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I am greatly falling into the old ways of thinking . I am highly obsessed with a trial I have followed for three years. I only followed it because as I was getting off drugs, This was the very first time I felt anything for someone that was not in my family. The little girl (victim) in this case captured my heart. I lost sleep , I hoped she was alive. I hated her mother for not reporting her. These are all results of my emotions finally returning from a long time of drug use.
Now the case is here. I thought I could watch and not feel this way . Since then I have learned soooo much !!!! I have even started channeling. I know in her afterlife she will judge herself worse than any of us can now! I know i should NOT judge ANYONE or hate them. I cannot help it. I have lost control of my emotional issues. I , for the first time in my "new" life, have done what I try to teach others not to do. What my source has been teaching me for over two years. After knowing what I know and believing what I do, I STILL cannot rid myself of this. It is effecting me in ways of watching the trial for 9 hrs a day, not doing my channeling or working on my spiritual life! Please, I need help, I need to know what I can do. and in your guidance , also remember the simple "just remember not to judge, or unconditional love " comments, I have heard and tried and are NOT working !!! PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE HELP!

love n light,


asked 09 Jun '11, 23:39

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@Ursixx the time you take to help others with the edits is so great. It does not look fun and that is why I appreciate it so much, I am pretty sure I speak for the group..hugs...Michael

(10 Jun '11, 06:40) you

Listen to the words of all three of these answers and feel the love. You are loved Rob, believe it my friend ♥

(10 Jun '11, 08:59) Eddie

I recommend Firefox browser and its spell check. Makes it so easy. ;)

(10 Jun '11, 11:38) ursixx

ty i will get on firefox,, i have it but as a creature of habbit, i cant get away from my a.o.l. adn all teh saved things i have, it has been the browser of choise for over 15 yrs now, i will try ty

(10 Jun '11, 12:08) TReb Bor yit-NE

An exercise I used to do to accept more responsibility in my life was to illuminate the word can't or cannot with choose or choose not. "I chose not to get away from aol. I choose to look at the TV. L&H's

(10 Jun '11, 17:09) you

i will do that now ty all,,, i will think of that n re use those words great idea, ty lnl 2 u all and i thank u all 4 ur love, i do love u all

(10 Jun '11, 22:03) TReb Bor yit-NE
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Drop the hate forgive each other.
Lose your hate through forgiveness.Truly forgive YOURSELF first! Learn the lesson and move on.
Turn off the TV!
Take a walk instead,take a walk with your wife! It's summer get out of the house, work in your garden.Now there is a healthy obsession compulsion. Nothing like the feel of Mother Earth between your fingers the feeling of life. The knowing that the earth does not hate.
to be continued

Rob it's her story bro.It sounds like a real tragedy. Children that come to harm are the saddest things that we must live with.But we learn. We know that's not how we live and that's not how our children live and not the children in our village shall live.It's not your story.
Not judging someone is so hard we are condition to put labels on everyone and everything.We see people that look different, sound different and we attach a label to them . I know you know this you have been out there with your vids and had to deal with prejudgement from the start. But we remember that we are all one.

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Lose your hate through forgiveness. very nice.

(10 Jun '11, 06:53) you

i want to walk now but thunderstorms ahhhhhhhhh!!!!!! lol,, ty my freind, ty lnl

(10 Jun '11, 12:09) TReb Bor yit-NE

ty brother , i appricate ur love!

(10 Jun '11, 22:04) TReb Bor yit-NE
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Hey Rob,

Sorry to hear you are going through a tough time. Are you ready for some tough love?

We love you and I see that you had bold typed the word cannot. That is not true. You can and will. You are purposely giving yourself permission to act this way. And that is fine.

What got you out of those thought patterns before? How did you break the synapse last time? You did it once and you can do it again.

You will do it again. Put channeling on hold. Get 'quiet" Stop watching television and only visit creative sites on the internet and keep that to a minimum. Heck stay here and let the others give you loving kindness.

Rob, you are a wonderful loving person accept that and share it with the world. Do not give yourself permission to go in a negative direction.

We love you.

You will do this.


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answered 09 Jun '11, 23:48

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ty ,, i love u all ,, tghis is why you havnt sseen me here lately ,, i will make it here more often, promise, thank u

(10 Jun '11, 01:02) TReb Bor yit-NE

Michael and Michaela both said it really well. Sending love to you, Rob; you will get through this.

(15 Jun '11, 19:45) LeeAnn 1

As Michael just pointed out you can help it. You've been there before and part of your psyche is allowing you to be sucked back in.

Rob, I think you know that no-one is here to judge you. The first thing you need to do is stop watching this case. There is obviously still part of you that is vulnerable and just being aware of that and asking for help here is enough to let you know that you hold the reins.

