Why is that if "I appreciate someone" he try to teach me everything and become my teacher in matters which he might not know.

He fail to appreciates his work and plan to drops the value of the person who appreciated his work.

He try to act like he is some million year old on this earth and know everything. And the other person who appreciates his work, he gives him a expression like, "fool" , "don't even know this" .

Why don't he put it in different ways like, "he understand what I mean" and pay more respect to the person who liked it.

Why doesn't he understand, "the person appreciated the qualities of his work". The person mean to encourage you, built your confident etc.

No where the person mean that he doesn't do it in the same way or better in the way.

I've been facing difficulty to make people understand, that my appreciation mean only to the quality to that particular act.

I'm so emotional, many times I break my excitement or make people excited to enjoy and feel better for themselves and to all.

Here all, my request is to pay respect to the person who appreciates you and try to understand what he appreciated for.

If you really want to teach lessons or help your friend. Please wait until your friend meet you with a question or some kind of help that he wanted from you.

asked 15 May '14, 07:43

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edited 15 May '14, 12:54

I Love nature. I cannot stop myself without appreciation it's miracles, that wonder all.

(16 May '14, 09:09) PERFECT GOOD
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Yes it seems that your friends that help but then act like you are stupid feel that in their vision of the world everyone knows what they know. This view is in error, there are people that know things these friends don't know.

It should be a joy helping you, not a annoyance. I enjoy helping and never feel others are below me and why don't they know this stuff?

There is a lot I don't know that most people do know, there is a lot I know that most don't. We are all unique in this way, the same could be said of anyone.

The joy is in sharing so that we all benefit, it should be a joy sharing and being shared with.


answered 15 May '14, 16:08

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Wade Casaldi


"The joy is in sharing" Yes it is. Thank you.

(15 May '14, 23:47) PERFECT GOOD

I this world many will want to share and to show you thing they know. and there is no problem there. some assume that you should know something some will not assume and share it with you any way. if you did not know you will say he teach me stuff that I did not know. if you know it you will say I know that stuff, why is he wanting to be my teacher? and if you know more then what the person is showing you, you will be able to know what is and what is not and see the level the person as reached. and some time some people are not ready to understand or know the truth about something then it is better to let them grow until they are ready. love them as your self. we are all similar but there is difference between us. should we stop loving or helping each other because of or difference? and fall in the judging of each other. if you judge someone he will do the same to you. even what some one appreciate of you might not be the same for you. they could appreciate you for your money,your material stuff your social standing in this world. money material stuff social standing does not mean much you could have all this and not have it the next day will they appreciate you as much the next day? and when it happens to them will they have learn their lesson and grow from the experience and change their value?

no one in this world can be physically at two place at the same time and even if he does is best to make more then one person happy by serving them best they will complain: why is this not done, you could have done more, you could have done this or that, you know better then this, why are you not on time, etc..... do those person really appreciate you? they make assumption and pass judgment on you yet none of them are in your shoe. when the same thing will happen to them what will they say to justify them self? how will they justify that they did the same to someone else? tell the truth about something but do not try to justify the unjustifiable, who is just in this world? is it the one that complain and judge other with out knowing the truth? if he would have been just he would not have done to other what he would not have want done to himself. it is ok let them complain for the time being they do not know better and still need to grow eventually they will become just to them self and other when they awake.

If needed when the storm is passing go in the desert, find a place to rest before you become a carcass.

happy is the man who comes to himself and awakens.

So whatever you believe about these things keep between yourself and God. Blessed is the one who does not condemn himself by what he approves.

Let there be light, be the light that you can be, experience and enjoy.


answered 16 May '14, 15:42

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white tiger

edited 16 May '14, 20:15

Firstly thank you for wonderful explanation.

Secondly If we always keep pain in our heart it will definitely bend us to curse our self. That may lead to disaster.

Share the pain, Share the pleasure in the way that built strong relations.

Do not drop yourself or others.

(17 May '14, 01:41) PERFECT GOOD

@perfect good is the pain your if you do not do it to your self and other but only other do it to you? if other drop them self and other thinking that they are better then other is it your choice or responsibility? you see eventually you need to go to your desert and rest why fight against a storm that does not belong to you? let the one to who that storm belong to find is own answer since he is better then other according to himself. then close the window of the house so the storm does not-

(17 May '14, 14:36) white tiger

let not the dark storm enter your home and wreck your house. You are all children of the light and children of the day. We do not belong to the night or to the darkness.For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. and it is hiding inside of your house until you clean it up. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=chzqWI346DI

(17 May '14, 15:53) white tiger

Yep. thank you white tiger.

(21 May '14, 10:54) PERFECT GOOD
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