i am sorry for my bad english. i try to use the LOA about 2 months ago to attract the person who i love him dearly to feel that he love me.

i try everything imagen and positive thought & faith but everything still go in wrong way until we broke up & now i want him & i do not know what to do.

can u help me?

asked 02 Oct '10, 21:41

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edited 02 Oct '10, 22:05

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since i sent the quistion and every thing is better he did not come back yet but we actully work in the same place so he start to set with me and our friends and he asked me yasterday if i want to meet our manager with him to talk in our project and this is something he never want to do in the past and today we went to dinner with our friend and in the way to home he gave me his ligher to keep it with me so am sure that he one day will come back and we will get married cause am sure that i was very good persson with him and i have faith in god that he will never let me live that pain again and if god does not want to give me my lover back he would make me forget him from the begining

(04 Oct '10, 20:54) yara 1

There is a saying: true love will never die! So, stay strong, and be good to yourself; I am sure using the LOA that everything will work itself out in the end.

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I know this sounds a bit harsh but I don't think you should even try to use LOA to attract anyone specifically. I would rather use LOA to attract your perfect mate. If there is a God in this universe then it follows that He must be highly intelligent as well as all powerful. Why not trust this intelligence to bring into your life your perfect partner.

I did about a year beforeIi met my wife. I got rid of any preconceived ideas about who, how and where. Hey presto she was virtually delivered to my door.

We have to be mindful that when looking for a mate there are 2 parties involved. BOTH having free will and their own specific ideas, likes and dislikes. Every relationship and the parties involved are different. I would just trust the Source, God etc to do His stuff. If He is indeed one with His creations it follows that He knows you and your intended better than you know yourselves.

Leave it to God I would say. Use what you've learned and use LOA, but leave the details to someone who really knows.



answered 03 Oct '10, 11:36

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edited 03 Oct '10, 21:15

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+1 Aye, free will. Thar's the rub, eh?

(03 Oct '10, 21:16) Vesuvius

I agree with Graham; as much as you might feel you want one specific person, a higher power may have something much better in store for you. It's best to visualize yourself having fun with "someone" and being loved by "someone" and to feel how happy you are that you have finally found the right person. How do I know? This is what worked for me as well, and the right person came into my life soon, not the one I had been thinking about. I am now happily married. It's best not to try controlling the situation.


answered 03 Oct '10, 18:48

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Wait a minute.... I thought that LOA is what you attract, It is her heart desieres what we are talking about here. What you ask it is given. Based on this in the spiritual room is already manifested. So all there is to do is to come vibrationally allign with it and let it come to you. When you accept that he loves you unconditionally and you feel it and live it in your heart, there is no other way than to see your love one come back and manifest. Wait a minute.... I thought that LOA is what you attract, It is her heart desires what we are talking about here. What you ask it is given. Based on this in the spiritual room is already manifested. So all there is to do is to come into vibration alignment with it and let it come to you. When you accept that he loves you unconditionally, you feel it and live it in your heart, there is no other way than to see your love one come back and manifest the love desired. So do the list of all the wonderful things you guys shared together and his positive aspects, the positive aspects of this relationship dance to it….e happy that you have it and focus on your vision, expand your vision of what you desire with this love one of yours. There is always something to do and that is acknowledging that what you don’t want is manifesting and what you truly want is to love yourself, be loved and have a loving relationship, put yourself in that vibrational match having it and not that he is gone.


answered 04 Apr '11, 20:11

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Sometimes taking some time away from a relationship is good for both parties. If there is tension in a relationship, both parties need some space to sort out there inner feelings to see if they want to continue in the relationship. If one party does not want to continue in the relationship, then the other party will have no choice but to respect the decision of the other party, and move on gracefully. Regardless, time will heal all wounds!

If your partner does not want to continue in the relationship with you there is nothing that anyone can say or do to make him continue in a relationship that he does not want. How would you feel, if you were the one that did not want to continue in a relationship with your partner, you of course, would expect your partner to back off, and give you your space naturally.

I can appreciate your pain, especially in your case, the strong love you have for your partner is very deep. But be gallant give him space, and wait, and see if he will come back to you on his own initiative. I can assure you, if he loves you, like you love him, he will come back to you. If he does not, be happy; he is not worthy of your love. Be strong!


answered 03 Oct '10, 07:51

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Sorry you are going through this!

I remember going through a similar situation with a girl years ago. It was one of the worst feelings ever. I tried to "manifest" her back and it didn't work. Looking back, I am so glad it didn't. I know you can't see it right now but in a few years from now you may look back at all of this and ask yourself, "what was I thinking??!!"

I would take advantage of this painful situation by just focusing on yourself and how to get yourself in a better place, mood and state of mind. That is what I regret not doing when I was in your situation. Nobody can make you happy except yourself!

For a more specific answer to your question, this is were conflicting desires come into play. There are a few question on her that address that, which you may want to read about.

Anywas, it WILL wrok out.

What's the worst that can happen, you find a partner who loves you more than he did and whom you love also?


answered 04 Oct '10, 06:45

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This is from Florence Scovel Shinn's book The Game of Life and How to Play It.

Many people, however, are in ignorance of their true destinies and are striving for things and situations which do not belong to them, and would only bring failure and dissatisfaction if attained.

For example: A woman came to me and asked me to "speak the word" that she would marry a certain man with whom she was very much in love. (She called him A. B.)

I replied that this would be a violation of spiritual law, but that I would speak the word for the right man, the "divine selection," the man who belonged to her by divine right.

I added, "If A. B. is the right man you can't lose him, and if he isn't, you will receive his equivalent." She saw A. B. frequently but no headway was made in their friendship. One evening she called, and said, "Do you know, for the last week, A. B. hasn't seemed so wonderful to me." I replied, "Maybe he is not the divine selection - another man my be the right one." Soon after that, she met another man who fell in love with her at once, and who said she was his ideal. In fact, he said all the things that she had always wished A. B. would say to her.

She remarked, "It was quite uncanny."

She soon returned his love, and lost all interest in A. B.

This shows the law of substitution. A right idea was substituted for a wrong one, therefore there was no loss or sacrifice involved.

Jesus Christ said, "Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you," and he said the Kingdom was within man.

The Kingdom is the realm of right ideas, or the divine pattern.

Jesus Christ taught that man's words played a leading part in the game of life. "By your words ye are justified and by your words ye are condemned."


answered 06 Apr '11, 05:25

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love loves, nothing more. desire for change or reciprocity is another thing altogether.


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