I'm such a firm believer in the continuous active avoidance of negativity. I've decides years ago to only use positive wording and do my best to give as little energy to "darkness" or the opposite polarity as I could. I just choose another way of getting my point across. At first, I would even censor my thoughts to keep from radiating unhealthy energy. I quickly saw no place for me in any of the mainstream organized religions or not the one I grew up with.
I limit my exposure to the news media to a bare minimum. TV is mostly out of my life except for a few sports programs. Spirituality has new meaning nowadays. I avoid judgement of others. Compelling or even trying to convince others to adopt this way of life is out of the question. In this manner I've become somewhat invisible to it. I have to limit my associations with some people.
I now have enough time alone and by myself to find out the good that can come from quiet times alone with the lights turned down. All in all I've found it easy to limit my exposure but it is mostly impossible to quickly censor my own negativity fully.
Personally, I believe No Man Is an Island & we are all connected.
I'm going to recycle a couple quotes I posted earlier. They seem applicable.
I watch news. I want to know what is happening locally, in my state in my country & around the world.
All the negativity in the world cannot bring you down unless you allow it. Bad news can only get you down if you let it. You can't change anyone else, but you can certainly change yourself. You get to make the decision on how you feel. You are in charge. No one controls your feelings, but YOU. If your perceptions & beliefs do not make you feel good, it's up to you to change your view.
If you view people as negative you are judging. In fact nearly every sentence in your question is a judgment, isn't it?
Your understanding of polarity differs than mine.
Polarity is a philosophy. Yin & Yang. Positive and negative don't have to do with good or bad; they are just opposites like night and day or left & right. It's also the basis of Eastern medicine as well as Western holistic healing. It combines ancient wisdom & the science of physics. North & South are opposites. Think of earth - the North & South poles - opposite polarities.
Think of how a battery works. Without opposite polarities, there would be no electrical current - no 'flow'. This is how our energy body works also. Just as electric current moves between the negative and positive terminals of a battery, energy moves through out our body.
For example, you can think of your head as North (positive) & your feet South (negative). Polarities allow currents of energy (chi) to "flow" though our energy bodies. If there was no difference, there would be no "flow". Chakras act as transformers for currents both within and surrounding our bodies (auras).
The goal is to balance our energy body (body,mind & spirit). We want chi to flow unobstructed & be harmony.
I agree, like attracts like - positive attracts more positivity and negativity attracts more negativity.
As to how to balance the polarities ...
Thank you for sharing your view that it is possible to be spiritual and positive. I too have experienced that it is very much possible to be spiritual, and always to be positive, if ONLY we remember that we are the children of God, spirits in these costumes called bodies. Hence we have infinite potential, as we are the exact representation of His very being!--Mathew 23:9. We only drain our energy on brooding over the past. Hence "Always say yes to the present moment. What could be more futile, more insane than to create inner resistance to something that already is?" (Ekkart Tolle)
You can have enormous power if you link to the Almighty through meditation. On the path of meditation, you are a traveler, on a magnificent journey. You have to make some firm choices about what you will take with you on this journey. To pack up means to learn the lessons of the present, then to move on, letting the past be past. It means - not carrying the baggage of the past into my present and future, but traveling lightly from one day to the next, keeping only what is most useful to you. That way, You'll enjoy the journey more, and move faster in the direction of your choice.
You'll also be lighter in you relationships. The power to pack up enables you to fill each exchange you have with others with freshness and newness, instead of allowing influences from past encounters with them to affect your present attitude and behaviour. When you carry emotional or intellectual baggage from the past into your present dealings with an individual, you don't give that person the opportunity to express himself freely: your attitude colors him with the paint of your previous experience. It is important to process the past, and learn from experience, but then finish it, so it does not block your view of how things are today.
Meditation helps you to acquire that discipline of finishing negative and wasteful thoughts i.e. inculcate the power to pack up. As the habit of self-observation develops, it doesn't take long to understand how negative thoughts and feelings literally negate your central aim, of re-emerging your true nature. Negativity drains the battery of the soul faster than anything else does. As you progress on your spiritual journey, even thoughts that waste the precious resources of the mind come to be seen as a barrier. Turning a scene over in your mind repeatedly is an example of waste, that will rob you of the mental concentration and emotional stability you need to keep moving forward. Sometimes we do get stuck, like a broken record, in such mental grooves, without realizing what we are doing.
The power of pack up means you recognize the damage caused by such waste, and put an end to it. As you renew the awareness of myself as a soul, in relationship with the Supreme Soul, the needle of your attention is lifted above the groove, letting you come fully into the present.
You also learn to be selective in what you choose to remember or forget from the past. This is not dishonest; in fact, it is being honest to your task. Human beings in any case have highly selective memories. We not only see and understand differently, according to our individual interests and agendas, but our attitudes and perception also determine the memories we choose to store.
Meditation enables you to exercise this option quite deliberately, picking up those scenes from the past that nourish me and help you move forward, and rejecting memories that pollute your mind and slow you down.
answered 14 Oct '13, 05:56
T D Joseph
life is a panorama
the limitations of space
material form, you do
answered 14 Oct '13, 06:00
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