Just recently i found out about the law of attraction and gave it a good shot, just in the first few days of applying it ive seen things happen that shocked me. Because you really can shift the reality and even the people around you act upon it in a way that they normally never would have, thats what shocked me how effective it is when used right. It felt incredible i felt like i could do anything i wanted and that there where no more limitations or anything to worry about.

In between the start and end of some goals i was in a state that i was extremely happy and confident that i would reach the goal even while at the moment all outside events showed that the opposite of my goal was going to happen. Untill finally everything shifted dramatically in my favor and i reached the goal.

One piece of advice i would like to give that i think is important is that you have to be sure that reaching your goal brings you alot of happiness, so that you look forward to it the most you can. It helps to gather some positive beliefs about reaching the goal and eliminating posible negative beliefs.

At some point certain things happened that i attached negative beliefs to that i was unable to shift no matter how hard i tried the negative beliefs would go away then come back, together with not getting any affirmations.

I understand that the law of attraction is all about believing fully in your desire. But the biggest setback for me is to keep believing when multiple things happen in a row that are all very opposite to the outcome i want that have a negative emotional effect which results in feeling bad. And not getting any affirmations on top of that. And thus the resulting in the law of attraction failing.

Does anyone have any advice on how to stay strong and keep believing? And how to regain control when negative beliefs get a hold on you too tightly?

asked 24 Jun '14, 09:10

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edited 28 Jun '14, 01:13

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this I will answer:

Does anyone have any advice on how to stay strong and keep believing? And how to regain control when negative beliefs get a hold on you too tightly?

believe in the truth, in truth know your self, then you will know other in truth, not merely on outside things that people judge on.

the truth will set you free.

Therefore everyone who hears these words of Mine and acts on them, may be compared to a wise man who built his house on the rock. "And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and slammed against that house; and yet it did not fall, for it had been founded on the rock. Everyone who hears these words of Mine and does not act on them, will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand. " The rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and slammed against that house; and it fell-- and great was its fall."


Let there be light, be the light that you can be ,experience and enjoy.


answered 24 Jun '14, 16:18

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white tiger


Thank you white tiger this is very helpful

(24 Jun '14, 19:14) RYXON

@Ryxon if you tell the truth to people and they cannot accept it, and they prefer to lie to them self and to you and not ear, is it because they do not hear or understand your word? and the other that prefer to hear that person because he confuse him self and other in to lie and other will do the same out of their own choice. how will they ever escape that eternal damnation, they will die in their sin. Is it my fault if they are not humble enough and they cannot accept that they do not know-

(25 Jun '14, 08:44) white tiger

everything? if you give them word of truth so they can be set free and they cannot accept it and they prefer to be in bond to lie how will they ever lift up the son of man that they are to go above? out of their ego they will hate you and what you say to them. Verily verily I say to you if a man keep my saying he will never taste death. If I have been your helper in so be it and let it be.

(25 Jun '14, 08:47) white tiger

Thanks again white tiger. What are your thoughts not accepting the current truth and wanting to shift it using the LOA?

(25 Jun '14, 09:37) RYXON

Very truly I tell you, we speak of what we know, and we testify to what we have seen, I have spoken to you of earthly things and you do not believe; how then will you believe if I speak of heavenly things? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tbBmpaDBizA

The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit."

every one as free will and they are responsible of it. why should I judge?-

(25 Jun '14, 10:24) white tiger

I am not a divider am I? the truth will set you free.

(25 Jun '14, 10:27) white tiger

I honestly find it hard to find the answer in the above, somehow it doesn't completely connect with me. Though i am in a particular situation where i was convinced the truth was negative because all outside signs told me it was this concerns a private matter with alot of impact.

Still i had been trying my best to believe the opposite with alot of ups and downs, when i was close to giving up. I found out that truth was what i wanted it to be all along. Staying faithful would have been the best.

(26 Jun '14, 06:11) RYXON

@Ryxon What do you view as negative? and what do you view as positive? When you walk up a hill and strain you can view this as negative, when you are on top of the hill you are happy and have a great view from up there, and can view this as positive. when you go down the hill you can view this as positive compare of going up the hill because you do not strain, you can also view it as negative because if you want that great view you know that you will strain again. so your desire are what bring-

(26 Jun '14, 22:26) white tiger

up and down. are your desire negative or positive? when or where is the place that you have the most positive experience? is it on the hill between the up and down? if you would not have climb the hill you would not have that great view, and if you would not have come down from that hill you still would have that great view. then why did you go down from the hill? was it for your desire? or for some obligation that you took for some other desire? make sure that your desire do not go in extreme-

(26 Jun '14, 22:34) white tiger

you are the one with the free will and the responsibility on this? what you desire does not always make you happy and is not lasting very long. What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul? the truth is not negative the lie and the deceit is. in this world many tell lie to them self and other to make them self look better, or they hide the bad part and tell you only the good part to look good. they deceive-

(26 Jun '14, 22:42) white tiger

them self and other. when the other will say to them you did not tell me this was going to happen you told my doing this I would have this or that, it is not at all what I wanted. or they will ask: it is suppose to work why is it not working like you told me? those two person are like in the first example two side of the hill. the truth is on top of the hill where you see all around. if you would see the truth about the deceit and the lie on both side would you take that path also? psalm 24:3-4

(26 Jun '14, 22:50) white tiger
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In other words @RYXON how to rid yourself of negativity that prevents your desires from manifesting?

