It has always been said that your thoughts or vibrations reflect your reality, and personally I have found that to be true to a large extent so far.
When I was small, I was easily the smallest or little guy in the class but I seldom get picked on. Well, I did get picked on a few times but not as much as some other guy in the class who was much larger than me. I always wondered why until I learnt about the Law of Attraction and metaphysical stuff.
You could check whether your little friend is always living a place of fear or lack due to his surroundings or environment. Like check whether he is always in a happy mood or a negative mood, and if he is in a negative mood always you could try and find ways to cheer him up.
answered 07 Dec '11, 01:56
Hi, It's your friend's fear or lack of self esteem that's attracting the bullies. Do you remember the story in "The Secret" about the gay guy who wanted to be a comedian but everyone kept taunting him about being gay?
He was taught to alter his own thoughts, which really amounted to making peace with himself, and the taunting stopped and his career in comedy took off.
(At least, that's what they say in the movie! Forgive me for not remembering all the details - I haven't watched it in a while).
The LOA works, as far as I see it, like this: Believe in yourself => Believe in your dreams => Trust the universe to deliver and keep feeling good while you wait.
Works for me every time! Hope that helps. Trevor.
answered 17 Dec '11, 17:45
I learnt boxing which really helped as I got used to people being in my space and hitting me. It gave me a lot of confidence and meant that I didn't have to hit anyone. If someone was aggressive and in my face it was something that I was used to and what could they do?
Most people are not used to being hit which is what creates the fear but after hours of sparring it's no big deal and you learn not to panic when hit and not to panic if someone is threatening to hit you, just respond to actual punches.
Most people, when hit hard a few times, drop their hands and don't know what to do but with a couple of sparring sessions your friend will and this will give him confidence which in turn will mean he won't have to hit anyone.
answered 19 Dec '11, 19:17
Learn EFT. You can find how to videos on youtube and other sites online. Help your friend to do the EFT to eliminate the negative emotions, fears, and limiting beliefs that are attracting this bullying.
answered 07 Dec '11, 13:12
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