Hi everybody,

i found this page 3 days ago and since then I'm reading a loooot and I love it! this is such a great page! thank you!

I would like to know your opinion about my thoughts....my manifestations. I need some help.

I have to say I am very good at manifesting things and situations. But this time my manifestation is giving me a hard time. I am trying to manifest a vacation to Indonesia with my man. As I always did I took a new notebook and wrote on it: my intention is to go on a vacation to indonesia! Since then I'm writing and reading every day all the reason why i would like to go there, how much I love this country, that I'm thankful for the beautyful weather and how much we are enjoying it.

so far - so good.

the thing is....this time I do have a deadline....this means we have to leave on may 1, 2012 because it's the only time we are off. So I haven't booked the flight yet. He needs to pay back a kredit for our new home and as he says he doesn't accept my money for the holiday AND the monthly (for 1 month) rate of the kredit. So I am trying to manifest some extra money...I already got around 1.000$. (i found some Euros from other travels, my paycheck was higher last month)....I could afford this vacation....not easily...but I think think I am trying to live NOW....I want be any happier with those 4.000$ on my bank account by the end of the year. Do you know what I mean! Ohhhh, how i wish I could finally book our vacation.....and that we could go happy, free and mindless to have our holiday!!!

any suggestions about what more I could do???? every day, when I'm waking up i close my eyes again and I tell myself we already are in Indonesia and how much i love it being here and enjoying the nice weather, the beaches and the sun! and then I tell myself....today something big is coming that helps us going away for a while!

Ohhhh, this became such a long question!?

maybe you can understand me a bit...

thanks for reading! :)

asked 16 Apr '12, 04:31

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edited 31 Jul '12, 14:50

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Barry Allen ♦♦

Hello holiday, may I suggest that prior to going on holidays, you stop running away from the problems or challenges that make you uneasy where you are at right now. Any place can be a wonderful place and any day can feel like holiday, but it's not the place or the day that makes you feel like that. It's you who make those days and places feel that way. Find your peace within, and you will find it everywhere else.

(16 Apr '12, 05:04) CalonLan

Hi CalonLan,

thank you for your answer. I think you are right that everybody should find peace within. Defenetly. But I think it doesn't have to do with this, you know.... It's about a simple holiday! I'm not talking about moving. :) I work a lot and I know I do more than deserve to go on a vacation and see something new. I love the sea and the beaches. so i'll go there!

(17 Apr '12, 03:54) holiday
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Manifesting on demand to deadlines is a really tricky business and you really have to be in touch with your emotions. I'm not sure I would recommend it unless you have really sharpened up your inner vibrational sensors to the point where you have a keen awareness of how different thoughts resonate with you.

A method I have been evolving for a few years - and still proves itself time and time again - is the one I call Surfing Your Desire Into Manifestation.

It can get a bit nerve-wracking at times as the deadline approaches and you don't see any physical evidence of anything happening...you have to keep ignoring current reality and refocusing on your vibrational reality - something that doesn't come naturally at first...but it has never let me down yet :)


answered 22 Apr '12, 16:03

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Well spoken; you've pretty much got to be able to walk through a heavy mine field and have faith and enough emotional relief to know you'll make it to the resort on the other side......I admire and respect your work and study- a few months ago I believe in the post about Bashar and Jedi Powers you said one day you'd reveal your stories of "the unbelievable" manifestations and occurances in your life. I'm dying to hear these stories like a kid awaiting his christmas presents....Could u reveal?

(22 Apr '12, 21:22) Nikulas

@Nikulas - I believe you are referring to Why should we not share our joy with other people if we have manifested something amazing in our life? I've never said I would be willing to talk about any of my manifestations. I've only said that there may be one that may come out sooner or later but that doesn't mean it's something I would willingly wish to happen...I'm happy that it hasn't so far. I like my privacy alot :)

(23 Apr '12, 06:35) Stingray

@Stingray- fair points, my mistake...I do highlight and support everybodys right to their privacy, yet in the stories you've already shared they were inspiring and motivating enough to start changing my own life, it's just it would be nice to get a few more 'collections' of ground breaking stuff to add to my unimportant story book.

Sorry if I seemed pushy and thankyou again :)

(23 Apr '12, 06:50) Nikulas

@Nikulas - No problem at all. The thing about other people's stories is that they can sometimes make you think that there is something special about the other person that makes them able to do things that might not be currently working out for you. I can assure you that there's nothing special about me other than having been playing with this stuff for a long time. The way to build up your own collection of stories is just to start small..manifest a beautiful day, a nice song on the radio...

(23 Apr '12, 08:19) Stingray

...maybe a pleasant journey to your workplace and just start noticing how much the Universe is responding to you regarding things you may right now just be taking for granted. As you start to acclimatize to that habit of noticing how much is going right for you everyday (even if there a few "big" things that are not), you open the door to more and more things going right for you...and your own important story book will fill up fast :)

(23 Apr '12, 08:22) Stingray

@Stingray- I will do as white tiger posts, "experience and enjoy"

(23 Apr '12, 08:28) Nikulas

Love the comments here :-)

(23 Apr '12, 20:58) LapisLazuli
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My advice would be to stop worrying about it so much. I know that sounds simple but you'd be amazed how subtle, and devastating, worry can affect attraction. It is easy to try TOO hard to manifest what we want and when we do this it is because we secretly fear the failure of our efforts. In this case, it sounds like the deadline has corrupted your successful manifestation routine by allowing doubt to creep in where faith should be. Honestly, I would sit back, relax, imagine what you want because you WANT to and not because you NEED to. And just feel good knowing that you'll get what you need. Sometimes we have to let go in order to allow our desires to find a way to us. Interesting article on this subject here...


answered 16 Apr '12, 18:11

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@ HackBen: Very interesting you posting this link, I just happened to find this site yesterday through a google search and I was quite impressed with it. I do agree, this is a very helpful site, especially for beginners or people who have doubt coming into their minds.

(16 Apr '12, 19:17) PurpleRose

Thanke you, HackBen!!!

I read the pages carefully and I really enjoyed them. sometimes I forget the "easyness" about manifesting! :) yes, I really do! because things, I'm not really into, come into my life even instantly! haha! thank you very much once again!

(17 Apr '12, 03:56) holiday
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