What does 'It didn't work out because the Universe has something better waiting for you' mean for the other person?

I'm sure everyone has heard or read, "It didn't work out because the Universe has something better waiting for you," or something similar.

If this is true, then what does that mean for the other person on the other side of your own situation?

I mean, yeah, ok. I'm supposed to have something better. . .and, that person is, too? Better than me? What if I didn't do anything "wrong," or what if I was the "best" they had?

The phrase makes me feel better for a second but then I think, "Wait a minute. . ."

I'm just really confused by the phrase and I'm not trying to sound all egotistic. But, as I'm typing this. . .I suppose I see the wisdom in the phrase now. The person claimed he didn't have enough self-love so he couldn't be with (he didn't feel good enough). I guess the better side for him is the point in his journey when he does feel good enough. I just wish he felt that with me. .

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What does 'It didn't work out because the Universe has something better waiting for you' mean for the other person?

it can really hurt when someone we want so badly dont seem to want us back. but in terms of energy its not at all that way. our job is to take care of the energy to flow in us and the universe job is to take care of the form. if something or someone went away it means the energies didnt match. simple as that. no one did anything wrong! on one to blame. and no need to try and fix the energy/yourself or the other person, no one is good or bad. if there was drama between you and you knew what you want (and dont want) and still the relationship is over then the energies didnt match. if there was drama between you and you knew what you want and it made the relationship stronger then there is a match. just dont fight it. and it doesn't matter what it means for the other person... you were the best match for each other for that particular time (even if it was just 1 hour). take what you learn from it and move on. if its still bothering you - you didnt fully learn the lesson from this person. what are you thanking this relationship for? (big question but youll figure it out now or in your next relationship). thank the universe and accept the moment as it is, love it as it is. leave your past (blame) and future (fear) and love where you are - without this person, you did the best you can and so did this person. trust that. much love

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answered 20 Feb '20, 03:40

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Thank you for this response. I apologize for such the delay! The pandemic and all. . .

(30 Dec '20, 04:10) OceanSize
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