Dear all,

Every once in a while I encounter a friend or family member who is going through "tough times", or is clearly experiencing a vibrational low point regarding some event or circumstance in their lives.

I know the best possible solution would be to teach them about LOA and the world of vibration, and get them to start doing manifesting experiments on their own...

However, sometimes it is difficult to impart a series of teachings in a short amount of time, and when someone is feeling particularly low on the vibrational scale.

So, my question is, is it possible to help raise that person's vibration in the moment, by doing a focus block "in reverse"? In other words, come up with statements that you think will give THEM a sense of relief? Or is there a better way to help them?

Of course I already know that it's ultimately their responsibility to work things out, and raise their own vibration...but it seems like it would be a nice thing if I could give them a little helpful "push" up the vibrational scale during their times of distress.

Just curious to know if anyone has any insights. Thanks in advance.

asked 18 Oct '12, 16:42

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In other words, come up with statements that you think will give THEM a sense of relief?

Yes, ultimately that's all you really can do. Abraham call it "uplifting" others, or "soothing them into a better-feeling place".

Someone out of the Vortex isn't going to hear (or want to hear) what someone in the Vortex has to say...and the only time to genuinely teach others is when you are in the Vortex yourself.

That tends to limit the interactions you can have with out-of-the-Vortex people - unless you like sounding like blah, blah, blah to them :)

So the rest of the time, when there is a vibrational "mismatch" between what they want to know and what they are allowing themselves to hear, you just have to hold back on what you personally know about Law of Attraction ideas and just "soothe" them instead.

Eventually, when they are in a much better feeling-place, you can explain concepts in more detail (if they ask) - and then they will be ready to hear them.

Until that time, yes, just bring them a sense of relief in whatever way you feel inspired towards.


answered 18 Oct '12, 17:37

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@Stingray - Thanks so much for your answer, and the links...really clarifies how to deal with these sort of situations.

(18 Oct '12, 18:38) lozenge123

@Stingray- Brilliant, thanks. Just to clarify. When we are in the Vortex we can still attract people out of the Vortex because we still share something vibrationally at a deeper level? Is this correct? Thank you:)

(20 Oct '12, 06:12) Satori

@Satori - The reason anything can knock us out of the Vortex is because our Broader/Higher Self expanded itself out of alignment with our physical self. In other words, our Higher Self has a desire for more experience otherwise we would never be out of the Vortex and there would be no point physically incarnating. It's a peculiarity of life that so often, from our physical perspectives, we are trying to limit and control our experiences while our Higher Selves are doing the opposite :)

(21 Oct '12, 10:36) Stingray

@Satori - So, yes, we can attract people out of the Vortex - even when we are in the Vortex ourselves - because our Higher Selves are emitting the vibrational intention for seeking new experiences and there is something to gained experientially from that interaction...the interaction is matching something that the Higher Self (The Real You) wants.

(21 Oct '12, 10:39) Stingray

@Stingray - Thank you Stingray. Appreciate that. Very interesting. Do you think some of these experiences the Higher Self wants are prolonged painful ones? To people like ourselves getting in the Vortex daily, are we avoiding some of these experiences? Thanks.

(21 Oct '12, 11:17) Satori

@Satori - "painful ones?" - Never, not even for a second. All pain is conscious choice by physical self...a deliberate decision to perceive from a painful place. If physical self went along with the idea that Good Feels Good then Higher Self would gain experience while Physical Self would experience joy...from that endless realigning with the Vortex. Somewhere somehow, our human societies have convinced us that feeling good is secondary. That's a sure recipe for creating pain :)

(22 Oct '12, 04:22) Stingray

@Stingray- All pain is conscious choice by physical self Of course. Appreciate that, thank you:)

(22 Oct '12, 10:57) Satori

@Stingray, @Satori - Thanks for this exchange, it was very enlightening. I actually had the same question. Recently I had been feeling so good, but still encountering the occasional angry/depressed person, and was wondering if this somehow meant I was no longer "in the vortex"...even though I felt like I still was! I'm glad to know that nothing was "wrong". :)

