Why is it some people who have more than what they need will take from a family member who has almost nothing but what was left to them from a parent who has passed on ?

asked 10 Feb '10, 23:53

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Robert 1

In their mind they don't "have" more than what they need. Instead they continuously need more than what they have.

(12 Feb '10, 09:10) The Traveller

Yes The Traveller and maybe: 'He who is not contented with what he has, would not be contented with what he would like to have.' Socrates

(20 Feb '10, 03:40) Eddie
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.. of Divine Law, and a lack of empathy and care for the needs of those around them.

Divine law will ensure that the ignorance is overcome sooner or later, usually via the road of hardship in one way or another, this life time or next.

This does not help those that suffer at the hand of the ignorant - and this is one 'sin' that really gets me riled. Not that I have suffered that way myself, but I do find it hard to understand how people can be so cruel. My sympathy is extended to you or yours. If the goods/money was stolen, approach the appropriate people for help to recover it ... sometimes perpetrators need a real scare to knock some sense into them.


answered 11 Feb '10, 00:11

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This person is my sister Lorraine,I am having difficulty grasping why she is doing this,even though she proclaims herself to be a good catholic and an avid church person ?

(11 Feb '10, 03:06) Robert 1

Lorraine,Thank You !!

(11 Feb '10, 03:18) Robert 1

Just an afterthought Robert, but is there any chance that the family member who is losing out can be made to see that the kindest thing that can be done for your sister is to say NO to her. It will save her suffering in the long run. "What you do unto others will be done unto you" -Bible

(11 Feb '10, 23:39) Inactive User ♦♦
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Sometimes people don't have a compassionate heart or caring heart. Sometimes they don't have the love of God in them even though they say they are a christian or they believe in God. Some people excuse me for saying this but some people or just church goers which means that they go to church or pretend to be christian. Or as one of my pastors has said they play church they are not for real. A christian acts Christ like. Do they stumble and fall sometimes yes, they do than after a period of time they get back up and continue on their spiritual journey. For you start out as a babe in Christ and are feed on a bottle the word of God than you learn to crawl, walk and eventually run but all of that takes time.

Some people will tell you that they love you but it is only a word to them void without meaning. Than again some people just don't know how to love are they don't care to love.

Now before anybody gets upset I am not saying anything against going to church or the people in the church I was just trying to answer the question that was ask the best I know how to. If I have offended anyone I apolize ahead of time.

Now we are all trying to become better christians those that believe in God and Jesus Christ. But we are far from perfect. I believe as long as we are in this physical body we will always be continueing striving to be perfect and each day we learn more and get better and better at it. Than when we put on our spiritual robe after leaving this plane the weight of being human will lifted off of us and we can truly be the sons and daughter of God and brothers and sister of Jesus Christ.

I belive the human race is loosing its ability to love, care, fairness in justice, understanding, about one another for if you don't use something than you lose it or forget how to use it and we humans are not using our ability to love one another as God would have us to. We suppose to treat one another as we would like to be treated.

WE try to pull one another down from both ends the people who have a lot do it to the ones who don't have and the ones who don't have try to pull down the people who have dispising them because they have achieved it. I don't understand us as human being how we could be so careless and do so much harm to others. The humans do a lot of harm to one another on this planet we call earth.

This is our paradise we should help to keep it a pradise and take care of mother earth, the animals, ourselves, and others. If we all help one another and look out for one another this would be a great place to live in. But us humans are destroying this world and the people in it because we simply just don't care and we let greed, power, evil, lack of being able to love controll us. A lot of times when bad things are done there is no remorse in the heart, mind, or soul. It is almost all three parts of that person is dead already they are just walking around but they are dead in every other way.

Whomever who has done this to you I hope they have a change of heart will give you back the things they have taken away from you. But keep trusting in the Lord and talking to Jesus he will guide you through he will be with you through it all with his love, power and protection just hold your faith strong.

Hope all will be better for you and your soon.


answered 11 Feb '10, 08:17

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Thank You Flowingwater !!

(11 Feb '10, 15:15) Robert 1
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