This is an out of the Vortex question. I usually find my self in a situation where I am vibrationally very low, once every month. You can say that I am distressed right now.
I really need your help on this and hence asking this question. This question has reference to my previous question as below, where in I had asked when would be the right time to move from my job to my business.
This issue has been bothering me for over 2 months now. The situation now is that I don't feel any enthusiasm for my job anymore and don't feel like working at all. Every single day I have to do some vibrational work to ensure that I work, and even with that I end up doing very little work and then the guilt of not doing justice to my job. Hence even my performance in my job has taken a beating and is reflecting in my feedback. I feel I am not doing or learning anything in my job and hence stagnating. Also feel that I am losing touch with my business skills and aptitude.
I have done EFT several times to remove negative emotions in my mind associated with my job, but only to find that these resurface soon enough. To some extent this has resulted in my losing some faith on EFT in removing the negative feelings from the root. I have been practicing EFT since more than 8 months now and have lately started practicing the Faster EFT style (by Robert Smith). Have learned this mostly from youtube.
Also since I have been pre occupied with this negative emotion regarding my job, a few health issues have come up. I have had several rounds of talks with my wife as she is the only one I can share my true feelings with. But somehow there is this insecurity of cashflows not coming in once I stop my job. Even the business efforts that we are making parallely are not giving any returns.
I have tried the Manifesting Expreriment-4 a couple of times, but that too hasn't yielded any thing great. I am sure there is something that I am doing wrong here because of which these awesome techniques and processes are not working for me. I really do believe that these work and there have been instances when these have worked to some extent in the past for me.
My wife is slightly unhappy with me and so am I with the way I am responding to this situation given the vibrational progress I have made over the past year or so. Which makes me lesser confident to take on business head on now.
I am in a mess and emotional turmoil where in I am not enjoying my job at all. I want to move fully and immediately into business but not confident of that as well as I haven't been in vibrational harmony over the last few months.
I am aware that I cannot move to something better without making peace with where I am and appreciating what I have but some how I have not been able to do this. I feel like running away from the situation and I know that this not the solution. I feel like quitting my job every single day but I know that would be disastrous without having achieved vibrational alignment to move ahead successfully.
Request your help, suggestions and advice.
Thanks so much!!
It's a difficult business answering "out of the Vortex" questions because you won't hear an "In-The-Vortex" answer when you are there - it will just sound like "blah, blah, blah" :)
But then once you're in your Vortex, you won't need any answers from anyone else because your own unique answers will be obvious to you, and you will easily understand how all the "In-The-Vortex" answers already on this website relate to your situation.
Makes providing a useful answer a bit tricky, huh? :)
So, really, all I can offer you right now that isn't going to sound like Stingray doing his usual "blah, blah, blah" are a few suggestions on how to streamline Manifesting Experiment 4 to make it more effective for you.
These are some ideas that I am playing around with right now and getting interesting results with, so even if it does sound like "blah, blah, blah" to you at this moment, it might still be useful to someone else...
Dear Sourabh, I'm sorry to hear you are in distress, and it sounds as if you are going through a mild depression. You need to give yourself some incentive and something to look forward to. You also need to have some fun in your life to counteract the feelings of hopelesness.
Decide when you want to start your business (like 6 months or a years time) and make a big calendar chart and hang it on the wall where you can see it every day. Start crossing off days one at a time so that you can see that you are slowly getting closer to your dream. That way you will have something to look forward to.
Have some fun in your life so that you can forget your troubles for a while. What did you do for fun before? Do more of it because play is important. Include your wife and just decide today is our day of fun and play and I refuse to worry about mundane things of life for this day. You dont need money to have a fun day. Go for a walk or a picknick or whatever you enjoyed doing. If nothing else put on some good music and dance. Some form of exercise is important. Do this once a week if possible.
Read again the answer I gave you for the question "When would be the best time to answer my inner call" and start to practice the sugestions again but this time dilligently every day without fail and I can assure you thing will improve.
You say you are aprhensive about your dream job and that is normal for all to some extent are aprihensive about starting anew no matter how excited they might also be. Every day visualise yourself victorious in your new job and feel the happiness it brings. It might take a bit of time but you will eventualy get it right so keep practising. If you do all the above you should see improvement in the way you feel so vibrationaly you will be better.
If none of the above work and you still feel low than you should see a medical or alternative practicioner for you could be suffering from of deppressin and this needs to be resolved for your happiness. Have some Reiki healing done.
Eat regularly and exercise and do your inner work and you should feel better and see the light at the end of the tunnel. I wish you hope and happiness.
answered 04 Oct '11, 07:39
How about going to your local hospital or animal shelter (which ever is applicable to you) and giving your time to those who need it? That might give you perspective again.
answered 04 Oct '11, 08:52
your issue is your ambition not fitting with the job you have. that is why it is called a job. but you know what you need a job. yes i agree with you you stagnate and waste time. the real question is are you ready to do something else if so make that change. if not stay there. you have free will so use it wisely it is as simple as that. and you do not need to suffer from it. those though and emotion are in you for something did you meditate and find the meaning to put them to rest? if not try it. experience and enjoy.
answered 06 Oct '11, 23:37
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