Or am I attracting these doubts in the first place by paying attention to these thoughts? I have started to date someone new, who makes me very happy. We are in a long distance relationship, and at times I start to doubt if he will stick around. Then, I will start to feel a bit uneasy and question his commitment, and think that am feeling uneasy because something is wrong and I am getting signs. .. (I guess this goes back to me ignoring warning signals in the past and progressing into the relationship anyways).
My boyfriend makes the effort to stay in touch, cares about my needs and is usually around. I give him his space and am beginning to trust him. I have no complaints, on the other hand, I feel very appreciative of his presence in my life.
I am working on gaining control of my emotions, but can someone please clarify what’s going on?

asked 24 Jan '11, 21:20

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So, why do you lack confidence in yourself? What is holding you back? If you have a trusting relationship, what more do you want? Is there something that is signaling the unwanted emotion, that you are experiencing?

In essence you are your best judge, and only you can erase the fear that is distracting you from enjoying the relationship. So, look deep into your heart, and be true to your self, and ask your inner self to guide you into the right direction, and the universe will manifest your desire!


answered 25 Jan '11, 07:20

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couldn't have said it any better! Good advise Vee!

(25 Jan '11, 11:49) daniele

You are questioning your own thoughts reinforcing your own self doubt. Your trust level was tested in the past. Give him the benefit of the doubt, but keep your distance until you have a full commitment.


answered 27 Jan '11, 06:59

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