I know there are a lot of people on Inward Quest who are extremely compassionate and interested in helping other people. So I want to share a process which I'm sure will blow your mind if you are serious about giving it a try.
And fortunately it's simple, easy and the results are often astounding.
When we try to help people that are in difficult life situations, we often try to talk them out of their helplessness. We also try to help by taking action of some kind. This is the conventional way to help and of course it does work sometimes. But often it fails too and we find ourselves feeling helpless and disappointed.
If you use the process I'm going to share, you don't have to take any action. Yet it's probably 100+ times more powerful than the conventional approach. And it also saves you all those headaches that come with it. Because you allow powerful universal forces to uplift the person who is in need so he/she can attract the emotions and circumstances he/she wants. And you also help yourself by applying this. So it's a win-win situation.
Do this in a quiet place and when you are alone.
Here are the 7 steps to "remote upliftment".
Try it and feel free to tell us how it worked :).
People who feel the need to help and change others are control freaks. Compassionate people are selfishly wanting to feel good and use changing others to do so as a coverup. To make it appear as if they are not helping themselves, but others, when in reality they're just helping themselves. Sometimes they even talk the other person into their ways and make others believe that they are here to help. Lmao.
To make a point in rather short way, lets just quote...
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Great technique @releaser99 something reminds me a bit about it with the 100th monkey theory... The more we learn the more others do... and of course one should look in ones own house first before ...
What can I do?
And we are responsible. Don't fool yourself by saying, "What can I do? What can I, an individual, living a shoddy little life, with all its confusion and ignorance, what can I do?" Ignorance exists only when you don't know yourself. Self-knowing is wisdom. You may be ignorant of all the books in the world (and I hope you are), of all the latest theories, but that is not ignorance. Not knowing oneself deeply, profoundly, is ignorance; and you cannot know yourself if you cannot look at yourself, see yourself actually as you are, without any distortion, without any wish to change. - Krishnamurti, Talks in Europe 1968, p 56
answered 13 Sep '13, 04:12
That's a tad complicated for me. I just do Ho'oponopono.
Excerpt from a post by a homeopathic doctor and Ho'oponopono practitioner: http://www.peacefuldoc.com/2008/07/whos-helping-who.html
answered 01 Jul, 03:03
more easy then this is know thyself. if you know thy self you will know what is working and what is not. you are the only one that can make the choice to change something. first you have to know what is not working. that is why that knowing thyself is what matter most. if you do not know your self and do not know what is not working (being blind and in darkness not understanding), you then cannot know how to fix it.
this is only for your self. inner part.
then you have the outside part, all the outside stuff that go in extreme in this world and that are out of balance. you have to determine what change that belongs to you what option you have. and make the proper choice. as for the choice that do not belong to you and belong to other maybe one day they will grow up and make better choice.
in both process align with the truth.
it is like making a puzzle to align the image and shape properly so that you have a proper image of the whole.
you have 2 image the inner one and the outer one. both of those image interact with each other. the first image the one that you have complete control on. and the outer image that you have limited control on.
if you do not know your self and how to act properly with your self how can you ever act properly with other.
in that case you conform to the world.
the narrow image and the wide image. in what image have you been made?
the inside of the cup and the outside of the cup. what kind of water do you want to drink?
why strain gnats and swallow camel?
you should have practice the former with out neglecting the latter.
you need to meditate over 40 days for this, in some case over 40 years.
of course little children it is more easy for them since their cup is more clean inside the darkness as not have time to enter them. they make less division and less wicked thing to praise them self. when they do it is in innocence. eventually they learn from their mistake and correct them self. for some it takes lounger then other.
The person old in days won't hesitate to ask a little child seven days old about the place of life, and that person will live. If you bring forth what is within you, what you have will save you. If you do not have that within you, what you do not have within you [will] kill you.
Verily I say unto you, Except you be converted, and become as little children, you shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven.
Let there be light, be the light that you can be, experience and enjoy.
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