Is the amount of progress we achieve in our 'Spiritual Growth' or 'Personal development' dependent on our own resolution to grow and the effort we put forth, or are there 'shortcuts' to accelerate the process?

I've always been of the mind that the effort I put forth will be rewarded by the results I see. However, reading this question... made me realize that there are indeed many New Age teachers out there claiming to have a quick fix for spiritual growth. I think no matter what tool we use that ultimately we, as individuals, are the only ones who can determine our progress and actually enforce change within ourselves. I realize I've given my own opinion but I would love to hear some other opinions on this.

asked 13 Jun '11, 22:23

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edited 14 Jun '11, 00:17

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Barry Allen ♦♦

Thanks for the edit Barry... I should have realized the title was too long :)

(14 Jun '11, 02:15) Michaela

No problem, Michaela :-)

(14 Jun '11, 09:15) Barry Allen ♦♦

Since we all live in different worlds on different paths and different circumstances that lead to different results ( I think you get my point :))) I think it is safe to say that some people need to take the long way and some are lucky enough to stumble upon something very rewarding.

So I think I might agree with you in that we are the gaugers of the progress and only we know where we stand and where we think we need to be.



answered 13 Jun '11, 23:43

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I get what you're saying Michael, but even if we're fortunate enough to "stumble upon something rewarding", I feel that we still have to do our own inner work... that "something rewarding" may just help make it a little easier or give us more clarity :))

(14 Jun '11, 02:14) Michaela

Well this posed my most recent question. Is inner work ever done (no I'm sure) but when we get close maybe we change our direction from inner work to outer work and since WE ARE ONE, I can focus on my other oneness as opposed to my personal or singular oneness.

(14 Jun '11, 04:50) you

Can't we do both at the same time:)?

(14 Jun '11, 13:38) Michaela
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I think it’s a case of this and that rather than this or that.

Without our own willingness to allow ourselves to develop and grow spiritually, we’ll remain in a kind of mental understanding loop in which we cap our own awareness. As such, maybe we’ll just continue drinking with our friends everyday down at the bar or while watching sports on TV and thus, we’ll probably remain in a state where we’re oblivious to true reality or what’s really real.

However, once we have the willingness to go deeper and explore and we’re prepared to make the small daily efforts required to enhance our awareness; many paths which were formerly hidden or outside the scope of our awareness open to us and we may feel pulled towards them.

As an example, here’s a personal story: although raised as a catholic and having attended church many times as a child, upon becoming an adult I had zero interest in any kind of organized religion.

However, upon becoming more aware, Buddhism caught my attention. I wanted to know why many people in the west were Christian while many people in the east were Buddhist. I already understood that as humans we’re all equal, so why this seemingly different outlook on spiritual understanding?

Being a practical person who rarely believes anything at face value, I went into a temple in North Eastern Thailand and lived as a monk for two weeks I even had to shave my head and eyebrows to practice detachment :)

During my stay in the forest temple, I realized that the hierarchical system was no different from that of a corporation in the outside world and in that sense Buddhism was no different from Christianity. It was certainly not for me and I knew that first hand, not from someone else’s ideas or beliefs.

However, during my stay I was intrigued by the actual words of the Buddha and wanted to understand more and so I continued my inquiries during the following years. These days, I’m extremely grateful for the words of both Buddha and Jesus, but I have zero interest in either Buddhism or Christianity.

I don’t even care if those people were real or not, it doesn’t matter to me because those words were said by someone and, at least for me, they definitely serve as shortcuts to understanding what’s real. I met people who’d been monks for 25 years who know all of the dogma, but who do not seem to understand the words of Buddha.

In Thailand when you attend a funeral, the monks sit there holding up 4 lotus leaf signs on poles.
They’re preaching:

We’re Born – We Suffer – We Get Old – We Die

They’re confusing the words of Buddha for their belief system’s dogma and misunderstanding. Steeping oneself in dogma seems like a very long winded path to truth. I believe it’s better to contemplate the words of avatar’s yourself and skip all dogma!

So in that sense, from my viewpoint, yes there are shortcuts to personal development and spiritual growth. We don’t need to understand religion to be 100% religious in our personal inquires and to understand the truth that’s always been within us :)


answered 14 Jun '11, 07:01

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Of course I thought of you when I saw the word Great answer under the circumstances

(14 Jun '11, 07:32) you

Thanks Michael. There are as many ways of perceiving circumstances as there are circumstances to perceive. Shortcuts is also a good marketing tool to attract those who want to awaken, but who don't consciously know that they do, yet :)

(14 Jun '11, 11:42) Eddie

Your first sentence left me a little confused??? After I typed the word 'shortcut', I thought of you too. And I agree we can use awakened teachings as pointers...wasn't quite the 'shortcuts' I was referring to, but I do love your answer :)

(14 Jun '11, 13:37) Michaela

Thanks Michaela. You asked if it was one thing or the other and I replied that it was both...

(15 Jun '11, 01:32) Eddie
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Here's where we all are going to show our roots...

I have followed a 12-Step Program for 30+ years...the steps are there...the path is outlined for us...but each of us takes a different amount of time to travel the path...and there are many loops and re-starts along the way...My path branched out into Christianity and a touch of learning to heal people spiritually thru Reiki and Pranic Healing, etc., etc.

I have found that there is only ONE shortcut. Guess what it is??? HUMILITY.

If you are truly humble, and are willing to take the advice of others, and DO WHAT THEY SAY, well, then, you will grow pretty fast.

Otherwise, you get to grow at the usual speed of the normal spiritual person...which is perhaps not so bad, because...


And this is my truth...for what it is worth!

Blessings, Jai


answered 14 Jun '11, 09:50

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Thanks Jai, all perspectives and beliefs are valid. Thanks for sharing yours with us :)

(14 Jun '11, 11:39) Eddie

I'm with you on the "Humility" Jai, but I think we have to use discernment when it come to taking "the advice of others" and doing "WHAT THEY SAY".:)

(14 Jun '11, 13:40) Michaela

I think this depends on your belief. Some people believe that you can only achieve something great thru hard work and toil.. Others believe that there is always a shortcut or backdoor way in. Both are right. But in the large scheme of things...I think it all balances in the end...the Universe has a way of doing that.


answered 18 Jun '11, 21:14

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Yes our beliefs do create our reality :)

(18 Jun '11, 22:52) Michaela

I used to listen to deep meditation CDs and before that tapes for hours on end every night. Maybe a three or four hour meditation listening to those tapes from Zygon international which are now called Mind-Tek. These are very deep CDs for experimental purposes I had listened to when I used to use these. These are called The Ultra Meditation series and the X series as well.

These really did help me a lot in my abilities and my awakening.


answered 19 Jun '11, 02:41

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Wade Casaldi

Thanks for the link Wade :)

(19 Jun '11, 12:41) Michaela

You are very welcome Michaela yes they are very good! :-)

(19 Jun '11, 22:10) Wade Casaldi
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