I am in a dilemma and need your help.
I had got a decent job about 4 months ago. All's well in this job apart from the fact the industry and work is not something that excites me. When I had taken up this job, I was in a situation where I really needed a good job, and considering all the probable options I had at that point in time, this seemed to be the best choice.
Since the last 2 months I am constantly getting an inner call that I want to quit this job and get on my own as an entrepreneur. It would be important to quote here that I always want to have my own business. Even when I had taken up the job I knew that I am going to start my own business but probably I was looking at slightly longer time lines, may be a couple of years (to the maximum). When I was looking for a job before, I had initiated a few small businesses and I plan to build them further. I have always been certain that I will be an entrepreneur.
I have discussed this with with my spouse a couple of times and there seems to be some resistance and as of the last discussion we agreed that in the couple of months, when we have parallely grown our business which we plan to expand, so as to ensure that the cash flows from business are compensating for the absence of my salaried income, that would be the right time to quit. I felt that is fair enough. But I also sense a feel of uncertainty at this point in time. Also every single day I get this strong inner call that I should quit my job right now and get started with our business. Its a kind of impatience may be. And it feels like I am ready to take the plunge even with this uncertainty.
I also understand that I cannot progress to something better from a point where I am unhappy about my current job and circumstances. Hence I also find positive aspects about my job and remain in a fairly neutral and satisfied stance as far as my job is concerned.
What I am trying to understand is that when would be the right time to make that move. At one end I get this inner call everyday and on the other hand there seems to be little resistance and uncertainty accompanied with it. Sometimes I also feel that I am pushing a bit for this change and hence the resistance.
I want to know that should I wait for a time where I will get a strong indication where the resistance will also fade away and that would be the perfect time? Or should I follow my instincts now and make the change?
Look forward to your valuable feedback and suggestions. I have learned a great deal from all of you here and I have to stay that my life has been on the improvement path since the time I have started visiting IQ. Thanks so much :)
I think the key to a decision like this is to make it from within The Vortex - which is simply a helpful analogy (from Abraham) representing alignment with your Higher/Broader Self.
You'll probably find you have different inspirations when you are inside the Vortex compared to when you are outside the Vortex.
That's why I advocate my philosophy of constantly checking whether you are inside the Vortex before doing anything important...ideally, before doing anything at all...ever :)
Once you are inside the Vortex, you can reliably follow your instincts as to what you should physically do next...until you no longer feel inspired to do it any further.
Then stop and make it your only work to align yourself with the Vortex again and wait for the feeling of inspiration again before proceeding further. Just get on with other aspects of your life in the meantime.
It might seem a bit scary at first following inspirations from The Vortex and you may end up doing things that others think are foolhardy - that happens to me regularly :) - but the opinion of others doesn't matter...it's only the opinion of that Broader You that matters.
It is quite possible as you continue down this road then further problems will arise as a result of you following your Vortex-inspired decisions but the solution to them is always the same again...realign with the Vortex and wait for inspiration.
I guess the basic idea I am putting forward here is:
answered 06 Sep '11, 08:44
Very few people are really aware of the inner call. Ones who think they are, get mixed up between listening to their mind and listening to their hearts. There is a very thin line between the two, and it needs great skill in assessing whether the voice is the mind's or the hearts.
Dear Sourabh, I don't want to be a wet blanket but it would be best to make sure that you are ready for your dream before embarking on it. The Job you have at the moment pays you a regular salary and in the dream job you will be paying your own salary. Can you afford it? I'm all for you living your dream but if you save a years worth of living expenses than you will be able to survive a year without having to worry where your rent, food and other expenses will come from and at the same time make it more enjoyable in your dream job which will make it easier to be positive and attract clients or whatever it is you need. Think and look before you leap.
On the positive side do your LOA meditations and create that which you want. Imagine yourself living your dream life already with very positive aspects and you will attract it.
About your present job. Below are some pointers on how to learn to love the work you are doing at present so to make your remaining time there as pleasant as possible. Every morning on awakening or whenever you can remind yourself of these.
Those are just some of the reasons to thank God that you found this work and to be grateful, appreciative and love the work you do for the short amount of time you will still be there. It will make your time there easier and happier to bear. When you are happier it is much easier to attract the good things in life and the sooner you can live your dream.
If this change that you DESIRE is so burning and encompassing. It will come. BELIEVE that!
The resistance that is put forth by your wife is a good thing. It adds more wood to the fire burning within you. To see the road you want to follow. The timing of the change will be clear to you when you work through the resistance you feel and the feeling is right/in the Iortex. Be aware of your feelings/heart.
answered 07 Sep '11, 07:32
consider the positive and negative aspect from your job. do the same with your business. try to solve the negative aspect. once you will be ready to make the move you will know it. if their is no more negative aspect you will not have anny doubt. experience and enjoy.
answered 06 Sep '11, 08:21
Have you considered that you may be resisting the resistance of your spouse as far as wanting to quit your current job right now? I'm not saying it's definitely the case by any means. It could also just be some impatience on your part too, especially knowing that your current job is not in a field that excites you. Do you possibly have a fear that if you stay in your current job for another couple of months that you will get to the point that it will be draining your energy? You also need to consider how important it is to you to honor your spouse's wish to wait at least a couple more months. These are just a few questions/things to consider.
I'd do some journaling asking for guidance. However you might believe in that guidance; angels, spirit guides, higher self. Get yourself in a quiet place and a calm state of mind. Then just write, Dear Higher Self -- and ask your question(s). Then write Dear Sourabh, and just let yourself write whatever comes to mind. Do this several times and see if what your answers are. You can write your answers with your non-dominant hand. I find this especially helpful because it gets me concentrating on writing well enough to actually read what I'm writing that I get out of being logical or rational (hence it's actually me answering) to get down to better answers.
Hope this helps a bit :)
answered 06 Sep '11, 12:39
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