Everything exists Diamond.

Your wish list drawn up by your lower mind is woefully inadequate compared to the one your higher self has drawn up

As Daryll/Bashar oftens says, your lower mind at its best simply cant match what your higher self has to offer.

Your wish list is ok as far as it goes, but don't go worrying if that one cant be fulfilled. The universe can easily accommodate that one, and the one your higher mind has drawn up too.

Trust your higher mind and try very hard to involve yourself in a "distraction" of some type until this happens.

That last sentence is the result of personal experience.Take that or leave it.

I would like to offer a different opinion regarding this. Try not to think in terms of humans, but just normal things in everyday live.

Look around you right now, and I would say 99% of the stuff around you did not even exist at all, or deemed to be impossible by some people in the past. We did not have computers, color Tvs, smartphones, pagers, artificial limbs and legs, and the list goes on and on. All of these stuff NEVER did exist in the past, it only came about because someone first envisioned them in their mind and made them.

So who is to say that you cannot "make" your ideal partner in the same way? Maybe he or she might not the person you are looking for right now, but you never know that the experiences that both of you go through together, the things that he or she is going to experience might eventually mould them into the "ideal" person that you have always been looking for? Who knows, maybe the person might be just under your nose right now!

There is no such thing as "trying" to manifest.

Here are Abraham Hick's 3 Steps to Manifestation:

Step 1: Ask

This is automatic. The moment you feel "lack", the moment you feel like you "want" something, you are already asking. You don't have to keep "asking" by continuously feeling "lack" and "want". The moment it happens you are heard. No need to continuously ask.

Step 2: Source Answers (It's automatically manifested)

The moment you Ask, it is automatically Given. You are not "creating" it. You don't have to keep "visualizing" (unless it is fun to you). The moment you ask, it is AUTOMATICALLY given.

Step 3: ALLOW (It's automatic - but your vibe and beliefs may slow it down)

The moment you want something. It is automatically manifested. When you Ask, it is immediately Given. The question is, are you allowing it into your life or do you have belief systems that slows it down, or worse, not allow it at all?

If you feel "lack", then you'll stay in the vibe of the "asking".

If you feel "appreciative", then 'll stay in the vibe that allows the answer.

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So, in order to help you manifest this person...

First of all, stop asking for the person. Be appreciative for what is ALREADY going good in your life. That vibe will bring more good stuff and that is how you ALLOW the answer or the person you seek.

Second, you have to actually feel like you are worth enough to have what you desire - because, indeed, you truly are. Your soul is a spark of light which came from The Whole. You are worthy as much as anyone else, but to not feel that will mess up your manifestations.

Third, You have to stop contradicting yourself. If you want something, you have to believe that it exists or at least that it is possible. You have to limit your doubting. When you doubt yourself or your desire, understand that it is just thought and just because you are thinking such a thought that doesn't mean it's true.

If it contradicts your Joy, or your Compassion - then it is a BOGUS thought because you are a Spark of Light which came from The Whole. Understanding that, will help you see through the darkness (of contradicting thoughts).

Interesting question. Personally, I think "the list" is done the wrong way. Manifesting a soulmate isn't like going grocery shopping, it's about BEING the person your soulmate would find irresistible. If you are going to make any kind of list, make a list of the gifts, qualities, characteristics and strengths YOU have that you want to share with a soulmate. Then the universe knows what you have to offer and sees you as abundant. Abundance gets rewarded. If you're making a list of the things you WANT from the other person, then the universe sees you as lacking. That goes agains the LOA as I understand it.

I am trying to do the same but with a friend

I did choose the sex, the nationality and the shape :))), my main target is business but I want it to come from certain country so I am working on this scene = a friend who brings the deal, note that I want to manifest friendship too.

what if it is not exist? I believe as I could imagine her so she must exist. we come with our imaginations from the universe so they must match in some way, their manifestation depend only on the degree of our believe. but diffidently they exist unless we are not able to envision them basically.

Our last inventors imagined the machines, planes, computers... out of nothing and they had them all exactly as they visualized, I believe create humans from none is easier because when we imagine/compose certain character to have in real life, that comes from our own character, from our source, which already exist therefore they sure exist.

The formula is that if you believe their existence they do, if you do not believe they don't exist.

I believe the existence of my coming friend, sometimes not, but it's good to have balance between believing and not when you are doubtful so by practice universe will cooperate and the believe will win the non-believe.

This answer really resonates with me. I want someone who is my equal. Someone who really appreciates my humor my empathy the love that I give. Someone who possesses the same inner strength and is as tough as I am. I think I’m great. I know I am because people tell me I am. But all I attract are weak minded men who don’t see what I truly am. I want strong man not as a muscle head just someone strong willed and appreciates that in myself. I need someone I can share my stories and they can connect with me and enjoy my company as it should be. And be appreciated as a flawed human that knows she has flaws and is working on being a better person. I know I deserve the best. I just need a little more therapy. I want to be better to attract the best possible person I know I deserve. And I’d like to be attracted to them and be attracted to me!