Every once in a while I encounter a friend or family member who is going through "tough times", or is clearly experiencing a vibrational low point regarding some event or circumstance in their lives.
I know the best possible solution would be to teach them about LOA and the world of vibration, and get them to start doing manifesting experiments on their own...
However, sometimes it is difficult to impart a series of teachings in a short amount of time, and when someone is feeling particularly low on the vibrational scale.
So, my question is, is it possible to help raise that person's vibration in the moment, by doing a focus block "in reverse"? In other words, come up with statements that you think will give THEM a sense of relief? Or is there a better way to help them?
Of course I already know that it's ultimately their responsibility to work things out, and raise their own vibration...but it seems like it would be a nice thing if I could give them a little helpful "push" up the vibrational scale during their times of distress.
Just curious to know if anyone has any insights. Thanks in advance.
asked 18 Oct '12, 16:42
Yes, ultimately that's all you really can do. Abraham call it "uplifting" others, or "soothing them into a better-feeling place".
Someone out of the Vortex isn't going to hear (or want to hear) what someone in the Vortex has to say...and the only time to genuinely teach others is when you are in the Vortex yourself.
That tends to limit the interactions you can have with out-of-the-Vortex people - unless you like sounding like blah, blah, blah to them :)
So the rest of the time, when there is a vibrational "mismatch" between what they want to know and what they are allowing themselves to hear, you just have to hold back on what you personally know about Law of Attraction ideas and just "soothe" them instead.
Eventually, when they are in a much better feeling-place, you can explain concepts in more detail (if they ask) - and then they will be ready to hear them.
Until that time, yes, just bring them a sense of relief in whatever way you feel inspired towards.
answered 18 Oct '12, 17:37
What helped me to realize the LOA, was when a couple of people, who don't believe in the LOA, made comments to me during my negative times. I had been in 4 accidents, and asked, "Why does this keep happening to me?" My mom said, "I read that the people who say that keep having the same problem." That got me thinking in ways that led me to LOA.
Another time, I was talking to my friend about some fears I had and she said something about speaking them to life, then they happened. So, this too made me think. I hadn't heard of LOA, so I didn't know there was something really happening there.
Before all that, I was the one who would find the bright side of other people's situations and show them. Some people liked it and felt better, some got irritated. Each person is different. So knowing them helps to decide the best approach.
answered 19 Oct '12, 08:47
@lozenge123- i think it is possible if you truely want to help someone. as stingray said."you can just uplift them". but, if you do it in other way..,it could help them.i have tried this method for many-many times till now n i have found it works, like- when i truely want to help others..i take a piece of paper n simply write that"i am so happy n greatful god tht so..n so..is now leading his life in his great happiness,love n harmony. thank you!!!". n another method is- "go into the alpha level of meditation n simply visualize that the one u wanna help is out of tht situation n now ur getting good newzz from them-like getting a phone call of e-mail". it actually works u know.., i have tried it a lot n u really feel so good that u have helped that person, without him knowing that.n u see how it is ,when we wish for others.., actualy we wish for well being of us. cos in this world of matrixx there is no separation. i hope this answer helps u..,love,light n blessings to you..:)))
answered 19 Oct '12, 04:00
If you make someone feel better no matter how you did it you do raise their vibration for they will feel better. Feeling better gives them hope and courage to do better. That is on the physical level. On the psychic level you can imagine the person happy, healthy and smiling and feel internaly that you yourself are happy, healthy and smilling. This works too for many although not for all.
I prefere to offer help or wait till I'm asked for help but if the person knows nothing about LOA the best ting is to gift them a book like "The Secret" as they all seem to love that one.
answered 19 Oct '12, 12:49