Please put your attention on all the positive growth that has taken place in your life and in your relationships with your wife and son... you know you were given a very special gift in him. He has been your incentive for waking up so stop feeling sorry for yourself and thank him for the role he chose to play so that you could wake up and realize your true potential... sorry Rob sometimes tough love is needed and in your case I think that time is now.

I'd also go with putting your channelling on hold for now... just go within and get in touch with your own higher self, right now that's all you need. You can do this and you know you can.

Namaste... and I really do see the Divine in you :)

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answered 10 Jun '11, 00:46

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u ar right, i ahve not given anything teh attention it deserves,, the channeling needs to hold because i think that this si a part of the whole thing too, i have tryed to help a group and i feel liek i failed them too, BUT i know when they are not willing to change or grow, it is not MY fault, i ahve done what i can , ty and i love teh TOUGH love lol,, ty all sooooo much !!!

(10 Jun '11, 01:04) TReb Bor yit-NE

Rob you have not 'failed' anyone... lose that thought :)

(10 Jun '11, 01:26) Michaela

And if your channelling entity is authentic, they'll wait until YOU are ready :)

(10 Jun '11, 01:28) Michaela

u r right , he tells me wahen i feel like this alot of his messages are lost anyway , because he cannot express the love through my anger and hate, u r right ty

(10 Jun '11, 22:05) TReb Bor yit-NE

@Rob... You will get through this :)

(11 Jun '11, 12:16) Michaela

;-) ty michaela,,, ty all lnl

(11 Jun '11, 18:31) TReb Bor yit-NE
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First, take a few deep breaths and when exhaling just say “peace”. You seem to be on a road based on someone else’s manifestation which you have now taken ahold of and are manifesting off of their manifestation.

So, first step…use EFT and tap on the points and just repeat “I prefer Peace”. Do this whenever you feel emotionally tied up in the situation or any situation. It takes a few times but I promise you that you will be moving towards a level of peace you never thought you could achieve.

Additionally, redirect your energy. You have tied your self in knots in trying to deal with a situation that you cannot not change. You have even sought out, through channeling, the individual and that resulted in the knots becoming tighter. So, take your energy and redirect it, how? You can not change this situation but have the power to change a future situation. Get involved with a group that advocates for children. Donate your time and energy in the name of the lost child, not as a reminder to you to bring up old wounds but as a dedication to her as the beautiful person she was and that you want all children to be free to be happy, joyful, and loved.

Third, separate yourself from the situation and the girl. If you are channeling her and she has carried this into the next world then you cannot do anything in this world to change that.

However, possibly through your channeling you can help her. Appears you have made a connection with her, thus take that and send her feelings of love and peace. That’s all, let her experience those feelings. Let her savor them and in doing so you can help her move from her present level up to a level where she is at peace and feels that she is loved.

Send some of this your own way. Life is to be loved, take in the beauty, smell the fragrance of peace, and be grateful that you have this day to experience all that you choose to experience in life.


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ty jim, it is soooo funny u mention teh eft, my wife was just hjelped by someeone and did her 2nd session 4 it, i never thought i would need it beacuse normaly i am so even kelled, not now, ty , i will definatly learn teh new tecniques from my wife, ty lnl

(10 Jun '11, 22:07) TReb Bor yit-NE

hey everyone,, i thank you all so much . even though I am not 100% there, i am much better and it is because of all of your love and wisdom, i love you all soooooo much. thank u all,

love n light,


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answered 15 Jun '11, 12:37

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well rob i have been thinking about you lately. know this you are not alone and you have free will and that makes you very powerfull and ressource full there is nothing you can't achive.just decide to do the right thing make the first step and keep on walking.

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answered 27 Jun '11, 06:52

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thank u my freind,, i aPPRICIATE IT GREATLY ,, I DO ,, LOVE N LIGHT

(28 Jun '11, 21:28) TReb Bor yit-NE

Rob meditate upon faith and trust, and you will get over this hump in your life. Below are scriptures for you to read, and meditate on!

1 John 4: 7-8 ( Good New Book)

“Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.”

The Bible also teaches: God will forgive those who will forgive themselves!

Peace and Love, be strong, God will give you the strength to carry on with your spiritual work!

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answered 12 Jun '11, 00:55

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ty vee,, u have always had a love like no other ,,, i thank u all so much ,, i need real freinds who realy love me, and this group is great , ty all so much ,, ty vee soooo much ,, love n light , i will read these all 2night agian ,,

(12 Jun '11, 22:34) TReb Bor yit-NE

ty vee,,, i love u all so much

(22 Jun '11, 22:37) TReb Bor yit-NE
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