this is a question for a friend of mine.. he is little and gets picked on a lot. i wanted to know if i could like make him stronger so he wouldnt get bullied so often. is there anything i can do?

asked 07 Dec '11, 01:50

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edited 07 Dec '11, 09:03

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Barry Allen ♦♦

It has always been said that your thoughts or vibrations reflect your reality, and personally I have found that to be true to a large extent so far.

When I was small, I was easily the smallest or little guy in the class but I seldom get picked on. Well, I did get picked on a few times but not as much as some other guy in the class who was much larger than me. I always wondered why until I learnt about the Law of Attraction and metaphysical stuff.

You could check whether your little friend is always living a place of fear or lack due to his surroundings or environment. Like check whether he is always in a happy mood or a negative mood, and if he is in a negative mood always you could try and find ways to cheer him up.


answered 07 Dec '11, 01:56

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well he gets beat up every day... why do you even need to ask if he is always living in fear.. isnt that obvious?

(07 Dec '11, 02:00) D.J.R.

There might be other fear related issues that he is living from which causes them to manifest in the form of being bullied. Such as maybe being in an unhappy family ,etc

(07 Dec '11, 02:47) kakaboo

and if his family life appears to be fine and the only issue is that there are kids who pick on him? then what?

(07 Dec '11, 06:39) D.J.R.

send him to learn martial art i would suggest aikido.Aikido is often translated as "the Way of unifying (with) life energy"[1] or as "the Way of harmonious spirit."[2] Ueshiba's goal was to create an art that practitioners could use to defend themselves while also protecting their attacker from injury.

(09 Dec '11, 20:09) white tiger

the problem if he is getting bullied is not from him but from other kids. the other kids are jalous of him. and they need to prove them self (ego). so you have very little choice in the matter you cannot be there to protect him all day 24/24. and you cannot give him a gun and say shoot the bully. and he does not need to become like them a negative energy. he can stay a positive energy and learn to control him self and others.

(09 Dec '11, 20:16) white tiger

be the circle experience and enjoy.

(09 Dec '11, 20:17) white tiger

I really like your response here white tiger, though I think you should have posted it as your own answer instead of as a comment.

(20 Dec '11, 08:34) Snow
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Hi, It's your friend's fear or lack of self esteem that's attracting the bullies. Do you remember the story in "The Secret" about the gay guy who wanted to be a comedian but everyone kept taunting him about being gay?

He was taught to alter his own thoughts, which really amounted to making peace with himself, and the taunting stopped and his career in comedy took off.

(At least, that's what they say in the movie! Forgive me for not remembering all the details - I haven't watched it in a while).

The LOA works, as far as I see it, like this: Believe in yourself => Believe in your dreams => Trust the universe to deliver and keep feeling good while you wait.

Works for me every time! Hope that helps. Trevor.


answered 17 Dec '11, 17:45

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I learnt boxing which really helped as I got used to people being in my space and hitting me. It gave me a lot of confidence and meant that I didn't have to hit anyone. If someone was aggressive and in my face it was something that I was used to and what could they do?

Most people are not used to being hit which is what creates the fear but after hours of sparring it's no big deal and you learn not to panic when hit and not to panic if someone is threatening to hit you, just respond to actual punches.

Most people, when hit hard a few times, drop their hands and don't know what to do but with a couple of sparring sessions your friend will and this will give him confidence which in turn will mean he won't have to hit anyone.


answered 19 Dec '11, 19:17

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Alan Crabbe

Learn EFT. You can find how to videos on youtube and other sites online. Help your friend to do the EFT to eliminate the negative emotions, fears, and limiting beliefs that are attracting this bullying.


answered 07 Dec '11, 13:12

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