My wife wants to get divorce me even though we have had wonderful years and have raised two wonderful sons. She thinks she has "it" in spiritual more than me. I have been reading about the Power of Intention by Dr Wayne Dyer. My wife refuses to share why she wants to divorce me.
I am basically a good man and excellent father and serve her well. She thinks she is superior with spiritual than I am. I don't give a damn about who is the superior. Every human being exists on this planet with the same and equal spirituality. I need help with this to get her to realize it.
Dear Jimmy, welcome to I.Q. I'm sorry to hear of your problem and I wish that I could somehow take away the emotional pain you must be feeling. It is never easy to fear losing the one you love.
No one on planet earth is more spiritual than another for we are all children of God and we all have God within us. Some of us are more aware of this than others but in the eyes of God we are all equal and for anyone to sugest that they are more spiritual implies that they still have much to learn and it is their ego and not spirituality that is still dominating their life.
To be truly spiritual one leads life with love and compassion the way Jesus did and that is not easy to do as most of us discover. We human beings evolve at our own pace and in our own time and that is the beauty of being human and others that consider themselves it spiritualy should know this and show compassion and humility towards others.
I hope that you change your wifes mind about leaving and the only way I can help you is to tell you to leave things in Gods hands. Tell God of your problem and tell God that you are now leaving this problem in his capable hands for you know that God has a solution. After that try not to think of your problem and if you do make sure it is all positive. See yourself and your wife being happy in your imagination. Imagine her telling you that she is happy with you. See her smiling or the two of you holding hands. You have to actualy feel her and your happiness in your imagination. Do this for a few days and than release it.
I hope this helps some and I wish you all the happiness you deserve.
answered 27 Oct '11, 06:30
It's true that some people are closer to spirituality than others and we are all at different points along the way. I don't think we all are on the same rung of the ladder. But if she feels she is further along, then the fact that she would point it out to you proves she is not. A person climbing the spiritual ladder would not use that to club someone else over the head with! Do you see what I mean? The most spiritual people are the most humble...always.
You can't make someone want to be with you. We all have our free will. I would suggest accepting how she feels and giving her some space; things could change. It may hurt, but I don't see that you have a choice.
answered 27 Oct '11, 14:37
Jimmy, please checkout this link, http://www.sidroth.org/site/News2?abbr=tv_&page=NewsArticle&id=10435
Another thing I would like you to try is watch the movie "Fire Proof" and read the book "Love Dare." God is asking how much do you love your wife, are you willing to put this effort into changing your relationship? Two more books I have for you are "For Men Only" by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn and for her "For Women only" also by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn
Do not curse what is wrong but bless it, bless your wife and your marriage. When we complain, this is wrong that is wrong, why me, and this guy is a idiot, we are cursing God! As we do to the least of these people we do to God. If your wife wants to leave you she is hurting right now, bless her look at what a blessing she has been in your life and thank God then let her know what she means to you.
Anything and everything that is wrong in your life BLESS that it transform to the better, lift it to God. The Holy Spirit is inside of us. We carry the Christ within us God our Father is with us always, trust this and let the true love of God through.
I just watched FireProof again and at the end was this link. http://fireproofmymarriage.com/
I say this prayer for you both now.
Father God this man Jimmy is trying to be a good faithful son, he loves his wife very much and feels her slipping away. I lift Jimmy up to you father that he knows your love and you are with him always. Let your love shine through him to his wife, let his wife be lifted up to you as well. that both know you are there at the center of their beings never far away but closer than their own breath. Father God this is pain here between them, heal them and lift the veils from their eyes and soften their hearts as they raise in you they come together as one and again feel the lost love as it never left. Father God I bless this marriage that you are greater than any problems they may have, I bless them both. If they are not saved I now claim their salvation that they may know you are the Lord of their lives. I thank you having heard my prayers, in Jesus name I pray, Amen...
Jesus be with you both.
all people are born equal with different skill and gift after it depend on you how you use those skill and gift. it is the same with spirituality some are at different level and learning. but yes i agree that someone that is at high level will not judge other but he will tell them the truth that they accept it or not. and some other time he will say nothing knowing that those people are not ready to face the truth and are still at the judgement level. as for divorcing you that is not very spiritual should it not be for life? and the fact that you have kids together she could at lest wait for the kids to be mature. why is she so in hurry to divorce you? are you that bad? or was she tempted to go look else where thinking the grass is more green? get the answer to those question and you will have a more clear picture. experience and enjoy.
answered 27 Oct '11, 23:14
we are all of humankind,
we no doubt have differing perceptions of energy,
answered 28 Oct '11, 00:22
Well, someone said this to me once and it has helped me tremendously in my life, LIVE.. LOVE.. LET GO.. specially the let go part. Sometimes if we let go and let the energy flow people will realize quicker how they affect us if we don't force ourselves on them. Believe me I come from a family that has a very small universe in their heads, and basically the day I decided to let go and not try to make them feel or see anything according to what I believe is the truth everything starts falling into place. We must let go even if it is painful at first to let the energy flow and let people trace their own path and go through their own journey. Right now she has her heart set on HER IDEA OF THE TRUTH that is just hers and it is divine just because it is hers, one of my friends just went to a seminar.. and it such seminar they repeated constantly.. EVERY ONE HAS A RIGHT TO BE WHO THEY ARE, over and over again.. including you, including me, including your wife even though it seems unfair, because everything is divine at the moment we are in the eternal present. Right now I suggest you set your mind on your own growth and beliefs, let her go with love, and wish her the best from you heart, right now she is feeling that way but it might change tomorrow, we all create our reality, remember that, and the bigger the storm the brighter the rainbow. I understand how you feel completely, I have lost people incredibly close to me because they are set on their ways and need to live their own personal journey. Try to understand this, and try to surround yourself with love from yourself and others and picture yourself at peace until it comes true. Good luck and I hope you find some peace within this page and remember it all leads to something.
answered 29 Oct '11, 20:49
Eva goes with the Flow
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