reality. Your Universe is impartial and impersonal; it only has the ability to reflect your definition of reality back to you. Therefore, whatever reality you’re getting and experiencing IS how you’ve defined reality to be for you.

Now, for you, this may be the hard part. Although reality IS always a reflection of how you’ve defined it to be, any reality can only manifest once you truly believe that it can manifest in that way. If you don’t really, truly, believe that reality can be as you imagine it, then it can’t.

You, through your beliefs are the operant power that controls and determines your reality. In other words your belief in any reality that you’ve defined to be reality IS the cause of your experience of reality and not the other way around. Relax into the idea and check it out…

Once you’re living and experiencing any particular reality, then you say: see this is my reality and you focus on that and you get more of that to experience and it’s all good. You could say that the experience causes more similar experience for you to experience. Unless you don’t like your current reality because it’s not serving you and then you want to change it into something better.

So now you must redefine how you want reality to be and then believe in your new definition and have faith (believe beyond doubt) that it will manifest and BE your new reality and then it will be; it’s that simple, unless we make it more complicated.

Please understand that I’m not trying to convince you of anything, I’m not trying at all; I’m merely passing on what works for me and thus what I know to be true. I love writing about metaphysical subjects and if someone gets something from it, all the better :)

Your challenge lies in changing your belief that you only experience and you don’t believe because that’s not how your reality (all reality) is created. It doesn’t matter how many times you say: “I only experience” because you can’t prove a point by constant repetition, especially since that’s not how reality works. If you want to see positive results, you must do it!

Many people on this forum have pointed this out to you. Maybe because they understand that our Universe is driven by our beliefs or at least they haven’t removed ‘belief’ from their vocabulary. Without belief nothing happens, belief is the driving engine that causes the change. Are you willing to change?

And once a person really gets the ideas outlined above…

Realize that on a deeper level changing your belief will cause a change in your vibration. We live in a universe of vibrational attraction and due to the present moment being all there really is; all realities co-exist simultaneously. Therefore, to change your reality into a preferred reality, it’s necessary to change your vibration to BE the same or very close to the vibration of the reality you want to perceive and then you’ll attract, perceive and experience it.

If your reality is filled with unfriendly, unhappy or deceitful people, it’s because you are vibrating somewhere in the vicinity of unfriendly, unhappy or deceit (inc. self-deceit or self-denial). Remember, this is not a judgment; the only judge is you. There is only unconditional love, so that’s what we are all made of as well, logical? Thus, the only way judgment can occur is from an unclear mind; a mind that has not ventured to the root of how reality is created.

Anyway, to change your vibration you have to change your beliefs and definitions; it really is that simple. Look in the mirror, your current reality, and realize that to change the reflection you must change your vibration. Step Up to the vibration you prefer by redefining and believing in any preferred reality. All choices, definitions and beliefs concerning reality are equal because there’s no reality for you to experience, other than what you prefer.

This is what is meant by self empowerment my friends. Understanding that you have the power to live the life you prefer and the power to change anything you no longer prefer into something you now prefer. Make complaining a thing of the past and move into your idealized preference ♥