There are no other people in your reality apart from you - your creations of them are reflections of your own vibrational outputs.


So, in effect, you are alone in your own reality playing with reflections of yourself :)

These are quotes from @Stingray from another question "How may I more actively serve others?" from @Nikulas.

So I suppose my question is for @Stingray which is:

If you are playing with reflections of yourself, and everyone is essentially a reflection of your vibrational output, why would someone feel alone, disconnected or like an alien?

Would this mean that you are disconnected from yourself in some way? Like you aren't embracing who you are deep down inside?

I ask this question because I've been feeling that a lot (especially today, I don't know what's wrong with me) and this is a bit disturbing to think that I am completely an alien to myself.

asked 03 Nov '12, 14:30

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edited 03 Nov '12, 15:22

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Barry Allen ♦♦

In a Universe comprised solely of reflections of your own consciousness; it logically follows, thus, then, that everything within your Universe, in any given moment, is a reflection of your own state of being. Your personal Universe only has the ability to reflect back to you who you're being at all times, it merely mirrors your vibrational state of being; and that's controlled by your thoughts, emotions and behavior, which in turn are determined by your underlying core beliefs.

Why would someone feel alone, disconnected or like an alien?

You can never be totally disconnected from your Source and you are never alone. However, in order to discover what it is within you, that's causing reflections of feeling alone and disconnected, you must dig deep and get to the core beliefs that you are holding inside of you. Start by becoming aware of your thoughts, words and actions and realize for yourself, through that awareness, that these are based upon the core beliefs that you hold.

Upon realizing that you think, say and do certain things because you hold certain beliefs, you'll be in a position to ask yourself: is that belief really serving me? Does that belief really represent truth to me? And if not, then why do I choose to continue believing it? And am I now willing to allow myself to release that belief, by thanking it for showing me a part of myself that I no longer prefer?

Upon answering these questions for yourself, you'll be able to identify and redefine any particular belief and change it into a belief that better serves you. And upon that action, you'll think, say and do in a different way; and thereby offer a different vibration, which in turn will bring a different reflection in the Universal mirror of your life experience. It’s all you, which by definition is all me, we are One ♥


answered 04 Nov '12, 22:35

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@Eddie good to see you

(05 Nov '12, 03:18) ursixx

Hi ursixx, nice to see you're still prowling IQ... I'm only making cameo appearances these days, whenever I feel attracted to answering a question :)

(05 Nov '12, 22:22) Eddie

@ eddie lol, well thank u for ur cameo,. it is well appreciated.

(11 Nov '12, 15:07) TReb Bor yit-NE

Nice answer Eddie,always look out for yours,good insight and in tune with what im studying and learning now.

(12 Nov '12, 05:35) Monty Riviera
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This is a simple answer my friend. It means we do not accept this as a fact and we are completely disconnected to all via lack of self love. It means that we do not love ourselves to the full extent. Please do not take this as a judgment, I do not mean this is exactly what is happening with you. I mean those who feel empty or lonely in general. I hope that you will accept this gift. I know u are new and maybe don't know me well yet, but I am channeler, and also try n help others. I made this video that is NOT channeling, so if u do not resonate with channeling, you can still stomach this lol. Please watch this. It is how I see to better yourself in this way. It is a bot long, but 20 min of great information.

love n light rob


answered 03 Nov '12, 15:19

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TReb Bor yit-NE

I think you have a point - I probably still haven't accepted myself and the situations that I go or am going through. I can change my behavior and my reaction to them.

(04 Nov '12, 07:15) Halcyon

yes my friend, it is so helpful, please listen to this, it has much more than that idea.

(06 Nov '12, 17:04) TReb Bor yit-NE

I listened to it and I found a lot of truth in those words. Thank you. Also wanted to add the dog at the end surprised me. Very cute.

(06 Nov '12, 19:02) Halcyon

@Halcyon, great, i am greatfull for ur greatfullness. love n light.

