I've recognized a few steps I have to take in order to advance in my inward quest.
And from then on..
Should I start doing this tomorrow? Would you recommend another path? Is it too much for 1 day? Can it be done?
Do you recommend in adding stuff instead of taking away stuff?
I really want to, but I'm fearful to fail and feel defeated.
Would you vibrate to send me strength?
answered 20 Jan '13, 22:55
I stopped biting my nails on a complete whim a few weeks back, I've been biting them since I was a kid. so I believe that habits are just something we choose to do.
answered 21 Jan '13, 14:12
I am sure that you can find all sorts of self-help info to stop these habits...but first, I want to say:
Let's look at the stress you seem to be under first. If that is not going to go magically away so that you can stop everything, then maybe you can do this. But if that stress is NOT going to go away all at once, then I would FIRST address the stress.
Make a list of what is going on in your life- to me, it sounds like the last couple of months have been hard. Now, looking at that list, what of those things is going to disappear? If the answer is only a few, or worse, none, then I would re-think this idea of dropping all the "bad" habits all at once in favor of dealing with the stressers.
I just do not want to see you fail at this!
It may pay to take your time...You really want a permanent change, right?
Praying for you,
answered 21 Jan '13, 09:29
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