(23 Oct '12, 00:39) lozenge123

@lozenge123 - If you are firmly in the Vortex and you encounter something that knocks you out of the Vortex then that's a clear sign from Broader Self (as clear as it gets) that the "issue" that has just arisen needs "cleaning up" if you wish to continue that Vortex alignment. I see it as "inspired" guidance for what is most important for you to deal with next. Being in the Vortex means alignment with Broader Self so anything that arises during those times must be Broader Self guidance

(23 Oct '12, 05:17) Stingray

@Stingray - Thanks for the additional insight. Looks like it's time for me to do some more focus blocks. :)

(24 Oct '12, 18:09) lozenge123

@Stingray Abraham says that you should hold the vortex version of every person in your mind that you want to uplift. But if you do that and talk to them, you just sound like an annyoing insurance agent to them :). Presently I think you must lower your own vibration first to uplift someone that has a lower vibration than you have. What are your experiences in real life?

(30 Mar '13, 21:31) releaser99

@releaser99 - "I think you must lower your own vibration first to uplift someone that has a lower vibration than you have" - Yes, but then you are sacrificing your own connection so when you "get down there" you'll probably find you have nothing to give them anyway :) I've tried that approach many times over the years - it never ends well for either person :) Best approach in my view is just be who you naturally are and let others find you themselves when they are ready to "hear" you

(31 Mar '13, 08:30) Stingray
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What helped me to realize the LOA, was when a couple of people, who don't believe in the LOA, made comments to me during my negative times. I had been in 4 accidents, and asked, "Why does this keep happening to me?" My mom said, "I read that the people who say that keep having the same problem." That got me thinking in ways that led me to LOA.

Another time, I was talking to my friend about some fears I had and she said something about speaking them to life, then they happened. So, this too made me think. I hadn't heard of LOA, so I didn't know there was something really happening there.

Before all that, I was the one who would find the bright side of other people's situations and show them. Some people liked it and felt better, some got irritated. Each person is different. So knowing them helps to decide the best approach.


answered 19 Oct '12, 08:47

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@lozenge123- i think it is possible if you truely want to help someone. as stingray said."you can just uplift them". but, if you do it in other way..,it could help them.i have tried this method for many-many times till now n i have found it works, like- when i truely want to help others..i take a piece of paper n simply write that"i am so happy n greatful god tht so..n now leading his life in his great happiness,love n harmony. thank you!!!". n another method is- "go into the alpha level of meditation n simply visualize that the one u wanna help is out of tht situation n now ur getting good newzz from them-like getting a phone call of e-mail". it actually works u know.., i have tried it a lot n u really feel so good that u have helped that person, without him knowing that.n u see how it is ,when we wish for others.., actualy we wish for well being of us. cos in this world of matrixx there is no separation. i hope this answer helps u..,love,light n blessings to you..:)))


answered 19 Oct '12, 04:00

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I love your answer supergirl for I do something simmilar by visualising the person smilling and happy and healthy and yes it does work.

(19 Oct '12, 12:40) Paulina 1

@paulina1- i am so glad u liked it, thank much dearo :))) n i must say u realy look beautiful n even,all ur posts on fb are very nice n appreciable.. :)),light n blessings to u dear..

(19 Oct '12, 12:59) supergirl

If you make someone feel better no matter how you did it you do raise their vibration for they will feel better. Feeling better gives them hope and courage to do better. That is on the physical level. On the psychic level you can imagine the person happy, healthy and smiling and feel internaly that you yourself are happy, healthy and smilling. This works too for many although not for all.

I prefere to offer help or wait till I'm asked for help but if the person knows nothing about LOA the best ting is to gift them a book like "The Secret" as they all seem to love that one.


answered 19 Oct '12, 12:49

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