(11 Nov '12, 15:09) TReb Bor yit-NE
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sometimes "being alone is a beautiful opportunity". we develop a lot being alone. we develop a beautiful relationship with ourselves.we get to know us better than before.n this happens only when we r alone. so,i would say enjoy being alone. develop urself .n probably,we are alwyz surrounded by our angels. talk to them they to u all the time. n thn,still u feel alone ..,simply visualize having lots of friends n family members around you..,hold on these thoughts for some 17 sec n see how world around u changes. i hope this helps you.-love,light,blessings ur way. stay happy..stay blessed :)))


answered 07 Nov '12, 03:27

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Actually, after you asked your question regarding the 17 seconds, I tried doing it and felt fantastic. I didn't know about it before but it made sense. I want to thank for that question and bringing it to light for someone like me that was ignorant of it's existence. I'm trying to think of my alone time as an opportunity :) Your comment was helpful, thank you.

(07 Nov '12, 08:51) Halcyon

I totally agree supergirl. It wasn't until I spent years being alone that I began to truly love myself unconditionally and absolutely; and then I began to remember who I really am ♥

(07 Nov '12, 09:00) Eddie

@SuperGirl - Yes I agree, being alone is serving me very well. :)

(07 Nov '12, 09:15) Satori
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I think Treb is along the right lines above.

In my opinion, feelings of loneliness come very close to feelings of unworthiness or inadequacy. People who feel lonely usually feel that they are inadequate in some respect, not fun or interesting enough for others to find it worthwhile to spend their time with them.

In other words, they are not fully happy with who they are and do not love themselves as they are, which is where the feelings of inadequacy or unworthiness comes in.

This might not apply to you but this is what I believe is generally the case.


answered 04 Nov '12, 13:16

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Pink Diamond

I believe that we all feel alone from time to time...The question that we have to ask ourselves is whether we find it bothersome or not. We cannot always be surrounded with people that are absolute vibrational matches to ourselves...It is nice when we have these periods in our lives, but we grow, and so do the people around us. Friends change, move away, or go to other jobs and so on.

When I feel alone, I have learned to reach out to people, and even say (to those closest to me), "I feel alone." I sometimes find that I am actually in a place where I either need to be alone, or am just not in step with the people around me. I have learned to embrace those lonely times, and to use them for reflection, journaling, spiritual retreats, and personal projects. When I get content with myself again, the people flood back. It's odd, but that is how it works for me.

I hope this makes some sort of sense!

As an aside, Wade and I have moved into our own place, and have been so very busy working on it, we have hardly touched our computers, and had to wait to be re-connected to the Internet...oh well...Anyway, Wade and I are very broke and very happy. We have seen manifesting in action...We have been showered with blessings of furniture, dishes, etc. We figured out that we furnished our whole den for less than $200. It is nice to have our own place after living in one room at his parents' house for a year and a half. While there, I learned a great lesson about being alone...I found that I craved it because somebody was always around.

Humans are such contrary creatures....LOL!

Blessings to all,



answered 03 Nov '12, 21:58

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I think you are right! I hadn't thought about it like that. I have been going through a "lonely" time for a while now and I guess I was just getting impatient. I should think of it as a time to work on projects and personal things. Thank you so much.

(04 Nov '12, 07:08) Halcyon

@jai- superbb..

(04 Nov '12, 10:59) supergirl

@Jaianniah - This is a terrific answer, and so nice to hear that you have worked this out, and taught yourself how to be comfortable alone! You are rocking this! And it is so true - when you come back to happy with yourself, the company does come flocking back, doesn't it? :) Good for you.

(06 Nov '12, 02:07) Grace

@Jai - And you both have been sorely missed, its so nice to see you again. Great personal update, thank you for sharing that. Your own place at last! Congratulations to you both.

May your home be full of love, light, and laughter for many years to come.

(06 Nov '12, 02:08) Grace
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When I feel alone , I realize it's only because I am in this one physical body. I remind myself that I'm never alone and can use that time to feel closer to my innner being, or my connection to all that is. I learn to soothe myself and get to that feeling of knowing that I am never alone, and though separate from others in my physical self that we are always connected through the source energy.


answered 11 Nov '12, 13:24

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For me, other people are a means for me to learn the things I am intending to learn about myself or my beliefs.

