Sometimes when I am using focus blocks to mold the vibration of a particular subject in a better feeling place- and i am thinking of things i already believe that are true to me regarding that issue- sometimes the statements that make me feel better are- not nice or politically correct so to say- im not saying its hateful or something terrible- but for example, i wanted to feel better about hearing that a person i used to be friends with but that clattered out of my experience, was talking about me- and she said some things, and i felt a bit sad because of that- so i was trying to mold it into something else and to be honest the only thing that made me feel better went something like this : 'i know that her name is not the smartest person, and i know she talked about other people to me- so it must not come as a surprise that she would talk about me- but do i really care what stupid people think of me? no i dont- i actually feel more sad for her that she is spending her time talking about me, and having nothing else to do with her time than discussing me, a person she has not spoken to in several months'
so that did make me feel better, and i do believe this statement, and it gave me immense relief
but i did also call another human being stupid and i dont know how i feel about that- i had other statements like- if she was really happy she would not say mean things- happy people dont have time for that- so instead of being angry or sad you should feel compassion towards her- obviously she is not a happy person and that is sad for her.
and i do believe this as well- but the other one was more- lets say the other one REALLY did it for me lol
so my question is- is it ok to occasionally say mean things about other people in your focus blocks if it does make you feel better and are there any consequences to doing that or should you make sure are your statements are only kind and nice and respectful to others?
p.s. this also made me think about abraham's emotional scale where revenge is a better feeling than rage or something i dont remember- but than its ok to use a vengeful thought to climb up the emotional scale- doesnt that interfere with the vibration you are sending out to the universe- you get what you give?
As I read your question, especially the bit about consequences, I imagined a world where teams of ruthless Focus Blocks Police roam the planet, bursting randomly into people's homes to meticulously read through lists of belief-changing statements, instantly vaporizing any Block containing political-incorrectness.
Naturally, the only reasonable way to avoid being caught would be to write your statements on used toilet paper, preferably with invisible ink, and flush them away the moment you hear the door being broken down...
Perhaps such a dark world is on its way to manifesting but...for now at least, I think it's probably fairly safe if your Focus Blocks are not politically correct :)
The truth of it is that even if you dress up your written statements in pretty pleasing language, you are still thinking those politically incorrect thoughts anyway, so you might as well be honest with yourself about it :)
One of the main things that seems to mess people up with vibrational change is this refusal to acknowledge where they really are on the Emotional Scale.
You might like to try to convince that political-correctness-loving part of yourself that you are only experiencing mild Irritation (#10) with someone whereas the vibration you are actually emitting is pure unadulterated Hatred (#19)...and Law of Attraction always responds to your true vibration.
By not engaging with the true vibrational setpoint you are at, you are making it very difficult to shift it to a better place. There's nothing to "lock into"...there's no starting point. It's like trying to climb a ladder without rungs.
From my perspective, always be honest with yourself in your Focus Blocks even if it makes you uncomfortable to acknowledge how you really feel.
Once you've finished with the Focus Block, you can always flush your statements down the toilet afterwards :)
answered 01 Mar, 14:36
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