Karim Hajee has a few words to say on this subject

"The present moment is all that matters. Everything starts at this moment.The past is done with. The future has yet to arrive.

All that matters is this present moment.

When you focus on the present moment, when you appreciate it and enjoy it you give yourself tremendous power, the kind of power that will create and bring you what you want.

Your subconscious only lives in this present moment. Everything you think and believe at this moment is what your subconscious creates and brings into your life. And so you have tremendous power in this present moment, because right now, at this time, you can direct your subconscious to create and bring you what you want.

So think about what you want and not what you don't want, believe you can have what you want. Sure you'll get some negative thoughts and negative beliefs that say you can't or that it's difficult or that you don't know how.

These negative thoughts and negative beliefs are based on past experiences, but the past doesn't matter, your subconscious, your power does not know the past, it only lives in the present. At this present moment you can do and achieve anything you want.

So give your subconscious the right instructions, give it the right directions, start living in the present and let your subconscious create what you want.

When you're not living and enjoying the present moment, when you think about the past, or what went wrong, or about how things didn't work out or when you worry you give your subconscious the wrong instructions, you prevent it from creating and bringing you what you really want.

Your subconscious can't re-create the past, your subconscious can't go into the past, it only knows the present.

And so when you think about the past, when you worry about what went wrong or what didn't work out you handcuff your subconscious mind, it can't work for you, it will try to create the past by creating more negative situations.

It's only working with your present thoughts and beliefs, if those thoughts and beliefs are negative or stuck in the past it will keep creating more negative situations today and you'll continue to have a negative life, one that has more struggle, more pain and more hardships. It happens because your subconscious keeps following those negative thoughts and beliefs.

So today you live in the present moment, you think about what you want, you think about what is positive in your life, you think about having a better life and achieving your goals."

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answered 25 Jun '14, 05:20

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oh this is so good @jaz! Thank you for posting it! :) right to my thoughts :)

(25 Jun '14, 05:59) Olga Farber

Thanks @jaz, this is exactly what i needed. I realize that i was actually dwelling on the past trying to figure out what lead up to the negativity.

I had wrote down the facts of the situation and came to the realizating i felt bad because of something simular that happend in the past. Then i realized i had felt bad that time for nothing because it had turned out well in the end. My feeling shifted, within a few minutes someone contacted me very unexpectedly that fixed my problem. Coincidence?

(25 Jun '14, 06:22) RYXON

@Olga Farber, @RYXON glad you appreciate ... and a special thanks to Karim ♥

(26 Jun '14, 01:07) jaz
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Soothing yourself, in any way you can. The outside things that "speak to the opposite" - they speak to you, showing you where your focus is.

You're working here against a momentum, so don't demand of yourself to go strictly to what you want and imagine it and hold it in your mind - if you're not at that vibrational level, it will be very heavy lifting.

Partly I described in these topic answers what to do:

What to do when life hits rock bottom?
How does one escape negativity when one is surrounded by it daily?
how do i find out what my vibrational energy level is?
Can people absorb/take away your goodness or luck from you?

You can also use LifeFlow to easier meditate and concentrate on what you do want.

You can download a pdf I use to soothe me; you can print it out and stick to a wall to see it often:

All is well.
All is well.
Everything is working out for my highest good.
Out of THIS experience only good will come,
and I am safe.

The secret to "The Secret" is 
really just being willing to be yourself, your full self.
And act like this, and behave like this, and know,
and KNOW,
that it's always in your best interests to do so.

...As you reach for what feels better - you're on your way,
because if it feels better to you, it's never a mistake,
if it feels better to you, it's not the wrong way, 
if it feels better to you, it's Source calling you to completion
of that which you are.

Your guidance system will continue to call you forward,
and the path will become clearer and brighter and more obvious to you, 
the more downstream turns you take.

Your path feels like relief from where you are.

Your Point of Power is in the Present.

There're some more of such downloads here.

And you can also use these self-coaching processes:

Focus delight (general)
3-3-3 clean form
Having fun with timelines - an unusual approach
What's in it for you
State of being (works as a reset)
for developing your mastery: And it's wonderful!

etc. Find more there at the blog :)


answered 25 Jun '14, 03:49

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Olga Farber


Thank you Olga, can really connect with this particular part: "As you reach for what feels better - you're on your way" "if it feels better to you, it's not the wrong way"

(25 Jun '14, 06:25) RYXON

Yes, for me it always is soothing, too. Touching :) reassuring, calming, giving me the feeling of being in the right place at the right time.

(25 Jun '14, 06:30) Olga Farber

if one learns that the desire
shifts or your focus of why
you are here follow it up,
perhaps a part of you grows


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