(11 Nov '12, 13:27) clearheart

well i would not say that every one is a reflection of your vibrational out put. it is more a matter of free will affecting the inside and the out side of the cup and causing effect. so if you are causing the effect on someone else then yes they are your reflection. but if you do not affect them then it is there free will that is causing this. example: you blame no one and people blame you.then you clearly see that it is there free will and not yours that is causing this. another example:is this you receive information and you get mad because you add stuff that is really not there,the other person does not see things the way you do and is not causing the darkness. in that situation look inside there is some darkness in you that you need to put light on and solve. example no.3 the person try to affect you with there darkness you understand it and stop the effect,then it does not effect you and you do not become the reflection of the other person.

again i tell you the best way to remove darkness is the light of truth.


answered 03 Nov '12, 20:57

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edited 03 Nov '12, 21:49


I think you have a good point there. When I'm feeling the most alone, I think about my feelings vs those around me and their reactions. I've become a little better in acknowledging that sometimes people will do their own thing and sometimes I will do mine. I had a dream last night that pretty much told me that if I don't like the outcome of a situation, I should change my behavior. It was also a message that if I ever needed to talk, someone was always right there listening no matter how far.

(04 Nov '12, 07:12) Halcyon

well me i see this as i talk with people. and i am a prety silent type of person. so i often see what bothers them or what they do not acknoledge or understand or what they are not ready to learn the truth about. but it is there choice and they are responsible of it. why should i get mad about it? to do the same? i have better thins to do then cast back the stone over and over again.

(06 Nov '12, 01:21) white tiger

Yes, I agree with this, too. This can be hard to do with certain people, like family. It's the whole "you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink" thing. Other times a answer might be correct but explained in a way that certain individual can't assimilate. Some people may need to hear, others to see and others to feel.

(06 Nov '12, 01:34) Halcyon

like jesus said.none can be prophet in their country. And he said, Verily I say unto you, No prophet is accepted in his own country. but that they drink or not is there choice who ever they are.

(06 Nov '12, 20:19) white tiger

@Halcyon you see you know what the saying:"you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink" if you know that saying and what it means you can understand what the water saying of jesus is in the bible. it is not of the water outside of the cup but of the water inside of the cup. if i share some water of my mouth with you you will learn something. if you are thirsty and want to drink,you will not be thirsty anny more. this water comes from the living one outside of your self.

(06 Nov '12, 22:50) white tiger

@Halcyon but that water will give you the narrow way home. if you decide to be born again of water and spirit. then you will worship in spirit and in truth.Whoever drinks from my mouth will become like me; I myself shall become that person, and the hidden things will be revealed to him." I disclose my mysteries to those who are worthy of my mysteries.

(06 Nov '12, 23:01) white tiger
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I like Jai's comment. Halcyon, I thought about what we talked about earlier, and this post you also made. (Being different and feeling alone for it). I had a "higher" thought that I wanted to share with you. I got the message that while we may be "different" from others we shouldn't feel alone because we have aids, and guides and kin that are there for us and have our backs. Spirit guides and friends that are also different, who understand. And others who feel just like we do.


answered 03 Nov '12, 22:16

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By the way.. i know that may seem like a simple answer, but its still kinda profound. Just the thought that there are others out there going thru the same thing. Feeling different, makes them feel alone.

(03 Nov '12, 22:18) Skuldr

That's really odd you say that because last night I had another dream that was pretty much a message encased in a baseball bat aimed at my forehead. I think I got the message. I'm going to write up the dream and send it to you now before I forget a lot of it.

(04 Nov '12, 07:09) Halcyon

For me there is only one way to explain this. It is a concept that makes sense within the right perspective.


If you get that you will understand that you are not exactly the one creating the entire experience, but rather that the creator is creating the entire experience and that when you align your consciousness within the perspective of the creator and creation, it unfolds within the context of the experience of the self.

Therefore, you are not the creator, but you experience the creator's creation as the self.

When comprehended within this context many things suddenly begin to make sense, including your loneliness, which is ultimately connected to your own alignment with the self.


answered 13 Nov '12, 22:05

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you are made in the image of the creator, the holy father. you are one of is children, you have the same power and potential in you,what is stopping you from using your potential it is the darkness imbalence and inequity in you.has long as you are in conflict with your self or with other,nothing will be achive. but when the 2 becomes one,you will say to this mountain move and it will move.

(13 Nov '12, 23:57) white tiger
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